Do People Trigger You? Do This! | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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• Everyone..have a wonderful day...blessings and much love to you all ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

• Remember that not all triggers happen in childhood. They also can happen from decades of an abusive marriage.

• Thank you for you broadcast this morning. I too am the youngest, and struggling a lot right now. You hit the nail right on the head. Took notes & shall move onward and upward. God is my maker, and now I aim to improve.

• I love this!

• Great video! Thank you.

• Thank you Mat…this is so good!
  Five Triggers that are most common that may reflect a part of ourselves that asking for love acceptance and healing
  1. Someone who is bragging too much.
  A part of You may want to be seen, valued, validated, celebrated for your worth. You may believe that expression of celebration is bad, egotistical.
  How to heal this belief?
  Explore where you learned to hide your achievements.
  Celebrate your accomplishments unapologetically!🎉

• We despise in others those things we least like about ourselves.

• Thank you Mat, for these great INsights. 🙏🏼🔆 I resonate with all the triggers you mention. Another huge trigger for me is when I made clear my request for something important to me to be respected by someone but discover that they are completely disregarding my request, and go ahead doing whatever they want anyway. It’s infuriating😡 Most likely stemming from a feeling of unworthiness⁉️As a child I was never made to feel like I mattered much. Another thing that triggers me is when I feel I’m being judged under wrong perceptions without being given the chance to explain my circumstances or reasons for doing what I do. Again, begging the question: Do I matter⁉️ I am trying my best to heal, change my responses and express how these behaviours affect me but, Alas, the changes I would appreciate experiencing in these situations are very slow coming, if at all🙄🥺 Quite frustrating to say the least🙆‍♀️

• Thank u

• This was amazing! 😍👏🏼 One of my triggers I was hoping to see was "Anger". when anyone gets genuinely angry towards me I immediately feel small trapped and triggered. I was doing some soul searching and I know I repress my own anger but why? I always have to be the nice girl and the easy girl but when people get angry with me it really makes me feel hard on myself. I feel low self value, very critical of myself. I desperately try to find the peace and harmony in everything even if it means neglecting my own needs and boundaries.