9 SIGNS A Man Is Not Mature ENOUGH For You!

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• The WAY I sprang my ankle running to CLICK on this video! 💯 😂... for real! YOU BETTER TELL THE TRUTH! I've been praying for guidance on this very subject... so grateful for confirmation.

  • Watch to the end and let me know your thoughts ❤

  • 🤣🤣🤣Girrrll!!

  • ​@@MeetStephanSpeaksAbsolutely... will do

  • ​@MeetStephanSpeaks hi there! This was amazing & actually edification for what my Father (Elohim/God) has been telling & showing me for a min. I love how He uses others (in this case you) to cross our paths to confirm His Way is the Right Way.

  • ​@@daedalprincess😅😅😅 I'M SO GLAD I DID THO. Cause wheew...I needed to hear this (from a spiritual man specifically). Stephan comes thru for sure

• Am older than he is, we keep having misunderstandings every single day and it's really draining...I want to just move on from the relationship and heal from this mental stress

  • 🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through!

  • Amen 🙏

  • Girl
    Leave 😂
    I stg they don’t even be worth the headache

• I have to say my husband was single for 25 yrs after his 1st marriage then he met me. loll At first thought he was too good to be true😂 But, nope he was really what he professed to be. Couldn't ask for a better husband. We built a house 4 yrs ago & it's paid for due to financial stability. We've been together 13 years married 10 & he's a great parnter.😊

  • Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

  • But the question is, was he celibate for those 25 years? I strongly doubt it.

  • ​@@irinaivanovic9792single just means he was never married. He could very well have been dating. Whatever the case, he never committed "til death do we part" to those women.

  • Lucky woman!

  • Bless you and you’re hubby

• #1 Issue was him not wanting to have serious conversations. Not liking Conflict was his answer. I personally think this is due to being ennlisted 15 yrs of service in the military. Finally, after a few years he is having conversations now & difiently being able to express his feeling as well as listening to mine.

  • Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

  • You’d think a veteran would be used to conflict (kinda joking…I’m a veteran myself).

  • Communication is a huge issue in interpersonal relationships. Good communication skills and relationship skills. Most people have weak emotional maturity and relationship skills. Conflict resolution is a very important skill.
    Relationships are about emotions. You've got to have deep conversations to know and understand each other. Not surface or superficial chats. Small talk.

    Personal development:
    Why Are Relationships Are So Hard?
    Why You Choose Who You Choose with Dr Stan Tatkin podcast

    How Your Childhood Trauma Effects Your Love Choices - Jonathon Aslay and Destiny podcast

    Seek Good Character A Reminder To Us All David Tian PhD The Masculine Psychology Project podcast

    Non Violent Communication by Marshall B Rosenberg PhD
    I Hear You by Micheal Sorenson
    Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix - Imago
    Attached by Amir Levine
    Wired For Love by Dr Stan Tatkin
    The Hoffman Process by John and Julie Gottman
    Emotional Intimacy by Robert Masters
    Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman
    8 Dates by John and Julie Gottman
    If The Budda Dated by John and Julie Gottman
    The Body Keeps The Score Brain Mind And Body In The Healing Of Trauma - Dr Gabor Mate
    The Myth Of Normal by Dr Gabor Mate
    What The Heck Is Self Love Anyways? Jonathon Aslay.

• Best video by far!!! Especially #3! "If he can't manage his emotions, he's going to be very unstable and end up becoming abusive and then blame you for it." Ladies PLEASE keep these type of men away from your children! And do not have a child with someone like this!

  • I've never physically gotten violent or abusive when I got upset. I usually just get frustrated or concerned, but then again, I didn't have any mental issues to begin with...Is there psychological evidence to support that men become abusers if they become angry? I see that get thrown around often online.

  • You are so right! We have a 7 year old and met almost 13 years ago. I have A LOT of regrets and really wished I had listened to that inner voice. Working on a plan to have as least contact as possible with him. I just want him away from me. He's been a thorn in my side for years and I can see who he truly is. My feelings have always been dismissed and disregarded, except during the love bombing phase. I'm so sorry I didn't have self love before. I am working on healing and dealing with my own trauma. I realize it was all about winning with him after a certain point. I wanted to show him how strong I was and that he couldn't come back...and he worked hard to break those walls down, only for me to have to yet again build them back up!! Sick!!

  • @inspiredbydior: I'm so sorry to hear that. What a terrible existence to feel like you're always walking on eggshells. I've been there when I was very young. Thank God I had the strength to leave 4 months in. That was all I could take. Moved out of state for this man. But I have always had a very low tolerance for B.S. He is just taking advantage of your kindness. Just pray for God's protection and for him to remove this man from your life. I know it's much harder when you have a child though. I hope you have a strong support system. I sure didn't. But I do know this much, if you pray hard enough for God to help and guide you, he will. He will also help you tap into your inner strength and do what you need to do what's best for you and your child. God is good!

  • @Danny328DT : Not all people with a temper become abusive. I myself have a terrible temper but I have never put my hands on a child or an animal. Stephan did not say they all become abusive. He said if a man cannot handle their emotions they have the potential to eventually become abusive but I think he meant emotionally abusive. But a physically abusive person always starts out being verbally abusive and it escalates from there. I think he was saying these people shouldn't be in a relationship if they cannot control their emotions and I agree because the emotional maturity isn't there. You sound like you have alot of self-reflection and you acknowledge you can be hot-headed but you know how to check yourself before it gets out of hand. Not all men do. The abusive types lash out, intimidate, bully and just expect the woman to accept the behavior.

  • @@FelineLoverinSD Thanks for your input. I have not seen the whole video.

• One thing about passive aggressiveness: Beware girls, sarcasm seems funny and confident at the surface, but it‘s actually a very low and arrogant way of thinking. We often feel attracted to the funny guys, but sarcasm looks very dark behind the fascade. often times there is a bitter, resentful, spoiled, entitled, delusional brat, who likes to enjoy life at the expense of others

  • It is a huge red flag

  • That’s completely untrue.

  • So true!

  • @@irinaivanovic9792it is. We’re not talking about funniness here, we’re talking about passive aggression. Passive aggression is often disguised as sarcasm. You’ll notice it when you see such people. I had female friends like this too

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  • Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

  • Amen

• I was in a 4 year relationship with a guy who had to have everything his way and would ghost me when he didn't get it. When i tried to talk to him he would leave the room. He was never wrong and he was very passive aggressive. Typical narcissist.

  • Omg that sounds like my ex fiancée from many years ago. 😡🤮

• Stephen, this video is going to be helpful to so many women today. My last relationship was little mix of everything you mentioned in this video. While he seemed like a good guy, went to church and all, this was just used to mask the rest of his shortcomings. Women need to pay close attention to these signs because they can cause more suffering than they could ever imagine.

  • If someone is truly religious they embody live and practice these values and beliefs with integrity, not merely pay lip service to it or claim to be religious. Which is merely a facade or hipocrisy. .
    Agree women need to pay close attention to red flags and dealbreakers. How have you healed from past experiences?

  • Yesss my ex, too! Even was a dedicated Father, but behind that mask was something serious! He went to church, attended ministry classes, but was addicted to porn, a cheater, a liar, just overall fake person overall. Claimed to have all this love for me, but when confronted, threw me away like a piece of trash. Did it over and over and then would come back with an apology that seemed genuine, but then the behaviors kept showing up! Just pathetic!!!

  • Yes, but u cant pay attention to everything, there always will be a surprise.