5 Deadly “Nice Girl” Habits That Kill Your Love Life | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

View Comments

• Exactly what i needed to hear today. Thank you!

  • Hello mama you look pretty.. don't mind if we chat more. Sorry for asking inappropriately

  • Glad it helps out

• Ohhhh gee. I've done all of them. I have serious work to do! I gotta rewatch this one until I get it deep to the core. Growth is coming. Thankyou 🎉

  • Hello Kerry, we could work out together. I have been searching for a partner.. let's get to know each other more and I hope we could pull up something nice.

• Thanks so much Matt! Lesson learned......changing my ways starting today!! 👍

• I did all those things, because of his job, family. But I’m learning to be better. Thanks

• Thanks Mat! I think another deadly nice girl habit that sabotaged things for me in the long run was not saying "no" to him out of fear that I'd create conflict or tension. Not saying "no" was just another way I didn't show up authentically, nor make my needs equal priority to his, and we couldn't really gauge our compatibility accurately.

• That is SO me! Things have to change! Thank you so much.

• I totally feel these five sabotaging traits… I so related to these.
  I’ve been dating a guy for the past months, he lives 1000 km away from my place. So to meet him, I set up an online date with him (tomorrow morning). He then said it would be so much nicer to be side by side on the date (as we had originally planned). So today I offered to look for a flight. The flight lands two hours before the date, so perfect.
  In the afternoon today he calls me to tell me we would have to grab some stuff he and his friends need for the repair of their cars.
  …I was not very cool, but still didn’t ask him if he had lost his mind. I just reminded him that we had had a date planned and that due to his work schedule this upcoming week we would have a lot of quality time together… in the end I wrote him a message that the stuff seems to be really important to him and that he should do what he thinks is necessary.

  Honestly, guys, I’m out of the game. I’ll take the flight tomorrow and book a nice hotel with some nice treats throughout the week for me. And yes, I am disappointed tk the core. I feel so played…

  And yes, I know, some of the sabotage I did myself …

• Thanks Mat! I really needed to hear that! Love your videos! ❤❤❤

• You rock!! I needed this! 🙌🏼

• 1. Seeking his approval first
  2. Making excuses for him
  3. Constantly draining your tank to fill his...giving more to him than what he is giving you
  4. Take full ownership of issues and not expect him to take his share
  5. Not revealing your unhappiness to keep the peace

  • Definitely, these things make men loss hope and truth.. I hope a get someone as understanding as you

  • I agree, open communication and mutual respect are key in any relationship. It's important for both partners to take responsibility for their own actions and work together to resolve any issues that arise