Brazilian Girl on Dating Swedish Men

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We interview a Brazilian (Rio) born Juliana about her experiences dating Swedish men in Sweden. How do Brazilian men vs Swedish men approach?

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  • @batboy555 says:

    Perhaps there is a reason

  • @kubricked says:

    She doesn’t know that feminism in Sweden has created this scenario where taking initiative is labeled as harassment so Swedish men play it safe and intentionally avoid interactions.

  • @greenytaddict says:

    She needs to go somewhere else then. Maybe Turkey or Italy. 😂

  • @FMJIRISH says:

    They’re afraid of being called harassers

  • @filmonmeshesha117 says:

    I like this Brazilian girl she have confidence

    • @anotherone769 says:

      No she doesn’t.
      If she had she would approach guys herself.
      She is afraid of being rejected.

    • @miguelmelchior986 says:

      You have money?

    • @annesaldanha3142 says:

      ​@@anotherone769 it’s a cultural thing. Brazil has this culture of courting, where the guy approaches first always. Of course, feminism takes a part of everything, however is not in every country that girls want to and are confortable to take the lead. In Sweden, they are more hold back by the fear of being called harassers, that plus the fact that they are naturally shy and “calm”, more laid back, yk 🙂
      Cultures are different around the world, it’s really awesome when people overcome their differences for love. ❤️

    • @dernachtsteher5741 says:

      ​@@annesaldanha3142I haven’t been to Brasil 🇧🇷 yet but can confirm the same happens in Argentina 🇦🇷.
      Men approach women and not the other way around.

    • @GusWayne-u5h says:

      @@annesaldanha3142 That’s not always true, brazilian girls approach me a lot. And they are fast, no courting.

  • @bonjourtoutlemonde5 says:

    Maybe is there in Sweden,like in other Western countries, the fact that men don’t want to get involved in this circus anymore: do all the efforts, inviting, spending money and time.. Just to be the number 1256, or even get a divorce at the end and loose all their assets as well as their mental health.

    • @ruthnoronha8206 says:

      That’s a chance you take it applies to any place in the world. Men are a bunch of lazy cowards.

    • @AureliaIlva says:

      I agree with you. Its absolutely ridiculous !! Men taking care of their women made sense in those times when women couldnt work, were nothing more then a good and hardly had any rights in general. But now? Its 2025 for Gods sake!! 😂
      Why do women expect men to come up to them, talk and flirt, prepare dates, spend money and take care of them, when they CLEARLY would never ever do the same for them! Grow up…. If a man wants to do all those things for you because he simply loves doing that, then great, but dont expect those things from anybody, we are all equal. Men deserve some effort too, they deserve nice compliments and to be treated, they deserve just as much attention.

      Like, when a man stares at you and doesn’t come up to you its an issue, right? But when YOU have interest, you only smile and sit still, while he instantly has to come up to you and court you and treat you like some kind of superior being? Whatever people think, but I really dont believe this to be a right thing to do.
      I believe that in an equal society and any relationship, both parts have to invest in each other and do something. Both parts have to be willing to do the same and not expect more then you are willing to give. Otherwise both will never see eye to eye.

      Also….I wonder if there is a direct or indirect correlation between countries where the typical role play of man and woman prevails, and between violence against women? I have no numbers to be honest, but I feel like in those countries domestic and sexual violence against women is so so much higher.
      As said, I dont have any numbers and statistics, but it wouldnt surprise me.

  • @Time4aKiss says:

    She’s in Sweden! She needs to adapt to THEIR culture, not the other way around.

  • @DeeInTexas says:

    I remember reading that in Sweden it’s more common for women to approach men than vice versa. I don’t know if that’s true, but I think that’s a better system.

    That would mean women who want to be left alone would usually be left alone, and women who are interested in someone can start the interaction.

    • @dernachtsteher5741 says:

      I’ve seen videos and read articles about that, it’d be nice if a Swede can confirm that haha.
      If it does happen then, as an introvert myself, I’d be in heaven 😂

    • @RafaCena41 says:

      @@dernachtsteher5741 haha same!

    • @sonnykrulezz says:

      I agree 100 %

    • @NOCDIB says:

      American man who used to be married to a Swede, here. Swedish women only approach first, in-person, when they have had enough to drink. They may approach first on dating apps, though. Swedes are socially awkward and just can’t bring themselves to be forward and say what they want.

  • @Sophiedesjardins says:

    I mean you can’t expect them to adopt Brazilian dating attitudes in a country that is not Brazil. I get it might be frustrating but that is just the culture.

    • @7274184 says:

      I am Brazillian and I agree with you.

    • @a55tech says:

      true she is just gonna get the pickup artists

    • @marcopolo1765 says:

      This is not about “Brazilian dating attitudes”, this is about male dating attitudes. This is human nature, the masculine leads, takes the first step and makes things happen. the masculine is active, he is the one who pursues. the feminine is passive, she attracts and the man takes action. It has always been like this throughout the history of humanity, however in the modern world society has adopted the woke mentality and decided that men should behave like women, and vice versa… The result is what we see today, the majority of young European men are incels who are afraid of doing the most basic and instinctive thing in life: approaching a woman… This is a cultural decadence that is happening in much of the Western world.

    • @toomuchinformation says:

      That’s true, but she was asked what she thought of Swedish men and answered honestly.

  • @JohnHoulgate says:

    Maybe she should learn from Swedish women how to promote interest in a guy. I sense that Swedish women take more initiative and approach the guys.

  • @johngonzalez4298 says:

    Happy Sunday! ❤

  • @Sevensliders says:

    She wants the power to turn down suitors yet isn’t willing to step up to the plate herself. Anything else is just conjecture.

  • @elisabishop5359 says:

    She obviously needs to change her expectations or change country… I don’t see why Swedes should change for her..

  • @wire-dy3ul says:

    She needs to join running club and meet guys through friend groups like normal Swede

  • @just4giggles739 says:

    At least she is some what respectful.

    But kinda silly to expect different culture to act like Brazilian culture.

  • @BCSchmerker says:

    +datingbeyondborders *Pan-German expectations, e.g. in Sweden, are conservative.*

  • @NOCDIB says:

    I just moved back to the US after 5 years in Stockholm and I recognize this interview being in Gamla Stan. I wish I would have met a pretty, single Brasileira during my time there.

  • @bojanstoicevic5374 says:

    She is really cute and being honest.
    Sweeds are just …Their viking ancestors would be disgraced and disappointed I guess, lol.

  • @francescoromito198 says:

    They are probably not interested. She has a bossy vibes

  • @Jorg05111980 says:

    I always remember this one girl from Georgia, and we had a 1st date in a restaurant I arranged, so I said “Do you want to book the next restaurant?” and she was like: “What do you mean, men have to arrange the date!” So different, but I also liked it in other ways…much warmer than typical western girls.

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