5 Harsh Truths About Men I’d Share If You Were My Daughter | Dating Advice for Women
Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and how to look for green flags when dating.
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This needed to be heard thank you! I would not add just farther the understanding of boundaries, Keeping them, and knowing difference between that and enclosing one’s self off with walls. I am still trying to find the boundaries that show someone the door for not meeting them, dropping all my walls in want or saying forget this and raising them to the point no one has a chance. Boundaries are always talked about and supposed to personal but🤷♀️
Thanks for the great advice. ❤
Good information!
What a blessing to talk with your daughters about this. So many parents when asked, “How will I know when I’ve met the one? “ Will reply “You’ll just know.” End of conversation. I would also add that many men will be attracted to a woman simply because of beauty, so women need to be reminded that she gets to choose.
Additional truth: Don’t be a collector of red flags … you only need one.
You need to address them too.
Truth! One red flag you see is enough.
Tell it!✋🏽
Sometimes men and women role/feelings reverse 😂
I can say that for me, all of this was true. The talk when i grew up was that the third date was the sex date and i was taught by friends to just be “the cool girl.” Don’t be a drag. That got me used and neglected and cheated on. When i realized all the things in this video, it changed my entire romantic life. I held hard to a standard- even if meant losing him. And i was scared. But i just kept telling myself that if he was meant for me, he will care about what i need. We never argued. I just didn’t let anything slide. And today i’m in such a wonderful relationship. I think it also helps the good men to know that they can trust us. We’re able to say no to temptation because of values. We are not one to give in and thats because our moral code says no. Guys worry about being cheated on as well. I feel it makes both in the relationship stronger and easier to commit to. Hold that standard.
Thank you Mat 😊
Best one yet! ❤ I appreciate you!😊 you and Irene’s daughters are fortunate and blessed to have you both & I bet they are beautiful, inside and out!
great examples given for each of the 5 truths. nice vid.
Thanks Mat! Some harsh truths I’ve learned.
1. Just because he loves you, doesn’t mean he respects you.
2. Just because he wants to be a good guy doesn’t mean he is a good guy.
3. He may want to make you happy, but if he can’t see, hear or know you – if he can’t attune to you – he doesn’t actually have the skills to contribute to your happiness.
4. A man who can’t be accountable for his actions, who can’t take responsibility, will unwittingly cause you pain to avoid his own.
5. A man who hurts himself will hurt you the same way once he views you as family.
Peace and Love. 💜
Far out. Were you just speaking directly to my life??? Thank you. I had been thinking all these things. Grateful for the affirmation today ❤ bless ya
Well said
The hardest lesson I have learned is: “You didn’t break him, so don’t fix him!”
THANK YOU 🙏
Believe this with all my heart.
Braking up is for (a platonic) boyfriend relationship, when we marry we marry for life. Period. That’s why it’s so important to listen to your instinct (not love) in a courting period!
EVERY girl/woman needs to hear this!!
Loooove this video Matt!! This is Awesome! And, one more time STANDARDS are key. Thank you! 🎉👏👏👏🍾
Harsh truth.. If it seems too good to be true, still take your time before becoming too invested. It might not be too good to be true.. but it also might be. Time is still needed to determine the integrity of any individual.
This is an excellent video. I’m still struggling to move on from my seven year relationship. My ex, who I genuinely thought was the love of my life, broke up with me a month ago, and I just can’t seem to let go. I feel frustrated and helpless because nothing I’ve tried has brought him back. I’ve attempted to move on, but my heart still aches for him, and I can’t see a way forward.
Thank you for sharing this valuable information. I just did some research on Fatherabulu, and it’s surprising what I’ve found. He seems genuine and capable. Thank you so much for pointing me in the right direction.
Don’t chase people who ghost you/leave you.
Hold relationships with open arms.
If they do something once, they’ll definitely do it again!
They will definitely repeat any abusive behavior.
They might feel bad or act like they feel bad about it afterwards- But that Will Not Prevent them from doing it again and again.
People Can change, but they usually do Not change.
Thanks, Mat. This is a great video, VERY valuable, useful information on any relationship.
Those were the kindest harsh truths I’ve ever heard in my life. I was wincing going into this video, but came out feeling so good. So respectfully delivered. Thanks Mat 🙂
So true about needing self esteem. I didn’t even know what a red flag was. If ANYONE seemed to want me, that was a miracle right there. I didn’t set standards because I assumed I didn’t deserve the treatment I wanted, so we endured a 20 year relationship. Sadly, I’ll have probably passed down some sad dynamics to our beautiful daughter. Now I don’t think my husband is a terrible man, and in fact, I still love him, but I’m so glad we’re splitting up.