7 Signs He’s Not Serious About You | Relationship Advice by Mat Boggs
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So, after spending years on dating apps, I found men in their 30’s just want to have fun, casual because they think that they’re young still, and has a lot of time to think about in serious relationship.
Now, men in their 40’s they’re just got out divorced, and they still feels guilty towards their kid(s) so they would prioritize the kid rather pursue a serious relationship.
And lastly, men in their 50’s, they just got out of decades of relationship, divorced, kids are all grown up, empty nester, and now they’re saying it’s Me Time, so they would live they’re life like they’re in their 20’s and 30’s, casual sex, drinking like in college, staying up all night at the bar, hitting up with women left and right, which they never had the experience because they married early and forced to be serious about life and be a provider.
So, it’s like looking for a unicorn nowadays. Men would always not serious about women and would always not into them unless they are doing it for their own benefits. And not because of LOVE.
I agree with what you say, I’m in my mid forties and I have had and am currently having the exact same experience you describe. I’m quite disappointed.
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I don’t want to be too pessimistic, I wonder what men think about women.
Totally agree, unfortunately
Wow, it’s like it’s a losing battle no matter what age you are…😢
I think men are only serious in the moment they think about creating a family, in this case they commit. Doesn’t mean they don’t cheat. But they commit to a relationship. Other than that, I think most men prefer to be free as a bird and just enjoy life and sex with many different women. They don’t want a commited relationship. I think we have to accept it for what it is.
When someone shows you who they are…..BELIEVE THEM! Getting the lesson…..Thanks Matt!! ❤️❤️
Just watch out for the liars and narcissists😅
Definitely believe them, especially these dayz..!!
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I had him. He is everything described in this video, and I wasted 2 years of my life that I will never get back. But as soon as my eyes opened, I was out, and I ain’t looking back.
Happened to me too and countless other ladies. They are manipulators and only feel you just enough to get what THEY want. I’m glad to hear that you got out. You deserve way better.
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1. He is slow to text or call you back. ✔ (wasn’t at first, but is now)
2. He is only interested in meeting up if sex is involved. ❌
3. He doesn’t give you prime time in his calendar. ✔
4. He dangles commitment but never follows through. ❌
5. He downplays important moments because he’s playing Mr. Cool. I’m not Mr Romantic etc. ✔
6. He’s only around when its convenient. ❌
7. He is extremely uncomfortable when talking about his feelings. ❌
I don’t know what to think about my relationship. I’m not happy clearly. He was perfect at start. But its like now that he has me, there’s no more effort. I love him but I know from experience sometimes we love and still have to let them go. But at my age it’s not easy to find someone. That’s the hard part.
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You sound like me. So painful to let go
@@zolabison2744 it truly is 😭
I would actually say domt let him go but instead talk to him about this. Tell him how u feel. If he talks to you about feelings then its good u can talk to him how u feel about him not giving u prime time etc
@shehnazjabeen6513 since I first commented, we have broken up. I have learned that I was used and he’s been talking to women on dating sites the entire time. I did have a talk with him and he said his feelings just faded away. Well duh dumbass. When you don’t put an effort in, don’t give her any attention or time, what would you expect? Its not always unicorns, and fairy dust and butterflies. 7 yrs and I don’t know how much of that time I was played. I do believe he had feelings and good intentions at the start. BUT he stole years from me and that’s not right. He’s a player. And too old to be playing games. Or just don’t get in relationships if you want to play games. Play games. But with the right people.
I have always said this about men: Actions speak louder words.
You are right dear❤❤❤❤❤
Indicators are 1) when just doesn’t care to get to know much about me 2) He starts acting shady & phony 3) he starts saying certain lines like ” I just need some space or can we just be friends. ” Things of that nature…!! I really love this video it makes perfect sense..!! I’m single but I could really use this information if I need it.
Thanks alot..🙂🙂
My brother told me this. And I take it to heart. “If he’s into you he’ll make time for you.”
Yh
That’s a good brother.
Very very good brother!!!! Congratulations!!!!😊
Ummm yes and no. The time He gives…is he on his phone the whole time…playing video games and not speaking to you? Time is time but how you spend it is how you tell if he loves you.
@@eileen9992the person said the same thing you are saying… making time for the person you care about ….
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I just read something that said, “if you get bit by a snake don’t chase after it and figure out why. Walk away and get the poison out.” Don’t waste time on something or someone that isn’t worth your time.
100% truth! I believe actions speak volumes in relationships.
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You are right❤❤❤❤❤❤
I feel it in my bones when a man isn’t that into me. Things just don’t add up: excuses, etc. My mother always told me that a man who is interested in you will climb a mountain to see you. If he isn’t interested, he will avoid that mountain.
My uncle would walk from one town to the next to see my aunt when they were dating in the 60s. It would take him 3 hours there…to walk…to see her and 3 hours back….they have been married for 50+ years
I needed this video this week, so thank you! All of your videos are clear and easy to understand. I find in my dating experience that if a man that normally texts back frequently and quickly but starts to take longer and has a change in energy, that may be a tell tale sign (among others) that he’s not that interested! Watch his actions and patterns ladies, save yourself the heartbreak!!!
Hi Mat. I was dating guy for 17 months. First year I was waiting for him to retire, so we could realy start seeing each other more often, getting to know one another better. Well, he liked to do things together by saying…we can do this….we could go there…., but never did. So I realized, he is not realy serious about what he was saying and we started growing apart. Now I am in a new relationship, which is just oposit. The guy is a man of his word. Everything is going well, and only time will tell. Thank you for your great advises. You are the best😊
How could I be freaking blind not to see. He shows not one, not two but a few of this signs. Thank you. I have been rationalizing his actions, giving excuses. I’m done.
My dad said to me during my teens (1970s) “never chase a man. It’s a huge turn off”.
My beloved late husband and I met after being set up by a friend. He said he took one look at me and before he’d even said hello, told himself silently “I’m going to marry that girl”. On our second date he arrived with 2 dozen red roses. 2 months later we moved in together. It was just like 2 comets streaking across the sky. In addition to being the worlds sweetest, most wonderful man who put me before anything else, it didn’t hurt that he was 6’4” and DDG. But that was beside the point. For 38 years he was the best reason to open my eyes every day. But fast moving Parkinson’s disease took him; I only had him on hospice for 6 days. His last words to me were “Do you have any idea how much I love you?”
I doubt there’ll ever be another love in my life but after what I was privileged to have I can’t complain.
sweet jesus, is the most beautiful Heartbreaking Story … im glad you both had the opportunity to experience this, Blessings like this are so rare…
Ok …..that made me cry. You are a lucky woman to have had that man❤
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You are so lucky….knowing that i will never have something like that on my life is so sad . ..😢😢😢
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1. Months go by and nothing changes
2. Each time this person has free time, you are never in their plans/never a priority
3. After every argument this person disappears for unknown amount of time
4. Doesn’t spend money on you/ gift you something
5. Treats you like an option/ being wishy-washy
You put it so well !!
Great conclusion, thanks! 😊👍🏼
I would like to add: “always finding excuses instead of searching for solutions” and “still focused on his/her ex”
Been on few relationships before and I always beg for bare minimum. But now, someone came and I’m so happy because he value me. Everything I beg before to guys, he is giving it all even when I’m not saying it. So girls, value your self. Don’t be afraid to start again. Who knows that ghosting or breakup really did saved you ❤️
May God help me with such a person like yours. Blessings
Hands up if you’ve ever come back to this video just to rewatch that section where Mat imitates guys who claim they’re “not good at remembering things like that”…
Absolute comedy gold!
When you are down and that man refuses to pick you up and he refuses to reach out his hand to give you assistance. That’s a red flag