Did God Really Pick Your Spouse? 🤔 Unveiling the Truth! 💍✨ #FaithAndMarriage

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• Permissive will, perfect will, and your choice. "They got married to the person they felt like." That's the issue. We don't go off of what we feel. We go by what we know. The Holy Spirit will give us intel on that. But we make it so hard. God's choice is the best choice...the perfect choice. Every marriage isn't God-ordained. God has His best for those who trust Him to bring the best.

  • A WORD!!!

  • Amen!!

  • This is what I wanted to say, but I didn't know how to articulate it.

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  • I agree with you & respectfully disagree w/ Lateress. So then why did God "specifically" create Eve for Adam. I notice the people who believe what Lateress believes are not married, divorced or can't find the person because they're led by their emotions. Just like forgiveness, it's a decision based on a command and not by your emotions. I'm divorced because I was disobedient and married a man that I heard God Himself told me, sent smoke signals, and messengers, sermons etc..etc. said NOT to marry. I'm a Prophetess so I'm very comfortable in God's voice and presence in my life. I was just disobedient, full of idolatry[= makes us deaf, dumb & blind], and just lacked wisdom. I later realized that I had already knew the spouse God chose 4 me, but in our youth, we were both immature.

• I’ve never heard an authentic God ordained marriage story where either party was unhappy. They received several confirmations and were each pursuing God with their whole heart on their own. Most stories even tell you what was happening in each person’s life before they met. For example, while one person was going through something in a particular season the other was experiencing the covering from the other person’s prayer without even knowing until they come together and talk about it. There was one couple who grandparents and parents knew each other and worked together and these kids never met living in the same neighborhood. Their whole life danced around each other and they never met until the appointed time. If the person is truly sent by God it’ll be different, you can wait or choose your own person (free will) some of those work out too but for me marriage is too sacred to risk just choosing any body 😅

• Who I put together let no man bring a asunder Matthew 19:6

  • all Marriages weren't put together by God.. but by man n their flesh

  • Also we still have free will

  • This is bible. I agree with you @persula. God chose Rebecca for Issac. He told Hosea to marry that prostitute. He chose boaz for Ruth. Not saying this is for all ppl. But this is the misinformation that gets shared and causes God’s ppl to go a stray.

• A God Ordained Marriage is real !

• Laterras there is a spouse specifically for you. The Lord showed me my husband and He said "your destiny partner". So there is someone for you that will help you walk into your destiny. With Christ. When God sends you a spouse it's our responsibility as people of God to discern because God definitely will show you. The problem is some feel it's from God, but it's the flesh. If it's from God it's God's responsibility as the sovereign God to nourish that relationship. But it's also ours. There is a person specifically designed for you,but sometimes we miss it.

  • Amen!

  • 🔥🔥🔥well said!!💯

• I agree!!! When I looked back over such a time, I knew it wasn't God. For years, I asked God to remove him from my life with no harm. God showed me so many red flags that I overlooked. When my pastor said to me after a counseling session, " If you would have come to me first, I would've told you he wasn't the one"💯. I was so relieved after my divorce. I slept for 2 days and woke up with much joy in my heart.

• Let GOD tell you who your husband or wife is. GOD told me and I'll wait for that time of marriage. I'm doing my best to heal.💯

• There is no “permissive” will. There’s HIS will and YOUR will. You don’t have to choose Him, but He is the BEST option. You don’t have the accept they spouse He wants for you, but they are the BEST option. Why would we NOT want God to pick that person? Don’t we trust God? Or nah???

• He always gives us free will and the power of choice. He does guide us and lead us and help as we seek him and pray about our future spouse. Even when he shows us that maybe this thing or that person is great for us we can still choose not to heed to his guidance.

• I believe opportunities are presented and you can take it or leave it.... However it's two people that make a decision to stick. To completely commit and honor God with covenant.