5 HARSH Truths About Men That Women Learn TOO Late

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• "Women don't really understand men"
  Yes Stephan, you're absolutely right!

  • Facts

  • It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best

  • @@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you for guiding us and helping us heal!

  • @@soumya_4313 Glad I could help 🙏

  • Very True 💯

• My husband passed 7 years ago and last year i dated one guy. Now i am scared as hell

  • Sorry for your loss. I lost my partner 11 years ago to Suicide. Was together 10 years. It was simple back then. Dating is nuts now.
    I feel your pain 😢

  • I sorry for your loss ​@@tracylynn75

  • I lost my husband of 40 years 2 yrs ago. We knew, respected and trusted each other. We lived under the same roof and sometimes would not speak to each other for hours in a day. We were both secure and comfortable with this. We each had separate interests and hobbies. The big thing is that we had each others backs.

  • I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤

  • I been saying this since my divorce like where did it go so wrong I'm only 29😂 I was married for nearly 5 years lpl

• Dear Stephan you are a beautiful soul to speak to us women and to speak to men trying to help us navigate the geography of dating and finding our mutual true and healthy love. Thank-You! Thank-You, Thank-YOU! :)
  To the point of your video here re:men’s ambition and “dating potential” I’ve have Been There! Done that. Sooooo true! Really really true Ladies, listen up! Peace. 🙌🏾🙏🏽💜

  • Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

• Come on Stephan !
  You men are super essential to us
  Just meet me half way
  Just not prepared to nurture and shape a grown man

  • Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

• Men have more feelings. When a man feels safe with his woman you see that softness and fragility, believe me. I love loving a man❤

  • Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

  • True 💯

  • Really ?Not all men are the same unfortunately 🥹You will see later the fragility of the man 🤔🫠✌️Always,I respected the man feelings, but was just from my side 🤔

  • @@user-dt1vz4ce2w That man, not all men! I can't have a good meal in front of me and be worried about the bad food I ate the previous week.. I pour my energy to the good In front of me! All the best

  • Very True 💯

• I think a man being vulnerable is a strength as long as he knows who to be vulnerable with. I can contribute to a man’s ambitiousness … if that’s a word... and 1+1=2 😂…

  • Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

• I was with a guy for 6 years and I know now it was for the potential I saw in him… not who he really was. I was toxic and jealous a lot at the time and he neglected me emotionally. We were not good for each other. Eventually I left him because God/my conscience kept telling me to. I’ve been healing over the years and knowing who I don’t want to be with, understanding the red flags, and knowing more about who I truly am. Now I’m interested in a man for who he is, he has great character and now I know I shouldn’t make him do anything, but he does everything for himself 😊 we are both working on our finances/foundation but I really believe we made a connection, and I hope one day God will bring us together for good🤞

  • I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏

  • @@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you! I hope and pray too

• As a man, I'm having trouble connecting or relating to a woman emotionally. I want to understand emotional intimacy the way women do. At least as much as that is possible.

  • Just listening to her and being patient during emotional expression is the first start; support and giving her safety in that moment is key. When the time comes she'll explain the rest if she genuinely feels/knows you care.

  • The fact that you’re expressing wanting to understand emotional intimacy the way women do is comforting to read.

  • Pray & seek the Lord. He created us

• I THANK YOU!! SO SO MUCH!! FOR CLARITY, AND UNDERSTANDING. YOUR HELP IS GREATLY APPRECIATED!!!!!!

  • Glad I could help 🙏

• The term 'projection' is most commonly used in popular culture with negative connotation. However, the most grueling part of my growth has been the realization that we frequently project our own positive qualities onto others. Each time my kindness has been met with cruelty, or ambition with apathy; I've been shocked, hurt and confused. Unfortunately, it's naive and dangerous to assume others, most especially romantic partners, are operating from the same level of empathy and awareness as yourself.

  • Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • Yes, my ex told me one time that you know your positivity isn’t always a good thing 😂