7 Things MEN Say That Are Huge RED FLAGS

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• God Must Be Our Solid Foundation! Both Parties!!!

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  • Amén 🙏🏾

  • Exactly, cannot force love ❤

• What I bring to the table is Me. Take it or leave it.

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  • exactly!!!! 💯

  • Lol... I was asked that and I told him, "I am the table" 😊

  • @@lilbel73m.86 that’s right

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• I think the crazy ex is only crazy once she is the ex

  • ha! That could be true too! yes.

• Thanks for dropping your gem today!!! Now I know what to look for once I decide to date. All your videos have really opened up my eyes. I stand on business and I don't play no games!!! I appreciate you Stephan!!!!

  • You are so welcome! 🙏

• As I'm dating men at the moment, I thought of a good follow-up question for when they say "I just got out of a long relationship", or "my ex was crazy". I ask them: " What did you learn about yourself after that relationship? The answer will usually give me enough information on whether he has good emotional inteligente, self awareness, take ownership of their own mistakes, and in general, potential or not. ❤

  • Good suggestion 🙏

  • Love this! Thabks for sharing that.

  • Agree I do the same thing

  • I can cosign on that crazy ex one. But after a long relationship, anyone needs time to heal. Nothing they say could negate that

  • Definitely. Take ownership…so incredibly important. Not gonna beat you over the head cuz you made a mistake, but the fact that you can admit that you made a mistake is huge to me!

• Hey Labossiere this is so informative. I usually out of habit sometime speak "Lets go with the flow". You just made me realize how of an impact it could have on your dating relationship. It would be so heartbreaking getting dismissed because of a misunderstanding or not being clear🤦‍♀️. This is so good. Keep teaching us. We appreciate it💜❤💙.

  • Glad it was helpful! 🙏

  • @@MeetStephanSpeaks 💜🙏

  • Bunny I wouldn't figure out what it actually meant till he told me u shouldn't bring any expectations in. I was wondering why he was behaving weird and all until I finally realize he didn't want or plan to be in a relationship with me.
    It was just too painful

• The quote in the beginning is more true than many know. I went from being a "runner" to a "lagger". Working on settling into the sweet spot of the middle.

  • Thanks for sharing 🙏

• Before answering this question of “what’s being brought to the table” we need to investigate if it’s appropriate enough table to even pull up a seat to let alone contribute! Vagueness is a veil/cloaking of ones self, or intentions, typically these folks operate as one sided, and you’re so right about the “my ex was crazy”shenanigans… it’s typically the person projecting outward who they are avoiding personal response- ability! To help me have better understanding of what someone says. I typically turned the conversation around in my head then go from there! Byron Katie is a good read for this technique!

• Usually man are aware these are red flags as well and hid it under the table they do not bring it to the table 😂

• People need healing before they jump into another situation/relationship. I believe God can heal you from that person that he never had for you in the first place. God gives me peace in my life today. ❤❤🙏🙏

  • big amen to this!!!
    Do you pray to Him for healing?
    How do you do it?

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  • @@AmericanDreamer yes you just ask God to heal your heart, your mind, your soul from the trauma of the relationship. Thats how I found peace within myself!