If He Doesn’t Want a Relationship Do THIS! | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs
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This is basically an ultimatum phrased nicely. Unfortunately I’ve seen a third scenario the most. The guy agrees to move forward but deep down he’s resentful and the woman never feels secure with him because she knows she forced him to choose and it creates a bad unhappy energy, and the woman is usually chasing him because he’s not committed 100%.
That is a good point..about it essentially being an ultimatum. I know that a lot of men (and people in general) will immediately be put off by that and it won’t work in your favor.. but there has to be a way around that.
Hahahaha you never can force a man to do anything! Again a women thinking does not translate to a men thinking, I pressured my husband to married me otherwise I left and go to look for what I want, he committed and married me, he said it was the best decision he ever made! Nobody resents anything, if the man finally decided to married you deep down he really loves you and don’t want to loose you, but his insecurities to move forward paralízale him.
“You can’t scare off the right guy. If you say to him “my boat is leaving”, and he’s not willing to fight for that relationship, then he’s not the right guy to begin with.” Love love love this
Me too, beautifully said 😍
“You can’t scare off the right guy”…needed to hear these words..thank you Matthew!
If he tells you that he doesn’t want a relationship and you continue speaking with him he may believe that you were warned and you still want to continue with him with the situation that there is
Just went through this. We were only dating about 7/8 weeks but He was being hot and cold and I started to feel confused and his effort fell off, so I said “ I enjoy spending time with you but before this goes any further I want to make sure we’re on the same page. At this moment what is it that your looking for?” He said he don’t know. ( scared etc) I told him “ It’s ok, take your time, when you decide what you want let me know and if I’m not seeing someone by then maybe we can try again” … Mic drop 🎤 I am a little disappointed because he’s a great guy and I do like him. But I know it’s not fair to stick around. Will he come back? Who knows, but willing to walk away is better than devaluing yourself.
Did he come back ?
Update?
…?
How did it go?? I hope
Things are better
So proud of you bossing up and choosing not to put up and ACCEPT that, you won!
If he doesn’t want a relationship, or if he’s leaving you hanging, ditch him. I just did this literally an hour ago with someone who was giving extreme mixed signals. Sucks. But I couldn’t deal with and wondering anymore.
Very true!
smart woman
just did that..
Same
If he doesn’t want a relationship leave the dude alone, there’s someone for everyone no need to play mind games.
Pochely: yes pochely I agree with you!
That part
Pochely: I’m saying!!!
This isnt mind games, this is pure honesty this isnt a guide on how to force a man to be with you, its to judge whether this person or not wants what you want or whether its a waste of time
Hes the one playing mind games he said he just wanted to be friends and then he said he also likes me alot so I respected him I just flirted a little I’ve stopped caring for alot of things lately and now he’s just flirting with me and hinting and its annoying
“You can’t scare off the right guy. If you say to him “my boat is leaving”, and he’s not willing to fight for that relationship, then he’s not the right guy to begin with.” Thank you, Mathew!
I don’t want anyone to choose me because of their fear of me being with someone else. I want someone to choose me because they are sure about their love for me. Otherwise, the relationship could be an unhealthy jealousy/possession/codependency game.
Amazing point!!!!
You’re literally a genius. This is what we all feel deep inside but can’t explain it but you just did! Wow
@@krittazapata5076 🥰
Time is what heals. Idc what anybody says
You are thinking like a woman, he is not a woman. Men see and think different, may not make sense to you, but does to him. Women of today get way too frustrated because they dont got the fact men think completely in a different direction than them, and they are expecting he treated you like your girl friends and guy friends do
2 months ago.. I declared ny love to him.. He said not ready for a relationship.. I disappeared without even explaining myself. I think he got the message.. I know i will find the right one soon ❤️
Any updates ? Did he come back ?
@@arnzgel nope.. I don’t even remember who he was😅🤣🤣🤣
@@fifiabdullah8276 hahahahahahahah
wow. im sorry baby ur gonna find someone great. hope ur doing well 💖
I did the same, they will continue to waste your time if you let them. Have to make the best decision for yourself.
Playing games is not the answer. Find someone that wants what you want. Just breakup, do not try to change anyone.
zumzy u is this real? And works? I live in the Uk by the way
Is He doesn’t want a relationship, move on to someone that does! Simple
Millie Glez0003 not simple at all, cannot imagine kissing somebody else
It seems very simply but so hard to do
Well reality check it isn’t as simple as that
Right that’s why I don’t want a relationship some boys are nasty by showing their dicks and touching theirselves gross
I learnt that the hard way stuck around for 2yrs, him telling me his sorting out his life. I couldn’t do it anymore it’s been 3months since I walked away I feel good😁
The best thing to do is believe them and move on. You can never change their mind in a million years
‘Mind’? What ‘mind’? LOL… 😉
Nadia Asencio 😂
@@HolyRollerTV It was a joke luv, relax
This is almost identical advice to what Matthew Hussey says you should say…”Seems like you need to go away and figure out what you want and be on your own for a while…and I want your happiness more than anything in the world. I just want you to be happy…So I feel like you need to go and be alone, in order to figure out what you want. And I hope that I’m here, or I’m still here, when you’re ready….but until then, I need I know someone who is completely “in” because I wouldn’t want to be with someone who isn’t 100% about wanting to be with me.
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Put the man back in the friendship list and start dating other men. I wouldn’t explain anything to him I would just start dating men with the same as I want. Don’t shed a tear. I don’t have time for men like this. Move on.
Lenore your so right I’m not saying nothing guys knows.. girl I’m seeing two guys. My options are open. I’m having fun. But I see what I see not what I want to see. Action speak louder than words
Yeah I have reserved this dude to be friends with me and he knows that. He knows I’m dating other guys. or trying to. But last night I took a pic of myself and he said “my arms should be wrapped around you”
I was like “if you’re dating me they could be” 😂😆
Lenore talon exactly ! Because he just may be a great friend
@@mecca115able I am dating two guys as well. And I am 53. I was thinking to talk to one of them, the one I am dating for four years, but decided that this is none of his business. I did put him into friend zone though and he got upset but no major decision of his part yet. Now I want to keep them both 😂 because the new guy is wonderful but on a different level. Time will tell who is the right one.. I decided to play waiting game for now and not to force anyone..
Keep playing the “co@#k carousel” until no guy wants you. Great advice
Isn’t it humiliating to stay with someone who doesn’t want you? Just go…
sometimes is just fear of being hurt
Lola Who exactly waste of time!!!
Yes i was back with me as for 7 weeks and i walked into hes house and he was drinking with a girl all night said nothing happened and i said why u with me and he said im not with u o only ask u over for our son..And yet he rings me ask me over for dinner i was so humiliated and so hurt and i stupidly had sex with him.buut my boundaries are up and i dont know why he behaved like that as im st ill confused.
Lola Who right, exactly. I just walked away.
cesar I think he has fear of me hurting him…but I would never. I just wanna be loved consistently by one person who only wants me. And I was consistent sex dammit! I deserve it! Ok sorry lol
I really like your comment Matt: “Know this, you can’t scare off the right guy.”
I love that comment and it’s so true‼️
This comment is total bullshit lol
@@clintselby1614 OK, move on.
Iiuu
I did exactly what you said BEFORE this video – I was pretty proud of myself! It didn’t hurt and the sky didn’t fall and he didn’t choose me. But all that is ok because I am so worthy of the best possible relationship! Good to know I’m making some better choices all on my own – but I do so love your tips!!! Thank you!
Joyful Love I am building my strength to tell him my boat is leaving Wish me luck because I can’t keep going like I am
Iris Clemons sending strength, bravery and courage… it’s not an easy thing but you can do this and you will heal and look back grateful!
I’m going though something like this rn my bf for a year dumped me last night he wants to stay friends for rn after I used this on him so idk if it worked or not 100% he knows I support him and will always be hear for him
@@irisclemons5627 how did it work out?
@@03081416 I finally said to him that I wanted the best for him and I will be just his friend but that I needed to move on . I looked at him differently someone that had a fear of Vulnerability limited in having a relationship . I said to myself God I can’t fix this you deal with it I’m not going to anymore and it’s quite strange when I finally let go of it and forgave I was able to move on myself
I love when someone teach or says something important in simple words straight to the point. You are that man.
I agree