3 Moves To Create A Spark On Your Dates
Here’s how to flirt without masking your true personality 🥸
- Let them know what attracted you to them.
👉 Say, “there was this one thing that stood out to me…” or “this is the reason why I matched with you on a dating app…”
This is really powerful as it positions you as the chooser, not someone who needs this date (any date?!) to work out.
- Speak up if you disagree.
👉 If you agree with everything, you’ll be seen as a fan, not a lover.
Being confident enough to speak truthfully is one of the easiest ways to create more tension on your dates.
- End with leadership.
👉 Be bold enough to say what you'd like to happen next.
“I’m having fun talking to you—how about we grab dessert somewhere else?”
or
“I’d like to see you again.”
Then take a breath, and see how they respond.
Create a moment of tension = create the spark ⚡️
