7 SECRET Criteria Men Use To CHOOSE A Woman

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• I'm a man. A big criteria for me is someone who meets my needs if possible. I am capable of cooking my own meal. It is nice to come home to freshly cooked meal. In the same way a woman can most likely pay for her own dates, but I'll still gladly pay for her.

  • Thank you for commenting. We need more male participation 🙏

  • ​@@MeetStephanSpeaks Cmon Steph. You know I've been here supporting for like forever bro. Cmon now

  • @ChrisW1019 Do you ever cook with a food steamer?

  • I agree to this always cooking and cleaning house.someone who meets my needs to.

  • This is so true well said Stephan!

• Stephan, you are on point those of us who have been married before know a man uses these criteria in making a decision to marry.

  • I appreciate that 🙏

• Cooking is making memories for your family.

  • Well said 🙏

  • Also a simple way to show people you love them😊

  • Very true! Well said

• Thanks for that clarity! Whew!!! In MYYYY current situation, I NEED TO PROTECT MY PEACE from HIS unnecessary drama... It gets on my nerves. I've tried to tell him to avoid nonsense and choose his battles... but he gets tucked into ALL. THE. TIME

  Nope. I can't, I won't invite that into my life for any permanent arrangements... nope. Nope. Nope.

  • You're welcome 🙏

  • Yes, I had this exact situation as well ..... let it go on for much too long.

• You are literally describing me and I hope he knows this!! 😊

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• Oh you are a twin?❤
  Am a mother to twins almost your age. You are special. So wise 🙏

• I invited a friend of mine with me to the Tonight’s Conversation panel and I love how you always, gracefully, mindfully, carefully address topics and how you highlight the very human nature of men that perhaps we sometimes have not considered or even misunderstand. (You were on point about men friendships.)😊

  • Thank you so much! 🙏

• My toxic trait is, I deleted all my cooking videos from my highlights cause I’m never cooking for a MF with without a ring Again

  • Naw I feel you

  • With or without a ring? 😊 I feel you, Girl. You ain't cooking again for no one.

  • I'm 52 and I've been married and divorced I think you got it wrong play the video again

  • I feel that

  • Yes I do I was married for 26 years and I'm divorced almost 20 now and single and alone because I thought it would be forever 5 kids several grandkids and one great grandchild and I love family And I love hard so if it's not for life I don't have time to waste I'm 55 almost 56 I love God even more and my self I don't have time for games thank you for sharing.

• I love all the points especially when you stated that you have to cook for the kids ❤😊!

• 😂 u right Stephan. 🙋🏾‍♀️ I'm dramatic. I'm here to listen to you pull my card and just about read me right in every freaking video. It's completely triggered and I am guilty of ranting in your comments letting my triggers show me that I am absolutely 100% sure I don't belong in any brothas life for marriage, dating, situation, sex... You and I exactly the same age and generation. I am so grateful to hear this because I am peaceful alone, single and doing nothing with men at all. It's freeing to know I won't date, be a wife, mama...no pets, no man and no kids. I'm the best me with myself. Men want us to do ungodly things then want a godly woman😂. To keep my peace I keep men out of my face and continue a peaceful healing. This is helping. I'm not even looking and I have freedom to invest more time with Jesus.

  • Amen sista