Does He Make You Feel Rejected?

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• So true! That used to be me! Thank you for your good sound advice!❤

• Sometimes the person that keep trying after being rejected displays something much deeper that needs healing.

• Wise

• Interesting way to look at it never thought about it this way…. Thanks Stephan

  • Same here. I’m still confused by it though. 🤔

• Alhamdulillah

• Everyone want to be loved but they're afraid of love

• Avoidants play games. Please learn their games

• I appreciate your advice 🙏🏼♥️

• EXACTLY! If they’re spending their time and money on you, don’t automatically assume they love you. That could be lust. Wait them out. Look for red flags. If they’re not in love with you and it’s just lust and infatuation, you’ll eventually see the red flags.

  • See that’s very VERY confusing to me because some men see those very things as showing and proving to a woman that he loves her. My (now ex) boyfriend was like this. He would insist that he was showing me he loves me because he was driving far to see me and spending time with me, buying me roses almost every week, taking me out to dinner. So I believed it. 🤷🏼‍♀️
    And you know today EVERYONE says “actions speak louder than words.” So that was another huge reason for me to believe he loved me.

    But the red flags DID show up.
    We didn’t last more than 6 months, and things were pretty difficult during the final several weeks prior to the breakup. Turns out he was a BIG TIME narcissist.

    But I still have to question, why isn’t it conformation enough that a man loves a woman when he is spending time and money on her..(?)

  • @@irinaivanovic9792 It’s not confirmation of true love because men will do ANYTHING for something they want. It’s in their nature to chase. If a man feels lust and infatuation for a woman, he will do whatever it takes to get what he wants from her. If it’s not love, eventually red flags will show up. They will begin to change. This time frame is different for every man. Some men can only hide who they really are and how they really feel for a few weeks. I dated a man once that was able to keep the show going for a year before his true intentions came out. True love will last. It is sacrificial. It doesn’t give up. Waiting them out is the best option these days. Men aren’t raised like they used to be. A hundred years ago if a man expressed his intentions, he had already made the commitment to the women in his heart and mind. He meant what he expressed. These days, unfortunately, that’s not the case.

• It works the same way for men and women ; that is, if men are capable of love