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Confidence Comes AFTER You Act

Most people think, “I need to feel confident, and then I’ll do it.”
But confidence is built through taking action, not by waiting on a perfect moment.

You’ll feel more confident with dating when:
✨ You say hi to someone you find attractive IRL.
🚫 You decide you deserve better, and stop chasing their attention.
🗣️ You ask for what you need.
📅 You ask them out, no perfect moment required.

… and even if it doesn’t go perfectly, these moments aren’t cringe — they’re reps.
Reps that help you build the version of yourself who can do it.

So stop waiting to feel ready. Start showing up.
That’s how confidence is built — one small action at a time. 💪