7 Feminine Traits That Men Are ADDICTED to | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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• Thank you so much for this video Mat. As a Black Woman, off the bat, I'm always perceived by other's (mainly white people) in particular to be a man. I'm a natural beauty, and don't partake in make-up, nor do I really dress up, and prefer the comfort of jeans and a t-shirt, especially when I'm going about town and doing regular errands...

  Right now, I'm mainly leading with my masculine energy because I'm focused on switching Careers, in the meantime, I have been thinking of ways to bring forth my feminine energy and kind of "marry", no pun intended the 2 energies with in me.

  Your tips are very helpful, and I thank you for them... especially the 1st trait, because, I do my best to make it a priority to be more mindful about my energy and what I'm trying to attract.. I do find it challenging to slow down, because I get in tunnel vision mode and just want to focus on 1 thing only...

  Food for thought, so thanks again.

  • One of my inputs would be to be agreeable, take time to listen more and hear what your partner has to say. Try not to focus on opposing their points, don't sweat the small stuff.

• Dressing feminine puts me in that space too. I love skirts and dresses.

  • All week I wear a uniform at work, so when it's the weekend I cannot wait to put on makeup and wear feminine clothes. This absolutely makes me feel like a feminine woman.

  • Yes! Putting on makeup doing my hair and dressing in a not frumpy way makes me feel super feminine

• I like to use humor, especially when my guy is "so serious". I laugh at his jokes, try to have him stop for a moment and see the humor in it.

• When i think of things that make me feel feminine- one of the first things is my hair. I have thick, long, wavy hair and just running my hands through my hair puts me in a place. Beautiful scents do that. Clothes that flatter my curves. Being soft and gentle with my man. Those are my top for bringing me to another headspace where i just fully embrace being a woman.

• Keeping a bouquet of flowers in my living space and lighting candles ❤

• For me, it would be moving myself around.. wearing heels or anything which makes me sway a little 😂 Also, being kind and gentle towards the other and empathizing with them. Being close to nature really opens up my feminity as well.. Being a little frisky is always a great idea to keep the fun going.. Just try to live in the moment and enjoy the little things. ❤️

• Oh my goodness...was doing a number of these with a narcissistic. Big mistake!! Caution to you.

• Mat, thank you so much for this video. I feel such deep gratitude and excitement in my heart. 🥰 I love the tip of making a request of your man for something you want to do and having him come up with the idea to provide your desire for you. I will be utilizing this with my guy, very soon. 🫶❤️💕

• I remember you telling a story about being on a journey with your family and I think your grandmother stopped to smell the roses .. or something similar!

• 7 Feminine Traits That Men Are Addicted To.
  1. Savor the present moment. Slow down, pausing.
  2. Soft gentle touch. Caress.
  3. Nurturing and taking care of others. But dont empty your tank.
  4. Expressing and receiving your needs. Invite/request.
  5. Encourage his growth. Celebrate each other.
  6. Up for anything spirit. Receiving energy.
  7. Focus on beautification. Your space.

  For me to step into my feminie energy after years of being alone and not considering it is this. Taking care of me. A nice relaxing bath. A facial. Doing my hair and makeup. Dressing up and putting on jewelry. And perfume. Smelling nice etc.