7 Relationship RED FLAGS IN MEN You Should NEVER Ignore! | Stephan Speaks

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• As a man, I appreciate you making these videos. I feel you’re very good at uplifting one gender without knocking the other. I also watch the videos you make geared to women because it gives me another perception to help me see my faults

  • Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

  • Great comment.

  • @Stephan Speaks my pleasure, while I admit I’m not perfect, I will always try to look at ways to try to be better and I feel you’re really trying to help everyone do it

  • I do the same thing! I want to be healthy and be the person and future partner God wants me to be.

  • @K Square Show you are a good man

• A man who wants you to be "50/50" is the same man who will have you carrying the groceries up the steps and changing tires in the hot sun.

  • Or he will have you working right until you have the baby!

  • @L K and still paying your share of the Bill's while on maternity leave.

  • Soooooo true!!!! Lived it....

  • Yep

  • 😲 yep!

• Your time is precious, let no man waste it! 💯 Get your copy of the bestselling book "He's Lying Sis" here 👉 http://www.heslyingsis.com 👈 this book has been helping women everywhere!

  • Please what do you say about a man saying the lady should be paying her transport fare for outings and to come over to his place

  • @Queen Pearl do u need him to always drive you around ? Does he always have to pick you up.

  • I was paying half before my marriage and after, half for groceries, vacations household bills, he is now my EX HUSBAND🤣🤣🤣🤣 For real though, I had no problem with it

  • They call that paying dutch which has to be explained first by either.

  • I am so inspired by your channel I just ran across it watching regular videos and you really make things clear I had a lot of changes and I still have a lot of challenges ahead of me emotionally physically and spiritually. I am a mom and a wife and a daughter that I am mostly MOM! I HAVE FOUR TEENAGE SONS TWO THAT ARE AUTISTIC AND I AM NOW ON DISABILITY AND MY HUSBAND HAS ABANDONED THE MARRIAGE THUS I HAVE MOVED IN WITH MY PARENTS BECAUSE IT'S HARD TO TAKE CARE OF MYSELF I HAVE SEIZURES I HAVE 15 DOCTORS AND ALL I CAN THINK ABOUT ARE MY FOUR SONS YOU'VE GIVEN ME INSPIRATION TODAY THAT LIFE CAN BE CHANGED AMEN 🙏

• Please talk about men that are intimidated or jealous of a woman’s success, money, personality, potential and sees her as competition. It’s definitely a red flag

  • Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

  • Sad but Absolutely True

  • Girl yessss!!! Please talk about this

  • Please

  • Men are not intimated by her success. They just don’t give af about your status.

• Please do a video on emotional abuse. Some of us women do not realize we are being emotionally abused until some kind of damage is done. Like when a partner goes quiet on you for so long and later comes back and blames you for something you were not aware about or did not think was an issue. Or even after apologizing about a mistake.

  • That's a great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

  • Dealing with that now. Verbal,emotional,financial, even throwing stuff at me. I am completely torn up inside. I never knew this was another part of domestic violence. Sad thing is my kids think it's okay to treat me the same way

  • Some days it is very depressing because I do miss him,the old him. Nobody thought we would ever end up this way.

• 16:37 really spoke to me. Just left a situation like this and glad I did. Sometimes our desire to just “be” with someone can affect us negatively especially when we know we’re pretending we’re okay but settling for less. Do yourself a favor ladies, if he’s purposely not trying to claim you, stop wasting your time and let it go.

  • Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

  • i Have Done the Same, just Stepped Out, and it has been the HARDEST THING, that I have ever done, with a Relationship. He Stole every it of my Self Confidence & Self Esteem, + My TRUST. I TRUST NOBODY, other than my Best Friend Anymore & She tells Me, that I did the Rite Thing.
    (She Didn't Like Him, from the Start, always said that He was a " PRETTY BOY, WANNA BE) & SHE WAS RIGHT. HE WAS.

  • @OJ TALKS how and where are you in your healing if you don’t mind me asking?

  • YES💯

• I've been in a 30 year relationship where my husband fits four of these things (50/50, doesn't listen, verbally & mentally abusive and doesn't meet my needs). After doing pros and cons, and stumbling across this video, I'M OUT! Thanks for confirmation.

  • Run Girl Run LMAO

  • Good for you he won't change EVER😒

  • I hope that you confronted him about his ways and at least given him a chance to change or not because no one can fix what they don't know is broken. If you're a church goer then I hope that you have tried married counseling with your pastor? if you haven't then at least therapy. I hope that your marriage can be saved. And it can if both parties are willing to do the necessary work. Best wishes to you and I hope that it all works out for your good.

  • My husband tried to end my life twice I was not going to make it three times I had not seen him in over a decade he tried to get me back I said HELL NOOOOOOOOOO I love ❤️ my life….REAL TALK 2021

  • @Wilma Babygirl56 I am so glad that you found a way out of an abusive married and I wish you all of the best in your life. Happy holidays!

• Sharing a RED FLAG that I experienced: Dating men who want to "Fast Forward" the sexual side of a relationship, and push "Pause" on making a commitment. Women, stop sharing your body with men who do not love you & commit to you.

  • Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

  • @Stephan Speaks Thanks! I just found your channel and I like your approach. You get to the point and say things women need to hear. Hearing it from a man really helps.

  • Yass

  • True!💯 Especially a lot of young women who look up to celebrities like Cardi B!

• This was amazing! Had to break off my 6 month relationship. My bf couldn’t seem to communicate well with me. It was hard because he would always put it back on me. I set boundaries and he never truly respected them. I was not being heard.
  For me…I Let go!

  • Just went through this he would stall. “I don’t know right now” “idk what to do” “I’ll get back to you” on serious topics.

  • @Monroe samee :(... Sucks

  • Really

• If a man have to hide you, then he's hiding something or he's ashamed of you. A man is Supposed to provide and make sure that woman is safe with him. Thanks Stephen

  • ❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

  • My ex bf always hide me. No one knew We were dating.

  • @Jessi I wonder if he's cheating on you or something?