23
Does He Make You Feel Rejected?
Love makes rejection painful. Ever wondered why he doesn't keep trying? 🤔
Related Posts
No related posts for this content
Charlie Page
Love makes rejection painful. Ever wondered why he doesn't keep trying? 🤔
Session expired
Please log in again. The login page will open in a new tab. After logging in you can close it and return to this page.
That makes sense
Am sorry I moved on am at peace with my self.
You have to finally get away😂❤
This is so true , facts
This is misinformation. It can *seem* true in some cases, but it is not actually true. People can get hurt af and still try because they’re emotionally mature people who know how to communicate that they’ve gotten hurt, discuss the issue, and work on healing. Sure, some do keep trying because of a certain attachment style or even mental disorders, but someone trying doesn’t and cannot tell you the reason in itself. Just as not trying can’t. Someone may not keep trying because they got hurt and don’t know how to handle it (which can also be due to e.g. an avoidant attachment style), and someone else won’t keep trying because they don’t care.
He wants me to keep. His new phone number. Why when he has a girlfriend?
Absolutely 💯 agree Mr Stephan thank you for this advice
This is sort of confusing to me…. 😐
That’s true about people that has unhealthy attatchments to people will keep trying no matter what, which is all the more important for people to not give them control over themselves. They must enforce their own boundary for that person trying to latch on to them for the wrong reasons, whether if it’s yourself or someone else…
Facts
It works the same way for men and women ; that is, if men are capable of love
EXACTLY! If they’re spending their time and money on you, don’t automatically assume they love you. That could be lust. Wait them out. Look for red flags. If they’re not in love with you and it’s just lust and infatuation, you’ll eventually see the red flags.
See that’s very VERY confusing to me because some men see those very things as showing and proving to a woman that he loves her. My (now ex) boyfriend was like this. He would insist that he was showing me he loves me because he was driving far to see me and spending time with me, buying me roses almost every week, taking me out to dinner. So I believed it. 🤷🏼♀️
And you know today EVERYONE says “actions speak louder than words.” So that was another huge reason for me to believe he loved me.
But the red flags DID show up.
We didn’t last more than 6 months, and things were pretty difficult during the final several weeks prior to the breakup. Turns out he was a BIG TIME narcissist.
But I still have to question, why isn’t it conformation enough that a man loves a woman when he is spending time and money on her..(?)
@@irinaivanovic9792 It’s not confirmation of true love because men will do ANYTHING for something they want. It’s in their nature to chase. If a man feels lust and infatuation for a woman, he will do whatever it takes to get what he wants from her. If it’s not love, eventually red flags will show up. They will begin to change. This time frame is different for every man. Some men can only hide who they really are and how they really feel for a few weeks. I dated a man once that was able to keep the show going for a year before his true intentions came out. True love will last. It is sacrificial. It doesn’t give up. Waiting them out is the best option these days. Men aren’t raised like they used to be. A hundred years ago if a man expressed his intentions, he had already made the commitment to the women in his heart and mind. He meant what he expressed. These days, unfortunately, that’s not the case.
I appreciate your advice 🙏🏼♥️
Avoidants play games. Please learn their games
Everyone want to be loved but they’re afraid of love
Alhamdulillah
Interesting way to look at it never thought about it this way…. Thanks Stephan
Same here. I’m still confused by it though. 🤔
Wise
Sometimes the person that keep trying after being rejected displays something much deeper that needs healing.
So true! That used to be me! Thank you for your good sound advice!❤