3 Reasons Men Should NOT Chase Women 💯

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These red flags in relationships and dating will help you understand why chasing women is not in your best interest. For more relationship advice for men, and dating advice for men breaking down red flags of dating & relationship red flags. Get your copy of "He Who Finds A Wife" below:

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A man should show desire, but do not cross the line of desperation. How you start is how you finish, so their needs to be a mutual effort from both parties. Build something amazing….together to prevent resentment.

Scripture says "he who finds a wife finds a good thing", but don't confuse that with you chasing women. Focus on your purpose, and your growth. However be willing and able to put forth the right effort when the right woman comes along.

As a certified life coach, dating coach, and relationship coach I provide relationship advice for men and women. We should respect women, but we must first respect ourselves and avoid getting caught up in the wrong relationships. Don't get blinded by your desires, because you will start to get tunnel vision, and overlook relationship red flags.

Stop chasing women…stop chasing her. Instead you should pursue your purpose, pursue your growth, and pursue God. If you are asking any of the following questions:

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  • Rajaneen says:

    These are valid points you brought up. I believe when two people have a genuine connection there is no need to “chase”.

  • Young Esco says:

    If you treat her like a celebrity, she’s going to treat you like a fan!

  • MSC ISLAND says:

    To be honest. Just stop chasing. Focus on yourself, and work on bettering yourself. Work to reach your goals. And your purpose. I’ve realized in my years of dating, women aren’t special enough for me to waste my time chasing and spending my hard earned money just to get her to notice me and give me a chance. If a man has to jump through hoops, and have to do A through Z just stop chasing. I’m on my purpose, and if they come they come, if they don’t, I’m still going to be me. And my grind to reach success won’t stop for no women.

  • jacksom says:

    You are 100% correct. I experienced this in my last relationship. Never chase a woman, she will constantly string you along to a point that you start feeling unworthy. Men with high self-esteem, who are confident and have self happiness/love within will never chase because they know their worth.

  • Charlie Amabile says:

    If she plays games & makes u chase her, she’s NOT worth pursuing.

  • Mackdaddy 215 says:

    Self love is truly the best, I have chased before and that doesn’t get you anywhere. What’s yours will never leave you or make you go through hell just to be with them.

  • All-World-Gaming & Ministries says:

    It took me a VERY long time to learn this lesson…a childhood and teenage years of being a recluse and shy and lonely made me think I had to chase women

  • Joey Davis says:

    Thank you!
    You’ve confirmed what I’ve believed for years.
    I’m repulsed by the thought of having to jump thru a bunch of unnecessary hoops.
    In these American cultures, people can make things much more difficult than they have to be!

  • Baldy says:

    Thank you, Stephan. I was in a relationship with a beautiful soul, who unfortunately had childhood emotional sexual abuse. I would often be the one who had to fix things, to prove myself trustworthy. “The more you do well, the more she would become skeptical of you.” – is so true! The stronger I feel in the relationship, the more walls and tests she throws at me. At times I don’t have any more mental energy to focus on anything else but to give her attentions and love. I’ve realized now, that I can’t heal her. I need to save myself first…

    • ADEDEJI MICHEAL says:

      Congrats u are back on track

    • talique whack says:

      I got 20 dollars that this beautiful soul you speak of was a virgo

    • talique whack says:

      Elijah 24 wow….. and i have absolutely nothing bad to say about a libra lol…… it’s a vast world of zodiacs i tell ya

    • Paniq says:

      She sounds like a “fearful avoidant” attachment type. Hot and cold — fire and ice!

    • Kicks a Lot says:

      I just ended a two year relationship with a woman who had very similar trauma. And I experienced the same as what you described with “tests” and “walls” and I was over investing in her and getting very little in return. We broke up once before and she pulled me back in. She is “fearful avoidant” and the push pull is normal for her. But we mutually agreed to call it quits. She knew what she was doing wasn’t fair to me. She knew she had more healing to work on. Sucks because we did live each other, but just like Stephan says it was getting toxic. And now I’m trying to heal from this failed relationship.

  • I'm No Expert says:

    “Don’t save her . She don’t wanna be saved .”

    • ZS Chetty says:

      J. Cole

    • Bmb Lafamilia says:

      nope not J. Cole brought it back but Project Pat coin that phrase in early 2000s

    • Casey Burt says:

      @Regulus “Ancient of Days” BathKol & Garden of Eden You have to much time on your hands! Damn. Chill brotha!

    • I'm No Expert says:

      @Regulus “Ancient of Days” BathKol & Garden of Eden
      Yeah , that’s why it’s better to abstain . That doesn’t stop people from being liars or manipulators . Men or Women . This is merely behavioral awareness . People pretending to be the victim , can’t find a good man etc , and yet they treat men who would be good to them with disdain . It’s men saying to one another ” I’ve noticed this as well ” . Encouraging to each other to stay focused on purpose and not on pursuing women .

  • Jay J says:

    “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn”

  • D-Vision says:

    It’s great to see a Christian man giving sound dating advice. God bless you, bro!

  • Charles De Rosas says:

    3 things men should chase:
    – career
    – health
    – goals

  • Andrew Hurst says:

    Love videos like these. Super empowering. Good to know there’s a community of other people feeling the same way out there. I’m always struggling, thinking about/chasing. I guess it’s just biological. But I’m trynna stay focused on my goals and career, rather than constantly wasting energy on women. Keep y’all heads up, kings ☝🏻

  • Amaya Zelaya says:

    “You can lose money chasing women but you’ll never lose women chasing money…”

  • Raymel Shaw says:

    I listen to this as a reminder to stay on my purpose and focus on my goals. I’ll always show interest in a woman but I won’t chase.

  • Levi Owens says:

    So many people get lost in chasing after these broken toxic relationships the forget to notice who’s watching them.. our kids gets sucked in and next thing you know it’s a generational curse. Gotta stop the chase, stop the cycle, raise our future right. Thank you I enjoyed this.. I’ve been chasing my wife 3yrs. Decided this weekend.. I’m done.. its toxic. Especially for our kids

    • Stephan Speaks says:

      I’m happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through! 🙏

    • marshall Billion says:

      that is good man i decided the same how did you manage it i mean since 11mnths ago you wrote this did you succeed?? need tips and steps you took bro..

    • Omiunu Samson says:

      Hello I’m so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together……

    • Omiunu Samson says:

      Contact him👆👆

  • Predict Tv says:

    I can relate totally. I just got out of a horrible relation where I practically had to sacrifice everything for her and her kid. I gave all my time, energy , resources and it was never enough for her. I kept trying and trying but finally had to let go when I realized what I was letting her do to me emotionally and psychologically. I wish I had come across your videos much earlier…

  • Stephan Speaks says:

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    • Mo O says:

      I’ll be buying mine Friday

    • Mo O says:

      So what I’ve processed from this video you can initiate the interest but if she doesn’t give some type of vibe of interest then keep it moving. Thank you i felt you were talking to me in my kitchen

    • Annan maramba says:

      I’m from Kenya is that book already here. ? I mean he who finds a woman

    • Joseph Gatambia says:

      I went through a horrible rejection last year and decided to never chase women,and av never regretted making that decision.

    • Annan maramba says:

      @Joseph Gatambia I’m going through it now brother. She already decided to leave but she said end of this month. She stays in my house. Her sister requested me, she stays there gets a salary then she rent house. So everyday we are in this house no talking nothing completely nothing.. I’m going to suffer for the next 20 days. So that she get a salary and leave. I’m really confused.

  • Totally Plugged In says:

    You really are an emotional genius. Great advice, I wish I’d seen this and absorbed this before I lost the girl for these reasons! I pray that I’ll learn these lessons going forwards. Thank you!

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