Backhanded Compliments are RED FLAGS | Relationship Advice by Mat Boggs #shorts
Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and Backhanded Compliments are RED FLAGS #shorts
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This also applies to friendships and toxic ex friends too.
This isn’t just a backhanded compliment it’s an insult, and gaslighting
My mother and grandmother were they best at back handed artistry lol
The pick-up artists did men ZERO favors in helping them get a woman. In fact, they made it worse! The only women that fall for that are those who have low-self esteem. Most women will tell them to go p1ss up a rope and move on to someone else.
A narcissist’s game plan to test your self-worth and boundaries. Run!
lol little rabbit teeth 🤣 i could totally see that being used
I know some one is always making fun. Being sarcastic.. And laughing . And praising himself.
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Ladies, “negs” are only used by cheezy skeazeballs! Skiddadle!
If a man uses those lines on you, do yourself a favor and – respond by looking away from that man and then turning away and finally walking away… without saying anything. It takes like 1-3 minutes. Worth every second.
If you hear that sort of thing, use body language:
Look away to start scanning the crowd for people who make you feel positive, or fun or great.
As soon as you turn to scan more effectively, spot someone nice you want to greet with a huge smile or hug and then go do that. Go collect that love. It can be a gal pal on the dance floor or an old friend who happened to wander by just then… but Yay! Look who’s over there! Somebody nicer. Thank Goodness! An excuse to ditch this negging loser. Phew! That neg guy is loosing you fast. The faster the better.
Critical compliment was about my skin being so soft & me always smelling so good did I ever stink???Most confusing thing ever said to me.. Then there was the jokes about his ex wife & his brothers ex I found very inappropriate and unnecessary & he was like that is my way of letting off steam. I thought what in the actual. He broke up with me & one of last texts was about me still smelling great wearing my lipstick & still wearing my perfume & he was like oh…
Thank you for sharing, I enjoy your video’s specially the red flag video’s
He did this to me after we were married. I called him out on it, rather immaturly, because I was 19 at the time, but he stopped.
Yes, watch out for the pick-up artist. This tactic could also be a sign of narcissism. They are trying to put you on the backfoot by picking for your vulnerabilities.
Yep narcissists for sure
Literally 1/500 people have npd but since it’s trendy to call a man who just isn’t that into you a narcissist when you have no phd in psychology go for it lol. Reality is he doesn’t care because he’s not that into you and you are going for guys out of your league aka unequally yoked
Aaaah, that good old ‘just a joke’ thing… poison!! ☠️
Allways felt it like that but because of how you put it in words it helps me to get the bigger picture. ThanX 🍀
Love matt
This is very true. Thank you.
The more a woman knows her value she will recognize this quickly.
👍👍👍 I think this may also come from people who have low self-esteem themselves, , or manipulators It rarely works.
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Ayiiii you speak directly to my soul. Not so much that men do this to Ke but rather than there is a boggling truth to that maybe I am this way. Not overtly but something about what you say stings and when it stings it’s too close to the truth for me. I am learning. ❤
Fell for this once. Never again. I am worth a worthy man!
Not if you are a single mom. U blew it
Red flag so run!!! Anyone who gives you a “neg”, a back handed compliment has a REAL insecurity problem! For anyone, especially a guy to do that, ain’t worth any of a high quality woman’s time.
Since I am not like that it took me a little time to discern that dysf behavior. Why not be authentic and kind? Also. I learned in Bible School in a class called Marriage, Family & Ministry to PRAY that the hidden things be revealed. This works as long as you are being real with God and you don’t play games yourself. God wants to protect us from the wrong people and HE wants us happily married to the right person. HE has the best for us. If something doesn’t feel right, trust that! Do not override it. You’ll be sorry if you do! 🙏
That’s like high school immature bulling but in the adult world
I would call him on it letting him know this
( you must have a low self esteem to make cruel insults the way you do . God bless you and have a great day ) kill them with kindness and walk away
( by doing that , it makes them think of their actions and words )
Matt I love ❤️ seeing your videos keep it up and thank you 🙏 gif bless you and your family