9 SIGNS A Man Is Not Mature ENOUGH For You!

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• This is an important note to add in. It’s always a red flag. When a man you’re involved with at any level doesn’t want to talk about the relationship gets mad gets angry, feels cornered, with just a calm discussion of the dynamic when your communication is shut down and that’s a pattern. You can’t grow with that person they leave you no choice but to leave them.

• Feed my mind not just my body, provide , protect and be patient

• My boyfriend is the last 4/9. He's not a cheater, but he's got female friends with huge snapchat streaks. He literally says he "likes the presence of other women." He's against the idea of therapy. Hes passive aggressive asfff. He doesn't like criticism in any way. He is always negative about men, work, women, family, ect. It's sad and I'm drained even if he's not saying anything. Im not allowed to have opinions so I'm just silent.

  Ive gained 70 lbs messing with this man. I'm slowly moving away from him. Thank God we don't live together.

  • 😢

  • Get away from this man! Quick!

• Love that you stress masculine and not alpha. In my experience a lot of alpha men are very immature. They can’t take correction, controlling and emotionally unavailable.

  • Lols. Most Alphas are masculine. Alpha means Power. So what you're saying doesn't actually make sense. Secondly, not all Alphas are controlling or emotionally unavailable. Maybe you should give them a chance because most women don't want a weak man (the other option) which is a Beta.

• This is why I remain single and extremely happy.

  • I agree 💯💯💯💯💯

• 1 He cannot
  Take care of himself
  2. He has not Set his priorities in order
  3.he is guided by his emotions
  4. He doesn’ take any accountability
  5. Everything has to be his way
  6.Passive aggressive
  7. Unwilling to have serious conversation
  8. He doesn’t listen to others
  9. He constantly enjoys feminine energy

  • @@FoodieQueenBee it is a waste of time.

  • Not worth my time, we as women can get physically sick from supressed feelings n resentment

  • My ex is 6/9 of these traits so I ran away 😅

  • And most of it comes from childhood.

    At age 0 to 7 the child brain is programmed in some way, by parents, teachers, people, media, classmates school, television etc.
    As Dr.- Bruce Lipton explains it continues as a subconscious program till age 30.
    The child is not able to analyze or understand the information, but the brain records everything into the subconscious mind, the same way as a computer program.
    So the child doesn't even realize he/she has these programs, till he wakes up at age 30, until someone tells them.

  • I don't need a relationship like this ill stay single forever fr

• 😂😂😂 i laughed at the blaah blah blah.. i just love Stephan's wisdom and honesty. You really are helping us to UPGRADE our mindsets and opening our eyes to identify a True Man of God with integrity

  • I appreciate that ❤ 🙏

• Silent treatment should be on list

  • Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

• Thank you for posting this video. I was able to evaluate where I am and areas I need to improve so I’m not only a better man for my future wife, but for myself and the people around me. God bless!

  • Yes I agree I'm all those types of guys he speaks on, and I'm not proud of saying that. These videos are teaching me what not to be anymore. I'm not sure if time permits me to save my marriage but I know I'm striving to be a better man through your videos. Thank you and keep being a vessel for sharing.

• #9 deserves the spot lol. This will stick in our minds, thank you. 🙏🏽 So many women say: “ oh least he’s coming home to me” Men in a relationship seeking any form of attention from other females is an insecure man- like Stephen said, feeding their egos to hide a problem they are not willing to face. We don’t talk about this red flag enough, so thank you for addressing it Stephen.

  • Men who do this make me lose attraction and respect and I never see them same anymore no matter how much I try.

  • @@FoodieQueenBee You betta come home with your integrity and my respect

  • Lol he told me that i come home to you am i not?

  • I agree one hundred percent. And addiction is a huge issue in relationships. Personality and character is fixed. Behaviors can be modified.

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    How Your Childhood Trauma Effects Your Love Choices - Jonathon Aslay podcast ♥️
    We Are Attracted To The Familiar by Coach Craig Kenneth - Imago
    Why Smart Men Fail At Dating And Relationships David Tian PhD The Masculine Psychology Project podcast
    Why Men Avoid Counselling - Jonathon Aslay podcast

  • ❤️ 🙂 Thank you!