7 Things Men Want But Don’t Ask For | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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• I finally met a guy that tells me how amazing I am and a video like this makes me realize it's because I am naturally doing what he needs me to do. I think it's just seems natural because he is definitely a good man so I want to show my appreciation and keep encouraging his positive behavior. When you care for someone you should want to nurture them to be and feel their best.

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  • Let us be the last ones who are not

  • 😊Hi Lee

  • This is really eye opening, thank you

• Men and women think on different levels and have different needs. I think the number one most important thing is communication with your partner. My husband and I have been married over 30 years, rarely fight and we know each others needs and are there for each other no matter what. To build a strong relationship takes a lot of patience, understanding and love.

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  • Hii can u plz help me out? I have many times hurt my bf (emotionally), it wasn't my intention to make him sad but I always mess up and did smthg without fully thinking about the outcome.....i don't want to make him sad, I want to change myself....can u plz give me some tips

• What I want from a man is for him to take the lead sometimes, make plans, see them through.. Having to call all the shots becomes stressful and feels lonely and like I'm managing him as well as the rest of my life. A man who is forward-thinking and holds his own is very attractive.

  • ​@@jarvisjackson4833 unrelated. You're answering to someone just saying "a leading man is attractive".

  • Have you tried asking him to make some choice or decision and then even if he doesn't, just leave it alone? And don't try to correct it if it isn't done the way you would do it. Too often we unconsciously undermine them by trying to micromanage him after we ask him to do it, which makes him pull back because he thinks "I can't do it right anyhow! Let her go ahead and do it her way! What's the use in my even trying!!" Even if it's something important like a faucet leaking or something needs fixing---try asking sweetly, then LEAVE HIM ALONE! Men absolutely HATE being told what to do or how to do it!! :D

  • @@jarvisjackson4833 I personally never wanted feminism. It's so boring.

  • you wanted feminism, so women can lead now.

  • Yes yes yes

• I'd like for him to accept and acknowledge when I tell him that he has hurt my feelings instead of getting angry and trying to make it my fault.

  • ​@Davecasteel sorry for your lost.

  • @@Davecasteelmay her soul rest in peace

  • I really want to be with someone I love and I'm looking for someone that can take care of my child. I lost my wife.

• Most women I know, including me, always get passionate about their man's interest, but it is rarely reciprocated.

  • I agree. You just don’t get the reciprocation you see from our end.

  • Thank you so much!!! It's nice to see that mem actually appreciate the lil things!!

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  • Hi Sally, I am in the same boat. So frustrating. I hope things improve for you. Hugs

  • Hello paragon of beauty how’s life treating you today? I hope you’re in a perfect health and enjoying your day? To be honest.” You’re beautiful 😍 I wish I could know you more...

• As a man, I agree with this list whole-heartedly.

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  • Lol, thank you for reaffirming!

  • You have a good opinion sir

• Sending love to everyone working on their relationships ❤️

  • Am trying 😂

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  • Respect is one of the most important one of all if you do not have that for one another than you have not much love.

• The list is almost the same for women if you change just a few words and take it to a higher level of abstraction
  1. She wants you to be happy
  2 she wants you to take interest in her interests
  3. She wants you to initiate connection (through conversation, not just through sex - do the former and you'll have more of the latter than you ever dreamed)
  4. She wants to be praised and acknowledged (especially for things OTHER then her looks/body)
  5. She wants you to encourage her to have a life and community outside of her relationship with you (and the kids)
  6. She wants your confidence in her
  7. She has a deep desire for your respect
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  Men often kill #6 and #7 by mansplaining and assuming she can't figure out anything mechanical.
  Men are often afraid of impairing their masculinity if they do #2

  • I think constant criticism is demeaning but men usually do that because they want to help/fix whatever is wrong rather than be buttholes. Rest assured, there are some guys who genuinely are butt holes and get off to criticizing and belittling you. But many men just want to help and feel useful, especially with something they’re familiar with.

  • @@RoddyPipersCorneas Dude, did you even understand what she even wrote even to the tiniest extent? No one expects you to like or take part in 'girly' hobbies. She just wants you to be accepting of her having a life outside of you and your children. Not only accepting, but encouraging as well. You seem like that bitter so called pro male activist whose only contribution to men's rights is complaining about feminists on youtube channels with a misplaced sense of self righteousness.

  • Yes to all of them!!!

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• I'm not a relationship advisor, but I just wanna tell everyone out there, let it go with the flow, don't try to adjust or create any situation to make him/her love you. Because love can't be created but you can only feel it.

  • Incorrect. Love is an action. Thinking it is only a feeling....will have you divorced real fast.

  • True rhat

  • Very well said

  • That is terrible advice. Stick to your day job 😂

    Love is actions, not feelings.

  • Righhhhttt, let it go w/ the flow while keeping these ideas in the back of ur head