Who Pays in Germany: German Men React

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I ask German men on the streets of Cologne and Munich who should pay on the first date. Here is what they have to say.

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  • @Carmon-q4j says:

    It’s inspiring to see how passionate everyone is about this topic. It’s a reminder of the importance of intellectual curiosity.๐Ÿ’‹

  • @SupernaturalLove100 says:

    โ€œwhat do i get if i payโ€ ew. pay up. itโ€™s a manโ€™s world. women give too much emotional and physical labor in relationships to also have to pay during first dates get outta here.

    • @h00liaa says:

      @@DrTel don’t worry it’s not like you’re getting a date in the first place sweetheart ๐Ÿ™‚

    • @DrTel says:

      @@h00liaa yeyeye anyone who disagrees with you is an incel, we know

    • @yunleung2631 says:

      lol. Men also give emotional labor.

      but if you insist on reinforcing outdated gender roles, then expect less choice.

    • @tealimeteatime1244 says:

      “What do I get if I pay?” Does he think paying will get him the right to get laid? ๐Ÿ’€ Most men are cheap, no marriage material.

  • @BCSchmerker says:

    +datingbeyondborders *I didn’t date without the State of California (USA), therefore have agnosis on relational customs for other places.*

  • @kandondooley89 says:

    “I’m worth it” every raggedy person’s mantra

  • @yunleung2631 says:

    The first man is certainly not worth it

  • @Mimisugar452 says:

    You should be man enough to pay on the first date. Women put in too much time and effort into looking good for a date, especially the first one. It’s the least you could do.

  • @Anglo-Mountaineer007 says:

    I like to pay for the meal as I am a provider, I saw my father pay the bills, so I like to be like him. I take women who I have met her in our group, friends of friends, to restaurants so I can get to know them.

    If she does not present herself as feminine and traditional, I will not take her out again.

  • @erikas.6790 says:

    For the man who needs a “test,” what if I’m testing you? If you are not willing to pay for the first date, you don’t like me enough, and that’s it

    • @ctsd623 says:

      What about gender equality?

    • @SupernaturalLove100 says:

      @@ctsd623 women still donโ€™t get paid as much as their male counterparts for doing the same job. the pay gap is still a thing based on sex. women are still the ones who are the primary caregivers of their children and who have to birth the child while fathers take a back seat. so what โ€œgender equalityโ€ are you referring to?

    • @Tony-Man says:

      Then you obviously arenโ€™t a good match for each other. Itโ€™s a good thing that you learn about this rather quickly

  • @_MC529 says:

    If we regularly go out, we switch up.
    If it’s our first date and I asked out, I pay.
    Equal.

  • @aknezevic997 says:

    Great if this works for them, but then they should stay and date within their culture, or maybe other Germanic/Scandinavian countries with the same mentality. Because the rest of the world is not like this.

  • @Limpi43 says:

    If she wants him to pay, what sets her apart from gold diggers?

  • @Fatherland927 says:

    The first date both should pay so they can get to know each other first, then the man pays going forward. When I met my wife on the cruise, I began to pay for every meal and drink after we first met.

  • @juliushauck3981 says:

    I actually like to pay as a gesture, but if it’s expected that won’t happen. I am not an ATM, If I pay than because I want to do so.

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