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3 Ways To Flirt (Authentically)

Always getting the message “you’re lovely but…” after your first dates? Here’s 3 ways to start creating better chemistry ✨

1. Appreciate them
   As they’re talking, reach across and lightly touch them on the arm. Pay a compliment about who they are.
   “I just wanted to say I like how passionate you are…” or
   “I like how open you’re being with me.”

Showing genuine appreciation is a simple way to create attraction.

1. Keep it light
   If you’re emotionally heavy, it shows this one date really matters to you. Keep it playful — it implies you don’t need this to work 🙂

… and you don’t. Early dates are about seeing if you connect and if you can have fun together. No one is a match for everyone.

1. Show curiosity
   “You’re a tough nut to crack.”
   “I feel like I’m just scratching the surface with you.”
   “You intrigue me.”

Turn uncertainty into flirtation.
Good flirting isn’t about playing a role — it’s telling the truth about what’s happening in the moment.