Dating A MAN With Kids: 7 Things To Be AWARE Of

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• Just DONT!

  • Exactly 👀

• This channel has helped me avoid so much trouble in relationships.....

  I dated a man with kidz before.....Good and Bad....

  • I appreciate that 🙏

• I am just avoiding ALL men with children. If his children are not over 18, I don't want him at all

  • I wouldn’t avoid it, but there are conversations that definitely need to be had 🙏

  • Totally agree! It was hell! Never again

  • Even the grown adults children are a pain, my child is.!

  • @@MeetStephanSpeaks I think the best move is to COMPLETELY avoid it. I would rather be with a younger man than a man with baby mamas

  • And I am NO COUGAR!

• 😂 love your message but I hope my future husband is childless I don't have time for the BS.

  • @@Tiffany_44 Yes especially if you don’t have kids of your own . You will deal with the ex wife etc and it’s too much BS

• My son is grown; I prefer a man with no children. Listening just to hear your perspective. Maybe I can share this with someone else.

• Can you do a video on how to date a woman with kids some men don't understand how to date a woman with kids i need a man that is patient with me sometimes plans can change become kids get sick or kids need things before i can go out on a date ❤

  • Yes, I’m a mom and I’d like to know Stephan’s perspective

• I tried but he kept putting me in the back seat, prioritizing his kids, work , business. I dont find them worth it. I'd rather be single or date childless men. I dont want to be the understanding person to a person with baggage.

  • My experience exactly. I got involved twice with a man with kids. So much drama and you will never be a priority. Plus dealing with their ex wife on top of that. Never again

  • Step 1: when they tell you they have kids delete their number lol. But all jokes aside, dating a man with a child/children can be just as hectic as men dating women with children. It’s just men love to spread misconceptions and lies so that they can have more options in dating. Also so they don’t have to feel the repercussions of their actions just like how they make women feel theirs when making similar choices in life.

  • Trying to date with kids can be challenging . It's very importantant to have a balanced approach and strive to ensure that your situation doesn't impact on your relationship. Make time for each other, communicate and avoid drama . Third party interference is a No No . My baby daddy would ask his friends to send me spiteful text messages with his own phone . That just escalated every thing and we ended up in the family court. If he had handled it amicably through mediation he wouldn't have had to go to court . Now he is complaining he is in debt for legal fees .😂

  • First off he suppose to prioritize his kids first period it gets on my nerves when people think that kids come before relationships relationships come and go

  • @@blueanderson5302 I agree but there should be a balance and if the man cannot involve you with his teenage kids after being together for years and only sees you when he doesn’t see them makes you an option

• I, again, agree with you 100%. Thank you for turning the lights on.

  • Always my pleasure

• I’m in a relationship with a man with kids- toddler to a teenager.
  It’s working for us. I have kids as well. Boundaries were established early on. And I agree with the drama- if his ex reaches out, he handles it. Not that it’s happened but if it did, we’ve talked about that as well.
  I’m here for him , his babies are an added bonus ♥️

  • It's easier to work if you both have outside kids. I'd say it's more of a struggle if one party does not.

  • Sounds a bit like a lie to me

• 🗣LET NO VOICE BE LOUDER THAN GOD’S!!! Sir, when I tell you this is the best advice to apply in ANY situation. I almost started shouting…🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣