7 Simple Ways to Spot Scammers Online | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs
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I am in awe of *GLOBAL TRACE ASSETS* because of your constant dedication to exposing and exposing web scams. As we see your attempts from the bustling streets of Buenos Aires, Argentina, we find that they serve as a source of tremendous motivation for us. It’s hard for me to comprehend how callous these people can be in their pursuit of rapid wealth.
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Number one rule is to ‘never’ send money to anyone you have never met physically before.
No matter the reason.
I simply tell them upfront that I don’t believe in giving anyone money, I can talk to you through your problem and maybe give you some thought on who you could ask about getting some money? And if they asked me to go off the app I just tell them I don’t work like that, and they seem to disappear. if they don’t wanna meet right away I’m not interested. But in today’s world, you can meet a scammer at your local coffee shop. You just have to be diligent and protect yourself and have self-preservation because if they are really for you they’ll understand. Because I don’t show empathy until empathy is shown for me I don’t give respect until it’s earned. But I do like to mess with their heads it’s 😂
Thank you i experienced all that you said ..having listened to all the signs of a scammer He cant get anything .from me ….the best he did was to blocked me and deleted me in facebook ,thank you for blocking me .. ibwasspared as a scammer victim ❤❤❤❤❤
I have had 67 different scammers contacts in less than a year. If I had it to do over I would never put my year of birth on Facebook as they see I’m 74 and think I’m ripe for the picking. My answer to them every time is “I’m old but I’m not stupid”. Once you learn the script, you can easily spot them.
Their conversation starts out very polite and formal with you then day by day they start to not make any sense anymore..it’s like these scammers are switching with each other to talk to you..and then they don’t understand common jokes so you have to explain it to them..if they’re urging you to get WhatsApp that’s a huge red flag!
I have a chatmate from dating site..just only for few days he said he loves me and wanted to marry me? I have kind of doubt to him now…Then he decided to me here in the Philippines.He arrived and he said he has kind of business transactions in somewhere…My doubt started to grow when last night he asked me to reload here on her phone…Then he send to me the million pesos check that he won on his bidding…And now he said he is in the bank going to withraw his money but he’s asking me some money because he can’t withraw the in bank! I am getting to block him! And I check to your videos the signs of a scammer online!!! Maybe I won’t go to meet him tomorrow….thank you Matt Biggs!
I just let a scammer go TODAY!! I am in a very vulnerable spot right now and while not even looking for someone, I was approached on another social media sight. I hate to admit it, but I haven’t been spoken to this kindly in many years. Easy to feel flattered. The photo’s of this man were my type and he was even smarter, he supposedly has a son. Pictures of him and his son 7 years ago and now. His wife passed of cancer 4 years ago. Everything seemed beautiful. Then he needed money until he got paid from a job on an oil field he was on for 6 months in Australia. Hurts a lot to have felt cared for and you know it’s a scam so have to say good bye. Do not judge anyone for falling for this, because at times in our lives when we feel so alone, it’s easy to want to be loved!! Human nature!!
They always have children and a lot of them say their spouse passed away. I’ve had this happen to me multiple times. Their are a lot more out there than you think.
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or they’ll say they lost both their parents.
Move on from it . You have a good heart and fell for a scammer
Dont’ blame or feel bad its’ them not you. Horrible people in the world hun
@@Beautytrends77 I hope my experience help someone else not to fall victim.
He said, he had a humble beginning, he is 65 years old, the dad and mum died when he was very young and ended up in orphanage and build he life up now he is an orthopaedic surgeon. he loss his 21 years old married wife. he is from North Carolina but working in Yemen. he had only 1 son 7 or 9 years , can’t remember. now where i started filling uncomfortable is when he told me he liked telling stories to her daughter then i confronted him that, but you said you had only one son? he tried to ignore that part of the question. i gave him some time and i brought it back still ignoring, but i would not let go. finally he said he had a daughter but she died 3 months ago and she was 14 years. apparently, everybody around this monster of a man are all dead except him and the son. another red flag only 2 days speaking with him on a text message and he is talking about marriage. the final blow for him was when he made a video call, he was speaking and the voice on the video and the hand gesture was not the same. it was a recorded voice. also he insisted i download Hangout because the Facebook account was for his work and for official use only
I was on a dating site,and I always told them “I’m a cross country semi driver” I can go to any part of this country and meet you in person. After that they would always stop talking with me.
Shame for OTR drivers
same here I’m always say I’m a minimum wage earner then they not talking to me anymore
This is too good.
One scammer told me he was in a city in Florida, I told him so was I and let’s meet for dinner! Ha! He quit talking to me!
Great Idea
Its good to put your guard up when someone message you online even if you have a mutual friend.
Good morning May your day be filled with love and laughter
Matthew, I agree with everything you say in your video & it is good advice. But I disagree with your statistics, for those of us in the 55+ age range the percentage of scammers is around 50%. I’ve tried multiple dating sites (Match, Silver singles, Mature dating, OK Cupid, POF, etc.) and unfortunately there are many scammers on each of those sites. Ladies beware, don’t let your guard down
more people need to know this ..why do we fall for this ??? never give money to a stranger ,even if they are dying
When a guy pretends he’s your favourite celebrity, talks smooth And Says he loves you , Says he wants a vacation with you, Says he is sending you a gift of Jewelry and a nice dress, But! He says his agent is contacting you for a package and a Special code to remember when the delivery gets to you, But it’s Contactless? Be careful because Contactless could be Dangerous you don’t know what amount of money and you have No comeback No recipt! It’s More than likely a big scam/Fraud!!
Yah, that’s what they’ll try to tell us, is that they are dying when they run out of options, like they are working on a job outside of their own country, and have no money to see a doctor, can’t access a hospital, and the company they work for out of their home place , have no medical insurance to cover them. Their co-workers can’t help and they are desperate due to pain. That’s an angle they use and I’m a retired nurse so it left me in dilemna but I’d given enough money to recognize it wa nothing but a scam and there’s no return on any amount of time or effort you give to these con guys. We fall for some of it because we’re human and they are masters at manipulating the emotions. Some are women who get behind the screen to relate to our inner feelings.
I think it’s more like 99% scammers and 1% genuine people. It’s become so horrible it’s not worth even trying anymore.
Yup that’s EXACTLY how I feel
I feel the same way . I was looking for an apartment in Berlin New Hampshire on the internet and I looked where it was in town ( the street) and it was on a deserted road no houses!! I don’t bother anymore! I’m going to go there and look ! No exchanging money over the phone ! God Bless and Merry Christmas. 🎄🎄🎄🎄
Yup, that’s how I see it too after personal experience all through 2020. 99% of those I asked to do face to face video or ring on the phone refused to do that very thing. I told them up front I had been scammed and now I required this proof. But they refused telling me I had no trust.
Well doesn’t that just prove my theory?
Yes! Such a shame. I don’t accept new people any more until I read their profile. No, pictures, no friends, divorce, dead wife, all lies.
@@marywilson208 what was his name?
I agree with the comment posted below – they’re often “widowers” or in the military, or they’re doctors doing charitable works overseas. But almost always the first thing they want you to do is to go off-platform. I’ve learned if I tell them I’m not comfortable going off platform and they push back, then they’re either a scammer or they are someone who doesn’t respect boundaries which gets them blocked either way. I have also noted if you carefully read their profile and then read the exchanges they have with you, you’ll sometimes find that the later exchanges seem to come from a person who does not speak English as a first language, or they have significant difficulty with grammar and syntax. When the two comparative writing styles don’t align, I’m suspicious.
Hi there, i can tell you all you need to know about these people, so you don’t fall victim of one
When they replied so quick and explained everything and plan future with you. Even you just spoke in few times 😂
Yup that’s a scammer.
Yah, a lot of these guys tend to think that just because they formed a connection, that a woman is automaticallly desperate to be with someone. That in itself is a turn-off and insult.
For me I use a good trick to show that I am real to someone online and you can ask them to do the same that is: to ask them to tell you a WORD OR WORDS then you write those words on anything and you take a fresh selfy picture of you with the words (they freshly told you to jot down right now) on say a piece of paper and then they can know it’s you and vice verse tell them to take a new fresh picture of themselves and to write down on a paper words you pick out of the blue. Then if you wanna go deeper tell them where to hold the paper with the words on it like over their forehead below their waist etc. that’s how I become less suspicious whether someone is real or is a fake trying to scam me
My method goes deeper than that because I got scammed by someone saying they were in my capital city about an hours drive from me. But turned out they were halfway around the world.
SO I ask for a selfie with a landmark of that city in the background or standing by a statue or similar with 3 fingertips pressed into their cheek. They must send it to me immediately I ask for it. I don’t tell them how I want their hand to be presented so they can’t do a photoshop photo and send that when I ask.
Another way is to ask them to go to the shops and when they are at the newsagent, for example, ask them to buy today’s newspaper and hold it up and take a selfie so you can see the headlines or the front page photo.
Many people won’t do that sort of thing because they don’t understand how deflating and debilitating it is to be scammed emotionally or love bombed.
Cool idea
But that doesn’t tell you whether the person you are talking to is a scammer or not.
That just tells you that they are human. Even nigerians can spell and write! And most even have a phone to take a selfie. But unless you specify that it should include their face, the selfie won’t tell you whether they are black or white.
You have to specify that you want to see their face and that it should be the same face as in the dating site account. And even then, I’m sure they can come up with an excuse or reason why they might not be able to take a photo of their face.
Niether does it tell you where they are. You have to specify that you want the selfie taken infront of a certain landmark or object.
Even then they will come up with an excuse why they can’t do as you request.
This I know from experience.
Clear pic of them holding a sign w/ the days date and year on it. Or a pic of their DL.
Amazing
Frankly I’ve never had one positive experience with meeting people online. You might say that the scammers are a very small minority but I beg to differ with you. In truth it’s the other way around. Meeting people online is far too risky and I’d rather meet someone in the conventional way or stay alone than subject myself to more of the liars and con artists I’ve already encountered while experimenting with the online dating. Never again.
I think the reason we are here is because so many are out there
Sorry about your experience, Rose.
It’s OK if your bored. You can make a game out of it. How long will it take them to say they love you and want to be with you. Or my personal favourite. How long until they give themselves away.
Play them along. Dont take the relationship to yr heart. Dont give money.
I hv made GOD my friend. He will never betray.
I agree, there are more SCAMMERS than good guys on the dating apps/websites. The scammers can make so much money scamming people. I took the apps off my phone. I was really depressed when I was on those apps, now I’m happy with myself!
I was just catfished on a dating app. Glad it only took me four days to figure out. He said he was US Army, but the man in a picture he sent was wearing a British Naval uniform. I did an image search and found it was a stolen picture. I’ll be doing image searches from now on.
How to do search image by Google?
@@maszelianasalleh4197 is like to know how to do google image search also
yeah how to do image search?
Try googling it. I know there is a way on Google, but I used an app to do it, I don’t remember which one.
It’s a good thing you were observant! They all have high profile jobs where they are travelling and live a life that is full of excitement, but once they make the pitch, it’s because calamity hits and they give you all the drama til you feel the guilt. If they ask whether you love them or not at that point, just present the question of how much anyone can love someone sitting behind a screen with a phone that is on the blink. You don’t get to see their face beyond photos and anyone can post a photo. So glad you were observant !
Sounds like the 6 years I had with a scammer! Wild stories and will never show himself. They are very good at what they do! Easy to get hooked
Hi Pat – I have to ask, how did your situation go on for 6 years?
Me too.
@@debbierandall6256 that a long time now that scary
6 yrs? Really? They r impatient ppl. Dont like to waste more than 1 month.
If they act evasive, red flag‼️
Exactly, they will attack your emotion. Tell you all that you wanted to hear till u give him your trust..
Thank you, Mat. These things seem obvious when the heart isn’t involved, but emotions sometimes cause temporary blindness so it’s good to have these things spelled out ahead of time.
If you never engage, you won’t get sucked in. They are NEVER real. You can’t love someone you never met.
Poor grammar, misspelled words, poor punctuation and sometimes broken English.
Thank you Mathew, I have been scammed once and I was online and all I attracted was scammers and blocked them. I only met one genuine person in a period of 3months. I already know how they operate. They either widows with a child or the wife dies of cancer or in an accident. They never call you and they want you to be exclusive without going on a date or meet in person. I learned a lot from that, now I’m a bit weary of dating online. Great advise for woman and men to.
I am currently on POF dating site and i have met with so much Scammers and big fat belly white men haven’t seem to find the right one yet for me i am only 44 yrs old hoping to find my partner soon.
they never been on video cam with me. after 2 years.
Sure they r widower with a little child.
It is better to be alone having peace of mind.
I was unlucky in the matter of sincere friends from my childhood. Been hurt so many times. But being scammed online was too much for me.