Dating A MAN With Kids: 7 Things To Be AWARE Of
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Dating A MAN With Kids: 7 Things To Be AWARE Of…This video will explain how to date a man with kids. Dating a man with a child can be difficult, but by following the guidance in this video you can experience success. So take heed to these dating tips and be sure to watch the entire video so that you can experience an amazing relationship.
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Exactly
This channel has helped me avoid so much trouble in relationships…..
I dated a man with kidz before…..Good and Bad….
I appreciate that
I am just avoiding ALL men with children. If his children are not over 18, I don’t want him at all
I wouldn’t avoid it, but there are conversations that definitely need to be had
Totally agree! It was hell! Never again
Even the grown adults children are a pain, my child is.!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I think the best move is to COMPLETELY avoid it. I would rather be with a younger man than a man with baby mamas
And I am NO COUGAR!
@@Tiffany_44 Yes especially if you don’t have kids of your own . You will deal with the ex wife etc and it’s too much BS
My son is grown; I prefer a man with no children. Listening just to hear your perspective. Maybe I can share this with someone else.
Can you do a video on how to date a woman with kids some men don’t understand how to date a woman with kids i need a man that is patient with me sometimes plans can change become kids get sick or kids need things before i can go out on a date
Yes, I’m a mom and I’d like to know Stephan’s perspective
I tried but he kept putting me in the back seat, prioritizing his kids, work , business. I dont find them worth it. I’d rather be single or date childless men. I dont want to be the understanding person to a person with baggage.
My experience exactly. I got involved twice with a man with kids. So much drama and you will never be a priority. Plus dealing with their ex wife on top of that. Never again
Step 1: when they tell you they have kids delete their number lol. But all jokes aside, dating a man with a child/children can be just as hectic as men dating women with children. It’s just men love to spread misconceptions and lies so that they can have more options in dating. Also so they don’t have to feel the repercussions of their actions just like how they make women feel theirs when making similar choices in life.
Trying to date with kids can be challenging . It’s very importantant to have a balanced approach and strive to ensure that your situation doesn’t impact on your relationship. Make time for each other, communicate and avoid drama . Third party interference is a No No . My baby daddy would ask his friends to send me spiteful text messages with his own phone . That just escalated every thing and we ended up in the family court. If he had handled it amicably through mediation he wouldn’t have had to go to court . Now he is complaining he is in debt for legal fees .
First off he suppose to prioritize his kids first period it gets on my nerves when people think that kids come before relationships relationships come and go
@@blueanderson5302 I agree but there should be a balance and if the man cannot involve you with his teenage kids after being together for years and only sees you when he doesn’t see them makes you an option
I, again, agree with you 100%. Thank you for turning the lights on.
Always my pleasure
I’m in a relationship with a man with kids- toddler to a teenager.
It’s working for us. I have kids as well. Boundaries were established early on. And I agree with the drama- if his ex reaches out, he handles it. Not that it’s happened but if it did, we’ve talked about that as well.
I’m here for him , his babies are an added bonus ♥️
It’s easier to work if you both have outside kids. I’d say it’s more of a struggle if one party does not.
Sounds a bit like a lie to me
I don’t have kids, my man has 2 kids 2 mothers and he is actively in his children’s lives spite having a rough childhood himself with absent parents. I am not in his way of parenting and he COMMUNICATES with me. Dating a man with kids is possible. It’s not for everyone, but I am happy at 25 years old and he is 29.
God bless all children, relationships, and choices .
I’m in the same boat. No kids of my own, but he has 1. He has a healthy coparenting relationship and he is a great father. I blend right in and it’s working out great.
The science-emphasis you generated on “ communication “ , the capitalization is very ostentatious!
You might not even trust your utterance-consider that true , lol
How’s his ex & all her games though?
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you, he plans to get engaged. Do you feel 2 years of knowing each other is too soon for marriage ?
My mom always said never date a man with kids under 5. Typically mom is not over dad and dad is not over mom.
She should have said: don’t date a man with kids, even if they are 19years old. Especially if they are daughters
Having kids should not beca barrirr to having healthy relationships . The issue is not the kids but the adult who isn’t capable of managing both in a way that doesnt affect each other . I am a single mum with young kids and not once have I been told by a guy that my kids were affecting the relationship. I think it depends on the adult involved . The key is prioritising both .
@@giovannabrown396 But does any man seek out a woman with a bunch of kids? I think not
I have a son myself but I would not want to date a man with any type of drama, child support, court orders, etc because I don’t have that in my life and trust me it can be a headache. He would have to have a really good relationship with his child’s mother and he is a great father and have a good character as a man and father.
When I was younger and just starting out in the world I didn’t date men with kids. I didn’t want to deal with the possibility of baby-mama-drama. Just being honest…However, now that I’m older, single again and have a grown child my mindset has changed and is open to it. I think it’s safe to say, the older a person is when dating chances are someone may have kids, possibly multiple kids by multiple people. I think if the love is there and boundaries are set it could work! Thanks for sharing this video. It’s very helpful.
At 26 years old, I’m definitely avoiding dating men with children. I want to live child-free and possibly permanently in the future. I don’t want to be with a man with children no matter what and feel like it’s an unfair to childless women when there’s so many men (the ones with children included) who treat women with children like they’re last pick.
You are very clever
I just ended things with a man with 3 kids, which I dated (mostly long distance) for a little over 1 year. We got together while he was going through a divorce and now, after a year dating, he tells me he needs to be alone, to focus on his kids and work and to fully heal and recover from his past relationship traumas.
I naively thought he was the one…but well, it didn’t work, but at least I now know what not to do next time…
Never again will I date a man with kids! I have PTSD from the screwed up, jealous daughters & the manipulative ex wife. I don’t need more wrinkles, thanks! I keep my life peaceful now
My mom’s college boyfriend started dating her when I was 1 year old baby and my sister was 4. We are so close now and the bond we share is sacred. He never had kids. God placed us into each other’s lives. Grateful he could still see my mother to love her. He got more love than he originally bargained for.
Never have I introduced man to my kids who I truly didn’t believe I could create life with, and if the man I’m with isn’t showing up as a father to his kids by regularly spending time with them and financially supporting them, no way I would consider such relationships.
There are truly some amazing single fathers out there, who truly step up after their divorce, healed and are much better version of what they were in their previous relationships but as women we also have to heal and know exactly what type of relationship we desire before cutting such man from the start because we might just say no to some amazing men.
I also found single fathers having a lot more life experiences and know how to deal with life difficulties a lot better then single guys, at the end of the day life lessons are what creates better and stronger, more resilient you if you’re willing to learn from it.
Being a woman that does not have children dating a man with children is one of the hardest things to do and one of the most heartbreaking experiences.
Sorry you had a bad experience. How did you handle it, to minimise your hurt? Sending hugs X
Yep. Never, ever again! Life’s too short for that awful mess
@@emski5156 I’m not sure I ever bounced back. Nor did I ever “handle it” you have no control or power in those situations. You just stay or go.