Did God Really Pick Your Spouse? 🤔 Unveiling the Truth! 💍✨ #FaithAndMarriage
🔍 Have you ever wondered if God chose your spouse for you? The truth might surprise you! If God doesn’t force us to choose Him, then He likely doesn’t choose our partners either. 🕊️ Many believe their marriage is ‘God-sent’… until it falls apart. Discover why marriage is about personal choice and commitment. ❤️👇
Watch to find out more! And let us know, do you believe in ‘The One’? ✨
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Permissive will, perfect will, and your choice. “They got married to the person they felt like.” That’s the issue. We don’t go off of what we feel. We go by what we know. The Holy Spirit will give us intel on that. But we make it so hard. God’s choice is the best choice…the perfect choice. Every marriage isn’t God-ordained. God has His best for those who trust Him to bring the best.
A WORD!!!
Amen!!
This is what I wanted to say, but I didn’t know how to articulate it.
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I agree with you & respectfully disagree w/ Lateress. So then why did God “specifically” create Eve for Adam. I notice the people who believe what Lateress believes are not married, divorced or can’t find the person because they’re led by their emotions. Just like forgiveness, it’s a decision based on a command and not by your emotions. I’m divorced because I was disobedient and married a man that I heard God Himself told me, sent smoke signals, and messengers, sermons etc..etc. said NOT to marry. I’m a Prophetess so I’m very comfortable in God’s voice and presence in my life. I was just disobedient, full of idolatry[= makes us deaf, dumb & blind], and just lacked wisdom. I later realized that I had already knew the spouse God chose 4 me, but in our youth, we were both immature.
I’ve never heard an authentic God ordained marriage story where either party was unhappy. They received several confirmations and were each pursuing God with their whole heart on their own. Most stories even tell you what was happening in each person’s life before they met. For example, while one person was going through something in a particular season the other was experiencing the covering from the other person’s prayer without even knowing until they come together and talk about it. There was one couple who grandparents and parents knew each other and worked together and these kids never met living in the same neighborhood. Their whole life danced around each other and they never met until the appointed time. If the person is truly sent by God it’ll be different, you can wait or choose your own person (free will) some of those work out too but for me marriage is too sacred to risk just choosing any body 😅
Who I put together let no man bring a asunder Matthew 19:6
all Marriages weren’t put together by God.. but by man n their flesh
Also we still have free will
This is bible. I agree with you @persula. God chose Rebecca for Issac. He told Hosea to marry that prostitute. He chose boaz for Ruth. Not saying this is for all ppl. But this is the misinformation that gets shared and causes God’s ppl to go a stray.
A God Ordained Marriage is real !
Laterras there is a spouse specifically for you. The Lord showed me my husband and He said “your destiny partner”. So there is someone for you that will help you walk into your destiny. With Christ. When God sends you a spouse it’s our responsibility as people of God to discern because God definitely will show you. The problem is some feel it’s from God, but it’s the flesh. If it’s from God it’s God’s responsibility as the sovereign God to nourish that relationship. But it’s also ours. There is a person specifically designed for you,but sometimes we miss it.
Amen!
🔥🔥🔥well said!!💯
I agree!!! When I looked back over such a time, I knew it wasn’t God. For years, I asked God to remove him from my life with no harm. God showed me so many red flags that I overlooked. When my pastor said to me after a counseling session, ” If you would have come to me first, I would’ve told you he wasn’t the one”💯. I was so relieved after my divorce. I slept for 2 days and woke up with much joy in my heart.
Let GOD tell you who your husband or wife is. GOD told me and I’ll wait for that time of marriage. I’m doing my best to heal.💯
There is no “permissive” will. There’s HIS will and YOUR will. You don’t have to choose Him, but He is the BEST option. You don’t have the accept they spouse He wants for you, but they are the BEST option. Why would we NOT want God to pick that person? Don’t we trust God? Or nah???
He always gives us free will and the power of choice. He does guide us and lead us and help as we seek him and pray about our future spouse. Even when he shows us that maybe this thing or that person is great for us we can still choose not to heed to his guidance.
I believe opportunities are presented and you can take it or leave it…. However it’s two people that make a decision to stick. To completely commit and honor God with covenant.
At the end of the day… God is sovereign.🙏🏾💜
So, a God who knew us before He formed the foundation of the world, knows our names before we were formed in our mother’s wombs and has PLANS for us to give us a hope and a future…this kind of Sovereign God has no idea who we are going to get married to? Do you believe that?
Are we now saying Eve was never of God just because she was disobedient and caused Adam to be separated from the garden/God? I don’t believe if marriage fails, it was not God ordained.
I’m sorry. That’s incorrect and not backed up by the word of God. God brought Eve out of Adam. He didn’t bring two or three women from Adam and ask him to choose. Boaz was meant to find Ruth. And most people don’t actually think of God when choosing their mate because they don’t believe in God. So God definitely has someone for me and most people. The real question is whether people choose to accept all that God has for them. That includes who is their true mate. People get married for all kinds of reasons. That doesn’t take away from what God had purposed from the beginning. People have a purpose on this earth, a God-given purpose. Again, whether they accomplish it or not is each person’s choice.
Don’t Isaac and Rebekah, Mary and Joseph.
Sometimes when we want it to be truëng, we say it is of God even thought He is clearly telling us to wait.
That’s true. Very true. Waiting is the hardest thing to do. It tries a person’s faith and trust.
God told me that my husband was my husband. I felt like I could choose to go with God or go on my own. And chose to go with God’s choice and 30 years later we are still together and love each other. It doesn’t feel like 30 years.
Every person isn’t the person God sent as the enemy can send the counterfeit that may appear to be God. Perfect will, permissive will, our choice. What God has joined… He has not joined all of our choices. There can even be a divorce if one or both parties step out of the will of God within the marriage Covenant. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I didn’t get married because I thought the person was God-sent. I was checking off the other boxes in life and when it came to dating, there were more boxes and the few aligned that I thought mattered at the time. 😄 I was in my 20’s then, divorced in my 30’s. Now I’m learning the “boxes” that are important to the best of my abilities and like many others, asking for God to say something/show something about the person, waiting for revelations before moving forward with someone and waiting for Holy Spirit to whisper something! Lol, but I’m serious. There’s a lot more to it than just that, but I’m just tossing in that aspect. Let me go watch the full episode. ☺️🙏🏽
The very premise of Lateras argument is fatally flawed!! Just because God doesn’t make us choose Him, doesn’t mean God isn’t necessary for our life! We all need God, but you don’t have to choose Him, and if you do choose Him you don’t have to follow His commands or principles! God is specifically for us! Just like God can specifically choose a mate for you, and God KNOWS you need that person. But just like you can reject God, you can reject that person. You can cheat on God, just like you can cheat on your God given spouse. God gave Eve to Adam. Not Eve, Ayesha, and Maria. Eve was God’s choice! I want to see you disagree with that! Just because your marriage didn’t work, doesn’t mean that wasn’t God’s choice! We all have free will to choose who we marry, and how we conduct ourselves in a relationship. We also have the choice to divorce. Now, can God work your life for good after divorce, yes. But does that mean it wasn’t who God sent? No furthermore everyone who married someone DID NOT marry who God sent!!!
When I met my husband, the Holy Spirit told me he’s my husband. That same day, my husband told his brother “I think I just met my wife.”
God orders all our steps. Ask God for discernment, clarity 1st before making a decision on a spouse and all areas of our life.
So true! 😮💨