7 SIGNS A Man Is Already In A RELATIONSHIP (Or Married!)

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• Also, if he has two personal cell phones or only talks to you on his work phone.

  • Or only talks to you when he is alone in his car.

  • Or makes excuses as to why he can never call you from said phone (s).

  • He does business and has 3 phones but calls me on just one. Is that a red flag?

• There’s a guy I like he seems really into me, he asks me questions like “what’s your type?”, “what are you looking for in a relationship?”, he flirts with me and teases me. I found out yesterday he has a gf, I was disappointed but respected his relationship it made me want to fall back on the flirting, and thinking that I actually have a shot with this guy.

  • I’m so sorry to hear that 🙏

  • Girl. Same. But now he’s telling me he has a baby on the way. That he didn’t know about it.

  • He doesn’t sound like a guy you should wanna be with. If he has a gf but is investing in you, flirting with you and asking you questions it doesn’t sound like he’s respecting the woman he’s with and that’s not gonna change if he’s with you. Also, just a side note…when guys ask what’s your type and what are you looking for, some of them can be doing so in order to ACT the part…to act like what you want. To get you in bed or whatever they want from you. Just a heads up to keep an eye out. Good luck!

  • In my experience when they ask that question they're looking for an "in" to "be" that guy in disguise of what he thinks you want

  • Flirting is just flirting. Don't read anything into it. Men sometimes flirt with women to make THEMSELVES feel better. Some flirt simply because they love women and want to boost their confidence. Others are flirting to build a fantasy life. This guy sounds more predatory to me. Just my opinion. Stay strong, girl.

• I really appreciate the fact that we have a blk Man that's giving insight on relationships, It's rare. So, thank you for the insight on the things I do know and the things that I don't. It speaks volumes when I have had a question on my mind and have it explained or confirmed. I do feel like I overthink sometimes but, the dad voice in the back of my head say you know the answer to that. So, thank you for being there for us and stay blessed with the knowledge you have to help us move in a more positive direction. Much love ❤❤❤

  • Thank you for taking the time out to respond with feedback too 🙏

• I haven't watched the video yet, but my first thought was, "Stephan chose a juicy topic for this one." 😂.

  • lol 😂

• He introduced me to his family… his wife and kids. Even told her, when she inquired, that I would be next if they divorced. She held on for 29 years and counting. I left the state to remain friends… with her.

  • To be fair, he approved polygamy. Neither she nor I did.

  • 😂😂

• I met a 63 year old man on a single dating site he turned out that he was married even after i asked him twice in different occasions he said he was single. I have the habit of researching the men i meet or date the first time. Thats how i found out he was married. I sent him shots of him and his wife and daughters he came back and said "oh i have to apologize " which he never did so i message his wife and explained to her in a nice way what her husband did and sent her proof of messages he sent me and pictures. She said thank you and how she delt with it i dont know but i do know she is still with him.🤔

  • Good for you! Always google search. Repeat every day for a couple of weeks. Other resources are state law enforcement sites, local police arrest records and sex offender websites.

  • Good for you! Maybe they had an agreement, but if they weren't, she's a fool for staying with him. "You can lead a horse to water..." you did the right thing - he's a buttmunch!

  • I had a similar thing happen, not married, but he still was seeing a friend with benefits. I do background checks as well. He is 63 as well, and we talked every day several times a day. This went on for a little over 5 months.

• Ladies, please don't let these situation-ships waste your time and drain you of your energy. Blessings and Peace, family❤️❤️

  • Amen!! 🙏

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  • 💯 I’ve been abstinent for a year I’m not mixing my body and soul with anyone.

• Alot of single married men on these dating sites. Smh. Ladies, always do a background check on any potentials. Info is so easy to find. Stay strong out there ❤️

  • Agree 💯! Research shows that 57% of online dating profiles are married men... Disgusting! Then we wonder why our society is in trouble?? 😳

• I don't have social media. Pretty much only do YouTube, private person by nature.🤷🏾‍♀️Of course cheating is not my thing. Guys that crack on me waaaay to hard upon first meeting me are usually attached.(They have no fear of rejection, so they're extra)

• I can tell a man is in a relationship simply by his behavior and what he does with his time 😮.
  When I find out he's in a relationship I immediately leave him alone 😊
  Then he starts bothering me cuz he doesn't believe that I mean go about his business 😊