Dutch Women Wish Men Did THIS π³π±
I asked Dutch women on the streets of Amsterdam what they wish Dutch men did more of. Here is what they had to say.
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if you dont go for it within the first 5 seconds of you thinking about it, the chances of you doing it are 50% slimmer per statistics. what im trying to get at: do it without thinking or else you think yourself out of it
I already like dutch men β€ let’s be the choosers not the beggers πͺ
You might’ve said the proper amount of seconds. I usually mock comments like yours BUT i think you re right.
β@@FrivalsHuh?π
good advice
Men simply don’t want to be accused of harassment.
I already like dutch men β€ let’s be the choosers not the beggers πͺ
Thatβs not true
Most men donβt think like that when they are approaching women
Stop with this mgtow mentality
Exactly, Thank you!! Also women pick who are creeps or not based on wether they think your attractive. A man they like can pretty much use any opening line he wants whereas another will be spending night in a jail cell π
Men took the power and now they can reject
in this 30-second clip, They show exactly why men don’t approach them.
I already like dutch men β€ let’s be the choosers not the beggers πͺ
Thatβs not true and very sexist
@@jonjonboi3701 Just listen to what they are saying at the end. They seem confused.
@@jonjonboi3701 Sexist in what way?? If men don’t want to approach women, it’s their right and their choice! That woman said “men are afraid”…. Afraid???! I just don’t want the hassle to dodge their minefield of behavioral checklist! You heard it ‘approach but don’t make a big deal of it’…. Already is giving the limitations and constrains of approach, so I have to do ALLLLLLLLlllllll the work and still be worried about what I can do/say and what I cannot do/say. Why don’t they do that work huh??? If they want things their way, then they should do it THEMSELVES. They always preaching equality and alllll that stuff… How about they start to do equal stuff too??? Afterall I’m the “sexist” one and not them right? Righttttttttt
@@Trip4mannoone said its gonna be a walk in the park! If you know all of these βtruthsβ and just give up itβs just a loser mentality. Have some fucking fun with it and capitalise on all the bitter weak men that are out of the game instead!
Says go for it I donβt feel rejectionβ¦. then tells you youβre going to get rejected
Men literally need to have the mindset that thereβs a 50% chance of REJECTION when approaching a woman. Like, just cuz you take INITIATIVE DOESNT GUARANTEE SUCCESS EVERYTIME.
β@@erzascarlet5078so there is a 50% chance of me wasting my time and possibly getting rediculed for no reason but still have to do it ? Nah i like this dutch thing of women approaching the men , men don’t reject women as much women reject men
@@magnusallmighty5000 gl with that. Cuz unless and until youβre in them countries where women approach first, youβre more likely than not bound to die singleβ¦.. But then again, the same can still hold true for countries where the roles are reversed (ie places like the Dutch, Sweden etc), as women will only tend to approach a select fewβ¦.. So regardless GL, cuz a) either way it clearly wonβt help your cause, and b) something tells me youβll need it.
@erzascarlet5078Β you don’t need to be condescending bro it’s just women not a pot of gold , it already happens to me but to be fair I wouldn’t classify them as desirable for me , my approach is to just stick to the women in your friend or work circle , they almost always have an interest in you
@@magnusallmighty5000 itβs not condescending when itβs the TRUTH! LOL, yeah Iβm sure βwomenβ approach you all the time (hence why youβre here trynna prove yourself to strangers on the net).
Must be nice to live in a society where women do some of the approaching.
Dutch women might, but American women still want to work the double standard.
β@@harvey1954whatππ
β@@harvey1954if you think USA women are hard…
yes, please continue
@@giwrgospetrou1159
soy boy xD
Still not worth the trouble lol
She’s not getting itπ€¦ββοΈwe men aren’t afraid of approaching modern women. We just don’t see the benefit anymore of doing so π€·ββοΈ
I already like dutch men β€ let’s be the choosers not the beggers πͺ
Thatβs not true and just sexist
Are you American? Because those men have way more issues than men in other countries.
They’re talking about Dutch men, not American men.
@@LisaSoulLevelHealing
Thatβs true. The feminism ruined the world
Alright, learn talking to woman without giving her the feeling of an approach. If you are the type, she’ll be interested, otherwise you go your way without being rejected. Thing is that people work to much, have less free time and are aware of own privacy. They don’t want anyone interupt own quality time. On the other hand, being in relation sucks your time, money and mental health which modern men don’t give away that easy. Myself i married since 25 years, having three kids and if i ask myself today, was it worth ? With the right one… Yes!
Why the hell men should learn? Women should learn how to approach men
β@@indiworldentertainmentdon’t try to argue with a feminist
Lol! They seem funny, Iβd totally hang out with these ladies and girl talk π
Funny if you like narcisstic bores.
SAME!
It’s true, I’m Dutch and I would never approach strangers in public. I don’t want to bother them.
Exactly.
I agree with you and Im Romanian. Also I would add that the bar is not a good place to find a good woman.
I am dutch and i do approach women. Tyere is a good and a bad way of doing it. Most dutch girls like it if you do approach π
@@pietzaken2220 Ik weet het niet man, Ik wil mensen gewoon niet lastig vallen.
@@K55365 dat is logisch, want het is ook eng in het begin. Besef wel dat vrouwen benaderen willen worden op de juiste manier π
Yep they want first right of refusal.
I’d definitely approach you, Dutch woman are awesome…
After this video, I understand Dutch men.
β Women π
Well, I know many guys that are not Dutch, but they live in Netherlands, some of them are Greeks, some of them are Serbs, Croats…and all I can say is…how in the world you think that someone wants approach to some girl that constantly looks angry or mad or etc….I mean…come on…
Exactly
It’s not ego ladies!!! It’s a sense of not wanting to deal with nonsense or abuse. Too many women are down right abusive nowadays.
Abusive how? Could you give some examples?
Feminist like Dutch women
@@N3ditaInsulting, shouting, violence, basically the same thing you accuse men off.
So this basically just means that Dutch men are well educated and they don’t want to disturb emancipated women sitting with their friends ππ€·ββοΈ feels good
Maybe the men understand the assignment, and these ladies are giving the wrong signals.
Women: “Men never approach us, I think it’s ego”
Also women: “Just don’t go for it too much”
yea, I think I’ll just avoid these two completely
βJust go for itβ, says someone who has never been rejected, ever