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Love all the examples of the gaslighters being manipulative men
They certainly aren’t all men. One of my best guy friends, who is one of the strongest, most godly, most respectable man I know has a wife who is like this and she’s well-respected. You’d never know about a man who’s abused unless you have a very keen eye to discern the signs.
And with the woman abuser, especially with children and in a marriage, she threatens to take his kids and rob him of EVERYTHING to maintain control of him. It’s absolutely terrible and nearly impossible to get out of at times!
@@jennhawkins5356 I was being facetious. Outside of narcissists and psychopaths I feel like most gaslighters and manipulators are women.
Time to leave
My wife says “I didn’t say that” like twice a week. It I guess it’s not bad if a woman does it, Bruce you only give examples of men.
If you suspect your being gaslit, sometimes a diary might not be a bad option
I did write a diary and it helped a lot to see later that the relationship wasn’t normal.
Seriously. Also, if you ever sit down with a counselor, you can open that journal for them to help guide you through what’s happening to regain your sanity and see clearly through all the smoke and mirrors.
Is this a behavior that will or can change? And how many times do we allow it to happen?
I think they need to be willing to see it in themselves, but sometimes their egos are too fragile to do that.
God can help them, but sometimes they don’t even want to ask God for help because they don’t want to see it in themselves in order to ask for help…if that makes sense?
Theres also an emotional level to this “you’re reacting so weird, why are you this upset?” That kind of thing
OMG In my last relationship, I was going to get checked for early Alzheimer’s. He would go through these elaborate conversations we had that I COULD NOT remember. I was so scared I was losing it. The one sane brain cell I had left in the back of my head said, “You don’t seem to have this problem at work….” A few years later, he was diagnosed with BP1D. He made me feel like I was the crazy one.
I’m sorry you were put through that. I’m glad you were able to get out of that situation.
Oh wow… that’s scary and crazy… you dodged a big one here
What is BP1D?
Sorry, Bipolar 1 disease. He was also a raging alcoholic because he was self medicating. Drinking to the point of grand mal seizures at the end.
I’m going through this right now! My husband does this all the time to me I feel like I’m losing my mind.
Thank you Mat : Gaslightimg can also be seen in so called “friendly” telationships. We knew that we were NOT losing our minds because they had done it with other neighbours before .it’s strange how sick some women can be to have to resort to such underhand tactics. And it is not surprising we never see them with any friends …or with men….or with a man ( a special man)
I went through these examples with my ex-husband and one of my female coworkers.
I thought I was losing it.
I wrote a diary of what I was going through with my husband so that I can read it later which I realized that the relationship wasn’t normal.
I wisg id known all this stuff early in my relationship. The amount of women who saud “oh thats just marriage and relationships” like it was something i just had to put up with. He was a master at this as time went by then after i left with the children i learnt there was such a thing as a narcissist. I had never heard of gaslighting.
It’s easy for people to trivialize what another person “feels” is not right… the gut always knows
i experienced gaslighting at its finest on the job some years ago. I trusted myself but my boss was soo dominant, that it was hard to protect myself because he always reacted with huge anger, when his manipulation doesnt worked. I got so scared, that i had a PTBS after quiting the job and needed 1 year of recovery to go back into a job. Gaslighting can be pretty hardcore… dont even wish this to my enemies… its cruel
My ex all the way
Thanks Matt for explaining so well about gaslighting…really appreciate❤
He hits you, then tells you “I never hit you!” But then later, at another time tells you you’ve hit him, too…and you’re just as abusive.
It can get BAD.
When people gaslight, do they know they are doing it (intential) or are they just that way?
Hey Matt… it sounds like a “he said, she said’… please stop making up XYZ words/phtases for whats been in the world forever….