Does He Make You Feel Rejected?
Love makes rejection painful. Ever wondered why he doesn't keep trying? π€
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So true! That used to be me! Thank you for your good sound advice!β€
Sometimes the person that keep trying after being rejected displays something much deeper that needs healing.
Wise
Interesting way to look at it never thought about it this wayβ¦. Thanks Stephan
Same here. Iβm still confused by it though. π€
Alhamdulillah
Everyone want to be loved but they’re afraid of love
Avoidants play games. Please learn their games
I appreciate your advice ππΌβ₯οΈ
EXACTLY! If theyβre spending their time and money on you, donβt automatically assume they love you. That could be lust. Wait them out. Look for red flags. If theyβre not in love with you and itβs just lust and infatuation, youβll eventually see the red flags.
See thatβs very VERY confusing to me because some men see those very things as showing and proving to a woman that he loves her. My (now ex) boyfriend was like this. He would insist that he was showing me he loves me because he was driving far to see me and spending time with me, buying me roses almost every week, taking me out to dinner. So I believed it. π€·πΌββοΈ
And you know today EVERYONE says βactions speak louder than words.β So that was another huge reason for me to believe he loved me.
But the red flags DID show up.
We didnβt last more than 6 months, and things were pretty difficult during the final several weeks prior to the breakup. Turns out he was a BIG TIME narcissist.
But I still have to question, why isnβt it conformation enough that a man loves a woman when he is spending time and money on her..(?)
@@irinaivanovic9792 Itβs not confirmation of true love because men will do ANYTHING for something they want. Itβs in their nature to chase. If a man feels lust and infatuation for a woman, he will do whatever it takes to get what he wants from her. If itβs not love, eventually red flags will show up. They will begin to change. This time frame is different for every man. Some men can only hide who they really are and how they really feel for a few weeks. I dated a man once that was able to keep the show going for a year before his true intentions came out. True love will last. It is sacrificial. It doesnβt give up. Waiting them out is the best option these days. Men arenβt raised like they used to be. A hundred years ago if a man expressed his intentions, he had already made the commitment to the women in his heart and mind. He meant what he expressed. These days, unfortunately, thatβs not the case.
It works the same way for men and women ; that is, if men are capable of love
Facts
That’s true about people that has unhealthy attatchments to people will keep trying no matter what, which is all the more important for people to not give them control over themselves. They must enforce their own boundary for that person trying to latch on to them for the wrong reasons, whether if it’s yourself or someone else…
This is sort of confusing to meβ¦. π
Absolutely π― agree Mr Stephan thank you for this advice
He wants me to keep. His new phone number. Why when he has a girlfriend?
This is misinformation. It can *seem* true in some cases, but it is not actually true. People can get hurt af and still try because they’re emotionally mature people who know how to communicate that they’ve gotten hurt, discuss the issue, and work on healing. Sure, some do keep trying because of a certain attachment style or even mental disorders, but someone trying doesn’t and cannot tell you the reason in itself. Just as not trying can’t. Someone may not keep trying because they got hurt and don’t know how to handle it (which can also be due to e.g. an avoidant attachment style), and someone else won’t keep trying because they don’t care.
This is so true , facts
You have to finally get awayπβ€
Am sorry I moved on am at peace with my self.
That makes sense