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Do This When He Pulls Away Or Acts Distant | Relationships Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

Mat Boggs shares relationship advice for women and what to do when your man pulls away or acts distant.

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When a man pulls back and acts distant completely out of the blue, you may be tempted to wonder what you did wrong, or even place all the blame on him, when the truth is something entirely different (and wildly surprising)!
And there is a way to handle this confusing, painful moment with grace and confidence, which is what I share in today’s video!

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Mat Boggs Bio:

As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.

As the best-selling author of Project Everlasting, and creator of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs? dating and relationship advice has been featured on national media including The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, Oprah and Friends, and many more.

Mat's Mission: To increase love in the world, one heart at a time.

As a dating coach for women, Mat believes that your history does not determine your destiny, and that you are more powerful than any circumstance you are facing. The relationship dream in your heart really can become the life you love living!

Mat Boggs highly acclaimed relationship programs have served women around the world in all age groups.

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Written By: Mathew Boggs

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  • @esmeraldablossom says:

    “To attract the right guy you got to be prepared to scare off the wrong guy”. This is a great statement 💚

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    • @rupalipawar92 says:

      What if he doesn’t receive my calls and ghosts me? I mean he doesn’t even read texts either and whenever he does, there is no reply. But a couple of times he has heart reacted to a message

    • @priceashley1994 says:

      What if ur flirting & sexual active with ur ex & after awhile he turns off his read receipts, says things but doesn’t keep his words or promises, wont add u on social media when he says he will, and then makes plans with u but doesn’t talk at all the next day & doesn’t read any messages & he’s older…. but hes done this in the past too but i thought we moved forward after our talk & everything.

    • @MzLuvLeigh says:

      I tried this and he ignored me completely

    • @AmonoAnnet-x2t says:

      Wow so so good good advice thank you to bring him up to give a good advice yeah me and Annette from Uganda but I like so white man who serious I like so white man who was serious in the relationship with me serious one who are going to marry me but I’m not fine I’m just put up someone says with your heart just leave you like that but let me follow you I’m here ring everything thank you so much to give us a device or serious in the relationship I’m going to put my hair to hearing you everyday even follow you thank you so much

    • @Tulip572 says:

      ​​@@rupalipawar92 he is thinking about you for that moment only, but not fully into you. So be careful. Liking is there but love has not happened yet. Nd hope both of you will surely find out quickly, if you wr perfect for each other or nt

  • @deniselewis5047 says:

    I love that you said “half of finding the right guy is saying no to the wrong guy more quickly”. Thank you so much 🙂

  • @mgsol3316 says:

    1. Build the belief: Him or someone better still.
    2. Pay attention on how he is showing up or handling this moment.
    3. Go direct and ask him. Ask him what’s going on, over conversation, not text.

    • @NovembersSun says:

      Thanks for the summary.

    • @Afternoon99 says:

      But what if you’re long distance and all you can do is text, since he doesn’t feel like calling after an argument?

    • @amazynga8868 says:

      Long distance relationship 😢 what to do ? He committed verbally but walked away

    • @chefrio2642 says:

      @@amazynga8868 Oh honey, if he doesn’t have a clear plan, stay away from him. A man who can’t say when he will go and see you is an impossible relationship.

  • @meredithmericle7487 says:

    The old pulling away act has happened to me three times where I really cared. I’d cry and moan to my friends, relatives, the dog, anyone who would listen, but leave him completely alone. The problem is that when he came back usually within three months, I really didn’t care about him anymore and I had moved on. Yep, three months is usually how long it takes for him to change his mind about me and I about him. Why would anyone want to be with a person like that for a lifetime is beyond me.

  • @kelshasavary5000 says:

    If a man says that is his way of dealing with stress (ghosting or ignoring) and he isn’t going to change, walk away babe. You’re better than that. Life is too short and there is someone else out there seeking you. God’s redirection is your protection.

  • @adanechmarthaberhanu1319 says:

    “To attract the right guy you’ve gotta to be will to scare off the wrong guy”, note taken.

  • @reginageorge108 says:

    When I guy pulls away
    You walk away. Simple
    Don’t waste your energy girls
    Just love yourself and enjoy life 🥂

    • @planeguy95 says:

      If he’s been quiet for a couple of days, reach out to him! If it’s been a week or more then that’s understandable. But if you like him, reach out and give him the opportunity to set a date. It’s not difficult, that’s what is meant to happen naturally

  • @gigibtheempress302 says:

    ‘What meant to be yours, will always be yours ‘.. 🌌 never chase , but attract

  • @vinalee4955 says:

    This happened to me in my last connection. I was so in love with him. He began getting distant so I asked if there was a problem and if he preferred to end the connection. He said no, apologized, and said he’d do better. In which he did. However, he soon fell off do I left the connection. He made me feel so undesired, undervalued, and a level of sadness I had never felt. Shattered my heart for no apparent reason. I was very good to him. Haven’t spoken with him since. I’m still healing and getting myself together.

    • @jayjones854 says:

      You deserve the world not to mention the efforts. You won in this case love. 💜 #fuckhim 🙃

    • @planetwalker798 says:

      @Vina I hear you and sorry you had to experience that.
      It stinks that some people can’t have enough respect to communicate and own their stuff:(

    • @ednaa4382 says:

      So sorry

    • @nessaruinheart2124 says:

      Im on the same situation right now 😭

    • @everydaytherapist7315 says:

      Sadly, this is often the case when you become direct. Ghosting is the least direct path a man can take. Unfortunately, when you go direct he will also choose the less direct path of lying about his interest fading. He will even put it back on you. Just wait and see and if you still feel uneasy be gone. Him pulling away means he knows it’s not going to work before you do.

  • @thefirstXYZ says:

    The strategy that I always use when my person pulls away is this: I run away to the hills as fast as I can and it resulted in my person chasing me. And when it happened I lost my interest in them and I dumped them like a doormat. I believe that if your person is in love and sure about you. They don’t have to pull away and give you anxiety. A healthy person does not play mind games in a relationship. So PULLING AWAY is a red flag.

  • @tiffanyjames594 says:

    What I’ve found that works for me is to assume he is legitimately busy and that it doesn’t have to do with me. That helps me get a little perspective and space. And remind myself that I’m going to be fine even if he does pull away. I’ve got me.

  • @phillyd6302 says:

    Hmmm……The guy I was with for 13 months became distant both physically and emotionally over a couple of weeks. I asked him ‘are you okay? You seem to have a lot on your mind and feel distant.’ He denied there was anything wrong. I noticed his texts also became shorter and more formal. So I asked if we could talk and went to see him. I explained how I felt and asked him how he felt things were going. That’s when he admitted he didn’t feel that we could move any further in our relationship and broke things off. No big arguments, all very calm. So I’ve taken him at his word and not made contact for eight weeks. He’s not made any contact either. So I guess he decided he wasn’t that in to me after all! Such is life. I’m still hurting, but I have great friends and family, so I’m getting on with my life. I’m not turning into a wailing hermit for someone who doesn’t reciprocate my feelings and I’m keeping things in perspective. I’m widowed so I’ve faced and come through worse things than being dumped 😊

    • @Challenger2A7 says:

      PhillyD, believe me, he’ll come back, though it might take 2 years.

    • @insoromanoworries7923 says:

      Damn that sucks

    • @beccareynolds4625 says:

      That’s all it takes though… just a basic conversation. Words and adult grown up conversations like grown ups have. It’s not hard and it’s truly disrespectful to just ghost. Damn boys!!!

    • @laurenrose2895 says:

      PhillyD: Thank you for sharing this. I’m fairly newly widowed after 37 years of an incredible marriage. I have ideas about dating but admit I feel apprehensive about opening my heart if it isn’t the right person. I appreciate Mat’s advice and since I’m not quite ready to start dating yet, feel that I have time to put together a game plan. So I very much appreciate the bravery of people like yourself who are willing to share experiences.

    • @tfuentes6545 says:

      He’ll come back after the girl he chose to go with gets tired of him or dumps him .some do realize that there’s not much in common or that they can’t provide what you need of them and get scared and unwilling to try and waste time .the third one is as I said they were talking to 1 or multiple girls and felt more chemistry towards them .especially if you guys met on a dating site/app and no man not woman will ever admit to that I never did ..being real and sincere shows that he has great character and it’s better that he did the right thing instead of string you along and show only mild interest/interactions .I know it hurts but sometimes an explanation is better than being ghosted with no answers I wish you a better experience the next time around as life has something so much better for you !

  • @zoedark7101 says:

    If he pulls away he can stay away.
    Adults discuss things not run away like a child.

  • @Lovepinkdress says:

    When he pulls away, I lost interest too. It’s such a turn off that I couldn’t look at that guy again. Because if he really liked me he would not pull away (and I’m not talking about pulling away for couple of days). Life can be very miserable with the wrong person. 🤷‍♀️

  • @Neongoddess76 says:

    Don’t chase him. Value yourself highly as I do.

    • @allthingsjana7870 says:

      Yup I walked away. Need consistency . The end

    • @pearlliehart says:

      Period! 📌

    • @andreaberryman5354 says:

      Well…some men LOVE a good chase. Will try to encite it figuring you obviously don’t want him then. So the “chase” thing goes both ways-they need to run together-take turns chasing for a while-truce! 😝 If he pulls away and you don’t respond, he’s gone.

    • @kelliefenton6482 says:

      That’s RIGHT!!!🎶💫🌈🍾🥂

  • @rezotydnic says:

    I experienced this twice in my relationship. First, near beginning of our dating. He pulled away. I went 30+ days no contact unless he contacted me. Then went direct. Went to see him in person. Had the conversation. He was fearful he couldn’t be what I needed as he works away from home 6 months of year. Obviously there was something special about this guy. We worked through this and 4+ years later, here we are. Being in our 60’s, no future is promised but we are living, loving, each day together. ❤

    • @Iyraataka says:

      That’s an amazing story. Thanks for sharing

    • @korinshiii110 says:

      This inspired me. Thank you.

    • @byefelicia8632 says:

      You’re accommodating his situation in the hopes of getting a commitment from him. Good luck with that. Thats not living. Its mind f king each other. You two seem to love it though. Awesome!!

    • @rezotydnic says:

      @@byefelicia8632 no I was not accommodating ‘his’ situation. I was letting him know I understood it and was reassuring him that I wanted to see where our relationship could go. Not every woman can handle a working away from home partner. I can. Trust. Commitment. And chemistry and interest are the reasons in the beginning. They grow into something real or not. In our case, they grew. 5+ years together ❤

    • @grechelestrada4846 says:

      I’m literally crying reading this .. it’s so beautiful .. I love my boyfriend so much amd we are arguing and not talking for the millionth time and he always does come back .. but it’s so tough just waiting for him cause he’s my best friend and I just want to be with him ..but I give him his space to always process .. it just hurts in between

  • @ananditaadhikary2179 says:

    It’s better not to disturb the guy anymore. Be confident. Better things are coming your way.

    • @ananditaadhikary2179 says:

      @@ewatomialabi1006 I am in love again ! Don’t want my ex back.

    • @josiecamilo7098 says:

      Voodoo is not cool. Imagine if some guy did this to you? Not right!!

    • @Angelicalovejames says:

      😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @loriann3890 says:

      @@josiecamilo7098 most of these people here commenting on videos like these in this way (whatsapp me, greatest voodoo practicioner of all time etc etc) are just s c a m m e r s

    • @rippleeffects2397 says:

      @@ewatomialabi1006 I wanted my rx back and it was an emotional nightmare that I stayed in because I loved him so much. I will never go back for seconds with an ex after that. Now, I trust that if it didn’t work out it’s for the best. Bye Felicia 👋

  • @thenutrientwhisperer3700 says:

    If a guy pulls back get busy with your own life. And when he steps forward again and asks you to go on a date, “sorry I’m busy, however I’m available on a certain day next week”. Just be busy with your own life so it doesn’t feel empty.

    • @pupdates2008 says:

      Why tell him you are busy? If he comes back its the best time to serve him a hot revenge.. He need to learn to learn some lesson otherwise he will break multiple womens hearts…

    • @Crypto_Learn_Live says:

      @@pupdates2008 hi, don’t forget we come to experience life lessons on this beautiful planet 🌎 called earth.

      In my case I thank him 🙏 and I evaluated ME. Bcs the reflection her was… I am not any more.
      You get it?
      You reflection mirror 🪞 is what the universe pair you up with!
      So by him leaving, that means either he put grew YOU! And there is a better part of YOU! That he is NOT Matching. Or you when lower on the best version of you. And there forth the Universe said…. Wait! This two souls are not a match made in heaven Any more….. Bcs you outgrow him.
      We have a better person for her. Bcs she is being a nicer soul …. There forth she deserves a better more IDENTICAL human being that is her perfect 👍 glove 🧤.

      Also don’t forget, revenge is only going to keep you at lower vibration!
      Being on L1, poor me, I am the victim.

      Noooooo, observing YOU from your higher self, will show you a better human soul and advancing on your soul evolution.

      I know now you may said BUT IT HURTS.

      I know!
      But be happy, he did it now!!!! And not make you waste more time!
      You can’t buy time in life.
      The 🔜 sooner someone or something said bye alone your path!!!!
      The sooner you are more blessed.

      Why? 🤷‍♀️You may said?
      My answer is… let’s said he play you alone… for 5 more years. Or even 8 /9 years! I am not ready. ( casual sex) then on 8 or 9 years later… you be watching your clock and youth go on bye. And yet you be waiting on a man/women, that WAS NEVER GOING TO COMIT!!!!!! Just string 🧶you alone.

      As you kept on watching your years go bye….. like the wind 🌬 💨
      You would got to a point… and said
      A*%# why didn’t you said something SOONER!!!!!!!

      Ahhhh, now you see 😊
      He just did you a favor.

      And wish him a blessings!
      So those good thoughts 💭
      Come back to you like a bumernag🪃
      From the UNIVERSE.

      Namaste 🙏
      Smile …. The universe is watching you!
      LoL 😂 sending you LOVE!

    • @ClaudineBelhomme says:

      Perfect advice.

    • @ClaudineBelhomme says:

      @@pupdates2008But your advice is truly not optimal.

  • @ChristianaSenibo says:

    Absolutely handling it with class is so important. You have to come from a place of knowing that you are enough and deserving of love, and carrying yourself with that knowledge.

    • @michellemoffett9458 says:

      Absolutely self love and self worth is important.

    • @RetzyWilliams says:

      Yeah, but the Titanic still sank even while the band played with class.

    • @chimarnytv says:

      This comment 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @monikagutkowska8178 says:

      I do agree. You have to love yourself respect yourself and believe in yourself and your worth first. A man in my life I consider a “bonus” I do not count on him to make me happy. I do not need my man I just want him. I might be sad if it does not work, but I will survive whatever happens, and yes he knows that…..

    • @Priya-mk4ok says:

      When he pulls away, I’ll catch up with my friends, shopping, and spend time with myself.

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