Are You Too Much of a Giver in Your Relationships? | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs
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Indeed, I am the one who is overhelmed of receiving way too much.
Thank you Mat,
I actually grew up witnessing traditional Japanese culture throughout my life. Where men are the breadwinners, & they sit back & the women serve them round the clock. I know I overly gave throughout all of my relationships. And esp. now, when women are working professionals too, this becomes a huge problem. Thank you for these valuable insights. I never thought about men not speaking hint. I am 4th generation, & want to put a stop to this ridiculous cultural norm in my life, b/c it’s a two way street, & I know I am worth it! 🤗💕😘
Warmest Mahalo,
Jenna
Hey Mat, for a few days now I’ve been watching your videos and I must say: thank you! It’s so refreshing to see a guy talking in plain language about man-woman-relationships. Not only it’s straight forward and comprehensible, it’s also a really good guideline which is easy to follow. I really appreciate your advices and I hope that some of them will help me to sort some things out a bit faster as I am a bit of a shy person when it comes to approaching someone I really like.
My own experience of not being good at receiving often tied to childhood expectations of the woman is the giver happened in my family. Thanks Matt an ongoing journey for me. Good tip on how to ask and yes we deserve to receive 🙏
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While I agree that asking is important, I think if they love you they will also try to find ways to do for you. Most of things are obvious and people don’t do them not because you haven’t asked because they don’t value being an equal partner.
When you give and give and ask and ask and still nothing then you know it’s time to go
Overgiving feels awkward between 2 people. There is a huge lack gap energy that slowly gets wider and wider and more awkward as time goes on.
You be bringing up stuff I never ever thought about. A person giving to much to keep the relationship together kinda seems ” People pleaser.” thing. I know when I don’t know..!! Great video. Have a great day.
Thank you..!!
Thanks Matt!
I found myself guilty of not opening up and ask.
I am gonna start to ask and see how it will go.
Hope for the best 🤞
I really needed to hear those 3 concepts. I overgave from the heart, wasn’t reciprocated most of the time. Made .y needs known. In the end, overgave out of fear. Was not the right guy for me. Took a while to realize that. In a better place now.
More than half of the time when I ask, it turns into a fight 😢
As Matt said, maybe you are not with the right person.
It seems receiving is connected to being comfortable with asking. If you are willing to ask you feel you deserve it.
“Would you willing to …” is an interesting tip, THANK you!
When you ask for help and either get “not now ” or A sih and they do it with a bad attitude, making me regret asking.
When you feel you have nothing left to give.
Thanks Matt I really needed to hear this. I always give but scared to ask coz I need my partner to read my mind.
3 ways to know if you’re over giving.
1. Am I giving with strings attached? No.
2. Have you asked for what you want? Yes and No.
3. Giving because you’re trying to satiate an underlying fear. No.
Balance of giving and receiving.
1. Know what you need.
2. Reframe your relationship with receiving.
3. Be direct. (Would you be willing)
Just what I needed to hear. This is for relationships not just dating. I need to learn to ask and then receive. I know I’m over giving because I often feel empty.
This video was very insightful and it was something I needed to hear. Is there by chance you can do one on healthy and effective communication as well? I struggle partly because I’m introvert and I’m kind of brash, straight to the point. Not because I like to be mean or rude it’s just something I picked up and learned from my first marriage as my ex was autistic and for people who are autistic you have to be very direct in communicating with them. To the point where most people would take it as rude even though it’s more black and white. I try to be very sensitive to people, even if I put in a lot of effort but some how I come off being rude regardless of my efforts.
Same thing here. But in my case is cutural: Half-German, Half-Mexican. In Mexiko I often sound rude or demanding something, now back in Germany it seems I am to wishi-washi now…however you do it, it’s not right, LOL
Hello 👋
I overgive. Because I don’t have confidence. It really is too obvious to my husband. I give because I can.