Did God Really Pick Your Spouse? 🤔 Unveiling the Truth! 💍✨ #FaithAndMarriage

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• So true! 😮‍💨

• God orders all our steps. Ask God for discernment, clarity 1st before making a decision on a spouse and all areas of our life.

• When I met my husband, the Holy Spirit told me he’s my husband. That same day, my husband told his brother “I think I just met my wife.”

• The very premise of Lateras argument is fatally flawed!! Just because God doesn't make us choose Him, doesn't mean God isn't necessary for our life! We all need God, but you don't have to choose Him, and if you do choose Him you don't have to follow His commands or principles! God is specifically for us! Just like God can specifically choose a mate for you, and God KNOWS you need that person. But just like you can reject God, you can reject that person. You can cheat on God, just like you can cheat on your God given spouse. God gave Eve to Adam. Not Eve, Ayesha, and Maria. Eve was God's choice! I want to see you disagree with that! Just because your marriage didn't work, doesn't mean that wasn't God's choice! We all have free will to choose who we marry, and how we conduct ourselves in a relationship. We also have the choice to divorce. Now, can God work your life for good after divorce, yes. But does that mean it wasn't who God sent? No furthermore everyone who married someone DID NOT marry who God sent!!!

• I didn’t get married because I thought the person was God-sent. I was checking off the other boxes in life and when it came to dating, there were more boxes and the few aligned that I thought mattered at the time. 😄 I was in my 20’s then, divorced in my 30’s. Now I’m learning the “boxes” that are important to the best of my abilities and like many others, asking for God to say something/show something about the person, waiting for revelations before moving forward with someone and waiting for Holy Spirit to whisper something! Lol, but I’m serious. There’s a lot more to it than just that, but I’m just tossing in that aspect. Let me go watch the full episode. ☺️🙏🏽

• Every person isn't the person God sent as the enemy can send the counterfeit that may appear to be God. Perfect will, permissive will, our choice. What God has joined... He has not joined all of our choices. There can even be a divorce if one or both parties step out of the will of God within the marriage Covenant. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

• God told me that my husband was my husband. I felt like I could choose to go with God or go on my own. And chose to go with God’s choice and 30 years later we are still together and love each other. It doesn’t feel like 30 years.

• I’m sorry. That’s incorrect and not backed up by the word of God. God brought Eve out of Adam. He didn’t bring two or three women from Adam and ask him to choose. Boaz was meant to find Ruth. And most people don’t actually think of God when choosing their mate because they don’t believe in God. So God definitely has someone for me and most people. The real question is whether people choose to accept all that God has for them. That includes who is their true mate. People get married for all kinds of reasons. That doesn’t take away from what God had purposed from the beginning. People have a purpose on this earth, a God-given purpose. Again, whether they accomplish it or not is each person’s choice.

  • That’s true. Very true. Waiting is the hardest thing to do. It tries a person’s faith and trust.

  • Don't Isaac and Rebekah, Mary and Joseph.

    Sometimes when we want it to be truëng, we say it is of God even thought He is clearly telling us to wait.

• So, a God who knew us before He formed the foundation of the world, knows our names before we were formed in our mother's wombs and has PLANS for us to give us a hope and a future...this kind of Sovereign God has no idea who we are going to get married to? Do you believe that?
  Are we now saying Eve was never of God just because she was disobedient and caused Adam to be separated from the garden/God? I don't believe if marriage fails, it was not God ordained.

• At the end of the day… God is sovereign.🙏🏾💜