7 Things MEN Say That Are Huge RED FLAGS
7 Things MEN Say That Are Huge RED FLAGS…There are things men say to women that can be huge red flags in dating. These are red flags not to ignore, so it's important you take heed to these dating tips and be sure to watch the entire video so that you can experience an amazing relationship.
I always say red flags are to be addressed, because sometimes it's a misunderstanding or a correctable issue. So if a man ever says to you any of the things mentioned in the video, just have a discussion about it. That will either confirm the red flag, or resolve the red flag.
As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this video helpful and that you will receive the relationship that is truly best for you, the perfect relationship.
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Exactly, cannot force love ❤
What I bring to the table is Me. Take it or leave it.
I like that!
exactly!!!! 💯
Lol… I was asked that and I told him, “I am the table” 😊
@@lilbel73m.86 that’s right
💯exactly
I think the crazy ex is only crazy once she is the ex
ha! That could be true too! yes.
Thanks for dropping your gem today!!! Now I know what to look for once I decide to date. All your videos have really opened up my eyes. I stand on business and I don’t play no games!!! I appreciate you Stephan!!!!
You are so welcome! 🙏
As I’m dating men at the moment, I thought of a good follow-up question for when they say “I just got out of a long relationship”, or “my ex was crazy”. I ask them: ” What did you learn about yourself after that relationship? The answer will usually give me enough information on whether he has good emotional inteligente, self awareness, take ownership of their own mistakes, and in general, potential or not. ❤
Good suggestion 🙏
Love this! Thabks for sharing that.
Agree I do the same thing
I can cosign on that crazy ex one. But after a long relationship, anyone needs time to heal. Nothing they say could negate that
Definitely. Take ownership…so incredibly important. Not gonna beat you over the head cuz you made a mistake, but the fact that you can admit that you made a mistake is huge to me!
Hey Labossiere this is so informative. I usually out of habit sometime speak “Lets go with the flow”. You just made me realize how of an impact it could have on your dating relationship. It would be so heartbreaking getting dismissed because of a misunderstanding or not being clear🤦♀️. This is so good. Keep teaching us. We appreciate it💜❤💙.
Glad it was helpful! 🙏
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Bunny I wouldn’t figure out what it actually meant till he told me u shouldn’t bring any expectations in. I was wondering why he was behaving weird and all until I finally realize he didn’t want or plan to be in a relationship with me.
It was just too painful
The quote in the beginning is more true than many know. I went from being a “runner” to a “lagger”. Working on settling into the sweet spot of the middle.
Thanks for sharing 🙏
Before answering this question of “what’s being brought to the table” we need to investigate if it’s appropriate enough table to even pull up a seat to let alone contribute! Vagueness is a veil/cloaking of ones self, or intentions, typically these folks operate as one sided, and you’re so right about the “my ex was crazy”shenanigans… it’s typically the person projecting outward who they are avoiding personal response- ability! To help me have better understanding of what someone says. I typically turned the conversation around in my head then go from there! Byron Katie is a good read for this technique!
Usually man are aware these are red flags as well and hid it under the table they do not bring it to the table 😂
People need healing before they jump into another situation/relationship. I believe God can heal you from that person that he never had for you in the first place. God gives me peace in my life today. ❤❤🙏🙏
big amen to this!!!
Do you pray to Him for healing?
How do you do it?
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@@AmericanDreamer yes you just ask God to heal your heart, your mind, your soul from the trauma of the relationship. Thats how I found peace within myself!
I was dating a guy who said that men lose in a marriage and men get the shorter end of the stick. However, this man also said that he wanted to be married 🧐
I’m 40 years old. Happily married. And when I dated before getting married I never met a man with these red flags. Actually I could’ve have married the last 3 guys I dated…
I wish for all single women to find a good man that truly loves and appreciates them.
Ladies there are some really good guys out there. You are probably not attracting them. Please take a look at yourself and work on your own red flags! 🙂 best luck!!
Thank you. Bless you
Yes thank you so much for that message 🩷
So true. It’s been over 4yrs ago now since I’ve dated…thought it would be a quick “break” but at that point I realized “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of guy…that I DONT want to attract?” I realized I was the least common denominator here so there was something I was, or was not, doing and I realized I had to work on myself. Now, I’ve also had some medical issues so that plays a part in why I haven’t gone back to dating. I just feel that both parties should bring something to the relationship and I’m not able to do that at the moment, but I have DEFINITELY learned a lot about myself and worked on some things!
@@someoneyoudontknow7705 that is beautiful and thank you so much for sharing. As a woman, we often don’t take accountability for how we show up in the world in our relationships. We tend to always look for an outside party to blame. But it really starts with us. We need to check ourselves…. We need to find what our needs are, what we can and can’t give. And then find ways to give that to ourselves. I wasn’t perfect. I’m still not, I’m constantly looking in the mirror and asking myself what areas of my life I’m not paying attention to, and working on those things. Relationships are so much work, but they are even more work if we are ignoring the self work we need to do for ourselves.
I hope things get better for you, healthwise. And I hope that when you are ready to get back out their dating you find the love you deserve. But remember not to accept or compromise yourself worth for anyone. The right partner will only inspire you to be better 🙂
I would love to know where these good men are located!
Sometimes attracting the men you don’t want is not from a broken self. There are other things in your have to examine. Just be in prayer for God to point them out to you.
The RED FLAG was his lack of communication
After 7 months in he tells me he has a 1 year old. 8 months in I found out he was married (“separated”) with an incredibly physically abusive covert narcissist wifey who “doesn’t care if he is dating me.”
Guess who is stuck examining her own codependency realizing I can’t save him and his secrets were hiding knives that would end up in my back…
Trust your intuition- figuring out the story is not worth your stress or your time
How do you know she’s a narcissist? Sounds like he’s the narcissist
I thought men supposed to lead, support, and defend. So what I’m actually bringing to this table. Please get rid of that table mess lol
I agree prenup is good, especially if you already own your home and you have things to lose and you’re much older in life I’m saying this as a woman who’s never been married and I’m 45😂
I’m 57 and have never been married. I’ve got my own house, cars, etc. and would definitely want a prenup if I ever get married.
Your story reminds me of Job, the devil was allowed to take everything but your life but God restored everything you lost ten-fold 😊🙏🏽❤
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I had a “man of God” who preached how strong of a follower of Jesus he is…. yet he started talking sexually to me not even two weeks in, told ME I must have a spirit of lust attached to me that’s making him do that and to top it off he insinuated he wanted me so badly that he would take advantage of me in my sleep if need be. I told him that is vile and I felt extremely creeped out by him at that point, to which he freaked out at me for making it seem like he would “be that type of guy” and that I should know better that he would never do something like that 🤨 he also talked down to me a lot claiming his anointing was higher than mine and that’s why God has a shield of protection around him. I was just like ok bud, I’m gonna go now. Then he called me dramatic lol. Christian narcissists are a trip. Holy Spirit definitely helped me see RIGHT through that.
I’ve experienced someone like this. A hypocrite is what they are.
Sounds like a guy I came across… mental illness is real. And narcissistic is a personality/ illness that is okay to run from asap! There’s no pill for that at the moment. Also that’s not a real man of God as in the God of Moses, Abraham, Job , Jesus christ of Nazareth. There’s demons out there that present themselves as Lord or God. I only took the time to say this that without guidance some people think all or even most Christians or even other religious branches are wicked. Those type are wicked because of their choices not because of the real living God. I’m glad you made it out There’s many people that fall in their trap. I barely got out myself tbh.😅
Ugh…what a total parasite this guy is …man of god 😂
You avoided calamity. Good on you!
🥹 o my dear Lord. I’m so happy that you didn’t lose faith in Jesus because I have so many girlfriends that have after meeting preaching demons at church. May your guidance from the Hollty Spirit continue to keep you covered in these single streets. Amen!. Block him he’s going to circle back around. Hopefully he doesn’t know your family and friends, places you like to frequent and your address….
I am a calm stoic secure woman. My soon to be ex recently called me crazy and said I have anger issues because I expressed true anger. For the first time in our 10 year relationship.
He called his last ex wife crazy and said she has anger issues.
I see now that he is the problem.
I became a widow last year. I had no idea how things have changed in the dating world. I met my husband at the University gas station, and we were inseparable until he took his last breath. Thanks for the info. I’m not in the dating pool, but even at the age of 50, I need to be on top of stuff like this if I choose to put myself out there.
I will be 🙏 for you and I understand where your coming from I became a widow three years ago this month . 🙏 and trust the Lord He knows when your ready and brings healing through the process ❤
@@tsams4048 Thank you ❤️