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Dutch Women Wish Men Did THIS 🇳🇱

I asked Dutch women on the streets of Amsterdam what they wish Dutch men did more of. Here is what they had to say.

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  • if you dont go for it within the first 5 seconds of you thinking about it, the chances of you doing it are 50% slimmer per statistics. what im trying to get at: do it without thinking or else you think yourself out of it

    • @@jonjonboi3701 Sexist in what way?? If men don't want to approach women, it's their right and their choice! That woman said "men are afraid".... Afraid???! I just don't want the hassle to dodge their minefield of behavioral checklist! You heard it 'approach but don't make a big deal of it'.... Already is giving the limitations and constrains of approach, so I have to do ALLLLLLLLlllllll the work and still be worried about what I can do/say and what I cannot do/say. Why don't they do that work huh??? If they want things their way, then they should do it THEMSELVES. They always preaching equality and alllll that stuff... How about they start to do equal stuff too??? Afterall I'm the "sexist" one and not them right? Righttttttttt

    • @@Trip4mannoone said its gonna be a walk in the park! If you know all of these ”truths” and just give up it’s just a loser mentality. Have some fucking fun with it and capitalise on all the bitter weak men that are out of the game instead!

    • Men literally need to have the mindset that there’s a 50% chance of REJECTION when approaching a woman. Like, just cuz you take INITIATIVE DOESNT GUARANTEE SUCCESS EVERYTIME.

    • ​@@erzascarlet5078so there is a 50% chance of me wasting my time and possibly getting rediculed for no reason but still have to do it ? Nah i like this dutch thing of women approaching the men , men don't reject women as much women reject men

    • @@magnusallmighty5000 gl with that. Cuz unless and until you’re in them countries where women approach first, you’re more likely than not bound to die single….. But then again, the same can still hold true for countries where the roles are reversed (ie places like the Dutch, Sweden etc), as women will only tend to approach a select few….. So regardless GL, cuz a) either way it clearly won’t help your cause, and b) something tells me you’ll need it.

    • @erzascarlet5078  you don't need to be condescending bro it's just women not a pot of gold , it already happens to me but to be fair I wouldn't classify them as desirable for me , my approach is to just stick to the women in your friend or work circle , they almost always have an interest in you

    • @@magnusallmighty5000 it’s not condescending when it’s the TRUTH! LOL, yeah I’m sure “women” approach you all the time (hence why you’re here trynna prove yourself to strangers on the net).

  • She's not getting it🤦‍♂️we men aren't afraid of approaching modern women. We just don't see the benefit anymore of doing so 🤷‍♂️

  • Alright, learn talking to woman without giving her the feeling of an approach. If you are the type, she'll be interested, otherwise you go your way without being rejected. Thing is that people work to much, have less free time and are aware of own privacy. They don't want anyone interupt own quality time. On the other hand, being in relation sucks your time, money and mental health which modern men don't give away that easy. Myself i married since 25 years, having three kids and if i ask myself today, was it worth ? With the right one... Yes!

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