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3 Ways to Activate His Deepest Desire | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and 3 ways to activate his deepest desire as a man.

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VIDEOS ABOUT COMMUNICATION WITH MEN (Communication Advice)

3 Things You Can Say To Make Him Feel Like a Man

5 Things Never to Say When Fighting (How To Communicate)

What to Say When a "Vanisher" Comes Back

VIDEOS ABOUT DATING ADVICE

7 (FALSE!) Reasons You're Still Single

Funny First Date Story! Gotta hear this?

What NOT to do on a First Date (Strange But True)

VIDEOS ABOUT UNDERSTANDING MEN

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When Should You Sleep With Him?

VIDEOS ABOUT WHAT MEN WANT / HOW TO TELL IF HE LIKES YOU
The Kind of Confidence Men Find Sexy

5 Unusual Signs Your Man is into You!

How to tell if he is emotionally available

VIDEOS ABOUT CONFIDENCE AND SELF-WORTH

3 Affirmations to Attract Love

3 Ways to Create More Self-Love

Uncool is the New Cool (5 "Uncool" Things I Do)


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Mat Boggs Bio:

As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.

As the best-selling author of Project Everlasting, and creator of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs? dating and relationship advice has been featured on national media including The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, Oprah and Friends, and many more.

Mat's Mission: To increase love in the world, one heart at a time.

As a dating coach for women, Mat believes that your history does not determine your destiny, and that you are more powerful than any circumstance you are facing. The relationship dream in your heart really can become the life you love living!

Mat Boggs highly acclaimed relationship programs have served women around the world in all age groups.

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  • @aimeemetzinger6718 says:

    I have taken a few year break, and it makes sense that I’d have to ‘allow myself’ to ‘need’ a man. I hold so much reserve in that regard after a long term marriage ended in abandonment.
    An unhealthy rebound relationship and a later relationship out of loneliness (with a jerky lush), have really made it hard for me not to isolate, outside of work.

  • @rebeccastevenson8904 says:

    My husband had a gorrible day today and I used the phrase “You do an amazibg job of being my man,” and I’ve neverbdelt his energy shift so quickly into melt mode. It touched him where he needed it and breathed a little more wind back into his sails.

    I’ve veen watching your videos and have found so many good things to glean from them. Many things and concepts i eithwr already do or have known but its nice to know I’m on the right track after almost 17 years of marriage. Thank you, Mat! ❤ 🤗

  • @jameslakewood1 says:

    Thanks for explaining what it means to respect a man and what makes him feel respected

  • @matboggs says:

    Join the *Manifest Your Man* program and get *coached by Mat Boggs TODAY* : https://www.bravethinkinginstitute.com/love-relationships/resources/mym/offer/strategy-session

  • @terriestes4973 says:

    Mat, you have such great advice! Thank you so much! The way you describe everything makes it so much easier to understand the process again. I was with my man for 27 years and he passed away going on 6years. Now I want to start again and it’s very intimidating but it’s exciting too. Thanks for refreshing my memory how it all comes together again.
    Wish me luck! Thanks again.

  • @joheming801 says:

    Married 37 years and this is some of the best marriage advice I’ve heard! And I can promise it works, too. Sharing with women in my family! Thank you.

  • @coffeefordinner says:

    Great advice. Essentially you’re lifting his confidence and bigging him up as a man. Very easy and wholesome to do when you’re with a man you really like or love!

  • @beautylife310 says:

    “You do a great job of being my man”, what a compliment! Wish I can have a man that I can say this…

  • @annadawson5325 says:

    When my husband was really sick and couldn’t work or do a whole lot like he used to, he got pretty down about it of course. Anyone would when you can’t do what you are used to, women do too. So one day when he was really down, I said I loved him and had to go run an errand and will be back soon. In addition to that errand, I got him a blank card with cute animals on it and inside I listed all the things he does for me even when he is limited to the house. It was a long list as I filled that card up on all sides except the front , and I sneaked it in the bedroom and put it on his pillow when he was in the washroom, and went to start dinner in the kitchen. I had a huge grin on my face the whole time as I listened to him go back to the bedroom and hear him open the envelope and a minute or two later he came in the kitchen with tears streaming down his face and hugged me for like 5 minutes!! I said see? I will always need you, no matter what, I would be a wreck without you, I love you. It made me feel better that he saw what I have been saying to him all along. It really helps a lot when someone actually sees on paper all the things that they contribute, it makes it feel more tangible. It made him feel very needed, desired and loved even when he didn’t believe it himself because of his health at the time. He also said he loved me just as much as the day we met. Always surprise your partner with lots of little things, because it is fun to see their reaction and it makes the giver that much happier too.

  • @alicebadler says:

    Hey Mat – I have been doing inner work for 20 years (still doing inner work) and added dating/relationship work about 8 years ago. Have read books and done seminars and now finding these great youtube vids. I have done programs with leaders in the field and I have to tell you that you are AMAZING !! You give us such important information, in a language we understand, that entails both how men feel, what they need AND inner work type stuff (for us). Fantastic – thank you so much. I have a lot of your vids to watch, I see 🙂

  • @jennahudson3420 says:

    I have said, “Do you want to know what I love about you?” Then I list 3-5 things and I express my appreciation for him.

    Another thing I told him that I made a New Years Resolution to concentrate on seeing the positive in my man and concentrate on building him up. That was my 2020 New Years resolution. Later in conversation, he parroted that phrase and said, “I want to build you up”

  • @NickNotas says:

    Eye contact, a warm smile, and laugh at his jokes. He’ll melt every time.

  • @Rene-po7im says:

    Wow. I was just imagining how I would feel if my guy said, “You’re doing a great job at being my woman.”. The idea makes me want to cry. I want that validation too.

  • @vhayashi7369 says:

    When they know you don’t need them for anything, that’s when they will treat you right. Getting there is hard since most of us have been sabotoged by Narcissists. Most just want attention and not a relationship so be aware of that ladies. Love yourself and you will be happy. We don’t need someone to love us especially since most aren’t capable. Men don’t need love, they need Respect like he says. Don’t let them disrespect you either! Listen to your gut!

  • @IM-uh5tk says:

    Video summary:
    Men want to provide and be respected.
    1. Choose to need a man (3:50)
    2. Let him take control; believe in his ability to provide for you (5:15)
    3. Celebrate his job well done (9:50)

  • @TarotbyGlow says:

    I’ll be honest, I watch a lot of coaches on YouTube but this is the first time in a long time I’ve felt like I can actually use a strategy without feeling as though I’m playing a game and/or manipulating my partner. Matt, you’re the man! Thank you 😊

  • @jjpl0109 says:

    I thank him for always making me feel safe and protected.

    • @belgicarivera4002 says:

      Wow. What a blessing.

    • @joycee5493 says:

      I feel this way about the man I’ve been dating for almost two months. When the time is right I want to let him know how great I feel when I’m with him… safe and protected.

  • @Urobam says:

    This is an amazing way to treat your husband, partner, lover, friend. The fact that he use and went back in history and saw how man provided and needed to do an incredible job, and for his partner to praise him; Mr. Boggs did not just came with a new theory, or something he created, he used actually facts. Mat, you are doing an incredible job! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @rose-mariedurand6278 says:

    A good advice of mine for yourself and for your loved one,
    is to always (as much as possible) be happy when you go to bed at night, grateful for the day, excited for the next one, and letting him know either with words of just a state of being.
    As an example, I love hot weather, and when it’s 30 degrees the next day, I tell him how excited I am to wake up with the sun and have coffee or breakfast with him the next day. How it feels on my skin, on my health, etc…
    Find things that make you happy on a daily basis and be grateful to share them with him.

  • @SamElle says:

    i struggle with showing men that I need them. I have been firecely independent my entire life and my parents have taught me to be okay just on my own and as a result, its a struggle to let people help me. I definitely feel like guys that have been in my life in the past feel like they weren’t needed and this is something Im working on

    • @PolarBear-mj9wt says:

      When u describe yourself being FIERCELY independant, thats why u are single cos men feel weak or insufficient like this

    • @SamElle says:

      @@PolarBear-mj9wt for sure!!! I’m definitely working on it

    • @lemony-snickett says:

      Wow that’s a really profound reflection, not many people can be that honest with themselves. Props to you 👏👏👏

    • @denisejaydub says:

      Same girl, same. I’m sitting here thinking of ways I could pretend to need something he can give me 😂

    • @susannatuttapanna2010 says:

      it takes practice! Women today can excel at everything men can do, so it can make us feel vulnerable or fake to ask a man for something. Think of it as a ‘stroke’ for him though- you’re trying to make him feel secure and needed. You know, and he probably knows that you don’t deep down need him to fix your tap or whatever, because you can look it up and do it yourself, but really what you’re asking him is ‘show me that you care about me/us’. You’re giving him a little chance to impress you and win you over.

      It doesn’t have to be anything major, just ask his advice about something you’re doing or thinking about and say ‘that’s a great idea’, or ask him to help you carry something or reach something on a high shelf for you, and then say ‘oh, you’re my hero!’ keep it lighthearted and don’t make it something you really don’t want or aren’t interested in. It’s amazing how much men love doing things or providing things for women, they get a proper kick out of it. This is why when we have problems, they come at us with solutions, and it’s why they like to offer to carry our bags and hold doors open for us. You just need to create little opportunities for them, and then make them feel appreciated.

      It’s not, as someone below has commented, ‘playing helpless’- men know we aren’t helpless and that would be unattractive, it’s just a little flirty game that greases the wheels of the relationship and makes you both feel good.

      It’s also a ninja level delegation skill, but use your powers wisely 😉

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