Why Men Pull Away When Things Are Good | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs
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I have experienced this “pulling away”, however, I just said, “That’s his loss!”
He nailed all the feelings I experienced in the first 30 seconds. Dated a guy for 4 months, he cried stating he didn’t know what was wrong with him and why he didn’t think he could give me a relationship. Had a reputation, but cried because I checked off everything. And he completely LEANED IN, actions were clear. And then a switch flipped. Said I didn’t change at all, no other person, etc. so what then?
I once dated a guy I met at church. He was almost 22, I was 20. I was his first girlfriend and thrilled to be dating him. After 1 1/2 months of what I felt was a perfect relationship—he was attentive, considerate, patient, kind and I was that way back to him; he disappeared. He stopped calling me, stopped coming to see me, I never saw him at church—he just “poof, was gone.” (That is what people now call ‘being ghosted”.) I waited for 2 weeks for him to re-appear but he did not. I wrote him a letter asking him why. He found me at church one day and asked if he could give me a ride home. He apologized for disappearing like he did and told me what was wrong. He said he was starting to have sexual feelings for me and felt wrong about having those feelings and avoiding me was his way to stop feeling sexually attracted to me and guilty about those feelings. I never saw him again after that ride home from church. I thought about our relationship, his feelings for me, and the guilt. It occurred to me that he had the emotional maturity of a 12 year old boy—never ever having a girlfriend before or dating, or anything of a romantic nature. What did I do? I cried, talked to my friends about it, but I did not eat ice cream! After about a week and a half, one morning I woke up and all my feelings for him were gone, just like that.
Just reading your comment cause it just what happened to me 🥹 the guilty feeling is awful. I hope to feel better in the next week :/
He finally advised me he felt vulnerable and even anxious about due to a medical condition- a huge colon surgery left him with 25% of a colon. So, he said any partner would have to understand that he would have to use the restroom 15- 20 times a night. I advised him I could understand him and my sister had ulcerative colitis and I could understand and I used to work in a hospital.
Exactly. It’s not an end to anything if a man has an insecurity about something. It can be worked through.
As a man I learn more about love and relationships watching these videos. I find that I learn more about myself seeing from a women’s perspective.
Yeah I guess reading the comments can be very informative too. By the way nice name care Bear 🐻
“remember this: it is NOT your job to try to change these guys, to convince these guys or even to coach these guys to become better men than they currently are..” AMAZING, DEEP, WISE WORDS.
It’s very healing to listen AND look at your videos…especially the ending.
The last 3 months I’m walking as soon as a date start sending mixed signals. When they think I’m gonna chase them I’m walking away. Before I would make so many excuses for bad behavior I don’t any more. I treat a man with super integrity and respect from get go if he doesn’t show the same – I rather be single. I had a psychopath (sexaddict,, a liar, a manipulator) in my life for four years you – I had a lot of professional help to move on and now after two years I’m finally dating again. With my boundaries completely polished and watching these videos help to see that there is men out there that’s intelligent, whole hearted, respectful and loving. Thank you
If he pulls away, it’s time to start dating other men, if you aren’t already!
I hear that
Agreed
Of course, it’s a great opportunity😀
Me I dating 3 men
condoning cheating?
I met this guy that seemed amazing. Treated me great, showed all signs he wanted a relationship. He even asked for exclusivity. Then he says he isn’t sure, doesn’t know if he is able to form real romantic attachments. I felt like the rug was pulled out from under me. He asked to hang out and figure things out. This video made me laugh because his name is James.
why do you think that happened??? i ask coz i experienced that
See that I dont understand about guys but I try to read between the lines because there is always other reasons…maybe his friends tell him something to scare him off or maybe another girl was in his life and he was waiting for her and used you for the time being. Hey I could be wrong but who knows. I always think and look at every alternative he might have
I think my old guy had all of these qualities. Really never was so heartbroken by a man before. It really changed me as a person, i’ve moved forward, but there is still a hole in my heart that never quite mended. I am sorry to any woman that has felt that pain. It gets better with time <3
E Nadine me too. At the end, he told me that I have push him when he was not ready. But he did it to me first.
I have had a similar experience. Thanks for sharing xxx
I am feeling it right now I’m so tired
I am 40 and sometimes I still miss the connection and love I had with a boyfriend I had from 19-21… How do you ever get over this… Only if you find someone better which as it turns out I haven’t…
@@angelicearth78 😩😩😩
So sweet! I also liked the part “Don’t lower your standards…”
My bf pulled away for a time, about 1 year in. But this was a long distance relationship at that time. He said he couldn’t be the boyfriend I needed or deserved. Soo we talked, agreed to be ‘friends’. I did 30 days no contact, and then sent a txt saying Hi. Thought about you today. Was out with my girlfriend and had lunch at our favorite restaurant. Remembered the great times we shared there. Hope life is treating you well. Have a great day 😊
BOOM txt back right away and we’ve been going strong ever since. I made sure I told him ‘you are enough’
We have to appreciate a good relationship and a good partner.
Damn…and men think women are psycho… Men are no different.
on pont
Exactlyyyy
Totally Psycho.
foranimalwelfare 🤣🤣🤣
They are mostly insecure boys, men would not be doing these stupid games.
This is the story of my life and at 31 years old I am sick of it. To all future men I may meet: If you’re not into me like that, LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE. Do not flirt with me, play off our strong chemistry and conversation, and act like you’re so into me and are alluding to dating….then not follow through and expect me to chase you. I wish I didn’t get so attached so easily when I meet a good looking guy and we seem to hit it off. But I get attached because I want that special relationship/connection with a guy so bad 😔
AngieR Crawley the irony is once you don’t care so much about getting in a relationship “so bad”…they’ll come flocking! You’ll put off a more confident, whole energy!
Unfortunately we put off desperate energy when we want anything “so bad”…
look at car lots!! If you act like you couldn’t really care less, they cater and will make deals more readily with you…if you have to have a certain car, they’ve got you..you’ve given away your power.
When you see your immense value, worth, love spending time alone and don’t “have” to have anyone to complete you, but rather complement you… just watch, it’ll happen!
Many blessings🌸
@@Alphacentauri819 Thank you for sharing! I needed to hear this
AngieR Crawley you’re welcome!
@@memoir02 Work on yourself, your own ambitions and goals. This will put you in contact with like-minded men. Develop standards, fortify your boundaries, don’t settle for “any” guy just because you don’t want to be lonely. Surround yourself with people you respect and admire who respect and admire you. How? By focusing on your own interests and goals. People don’t treat you the way you treat them, people treat you the way you treat yourself. Blessings. <3
AngieR Crawley please check out some of the chats & videos by MATTHEW COAST
They’re very eye opening.
https://youtu.be/H_CYc5cMMWU
Quietly pulling away instead of open and sincere communication shows how immature they are. Don’t waste too much time ladies!
or they might be focusing on themselves for a day or two similar to when women do the same thing
That is what is happening to me.
Insecure man are a huge problem
Immature or indecisive, whatever you call it, it is just not worth my time. If he is into me, he will make the effort. If he makes me feel bad, I will call it quits before he can even spell quit.
@@namithanandakumarful truth…
My ex is definitely a text book love avoidant. Once I started asking for more he shut down. Now that I know what to look for I hope to attract healthier relationships.
Mine did this and I didn’t ask for a thing! He knew I had no desire for more kids. I had no desire to get married again (at least not for the next 5-6 years.) I am very low pressure. I don’t demand anything. Even my ex BF said I was the best GF he ever had (we are still friends) and very easy to date! This guy just freaked the F out!
And I can imagine u will… hes right .. everything Mat says.
When you give too much attention without they being equally invested in you
I was with a guy who promised he wanted to get married and have kids, but then he would back away soon after bringing up the topic. After 2 years of that, I said goodbye. I’m now with an amazing man who loves me and my daughter very much! It may be hard to walk away from someone, if you feel you’ve invested so much into them, but I promise that it’ll be worth it!
I hope you are right. I always meet these kind of guys… I hate them.l with avoidant attachment style
ok then i hope you’re having a great life ^^
jade Mabye look into why you have poor taste in partner’s. Therapy really helps!
Same this side and congrats
Thanks for sharing your experience, that’s the point.. the time you invested in them, it’s like you know they enjoy really your company, even they are like this 👌🏻 close to commit and then #2,3,4,5 of the things Matt mentions in this video comes to his mind and you’re screwed. And you feel like nothing that you did in all that time was even worth it, it’s like they didn’t care although you know they care. It’s also true that when they know they are involved in feelings they are truly afraid of abandonment because someone before abandon them or make them suffer, and who pays that?? Yeah, yeah the person who treat it like no one else will. I’m in that situation right now and it’s so hard to fame apart 🤯😖 I’m struggling… 😢 Thank you Matt, I follow you a couple of years and enjoy and learn so much with your videos and your contribution of helping women in healthy relationships.
Thank you for putting an old couples in your videos, because old people can be in love too 🥰 wish you the best, love from Greece 🇬🇷
People of all ages want love.
@@rezotydnic yes indeed!!!
I had to wait till I was 45 to find a good man.
@@candysmith8724 You mean you had to get to 45 to be mature enough and able to see a good man.
Hoping in may age 45 right now I wish I can find trully loved me