Finnish Woman on Why Dating Finnish Men is so DIFFICULT 🇫🇮

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• The men probably are introvert guys , i think among his male friends the guys are more friendly and funnier , but when it comes to date and especially treat a woman is a totally different situation

  • No, they simply don't know how to do it

• It shocks me how more and more people expect you to sleep with them on the first date.

  • Kinda of the consequences of the proliferation of hookup culture. When there's a major ideology that pushes promiscuity as something good you get this. There's a reason why dating & relationships are going away, so few people have the social skills to maintain a long-term relationship & hookup culture is a big reason why.

  • I think that in Finland is less and less, it just used to be how we dated but nowadays people are more aware of womens right and its easier to get accused of a rape even if it was consensual because the law changed and now the statement of unwillingness is enough to make it a rape in the eyes of law

  • It shocks me more that a simple meet can't be at the park or somewhere free to be and do things vs someone demanding a meal at a place they can't afford for themselves. Time is one thing time and money are another.

  • ​Is it? Wasnt like that when I was in Tampere between 2005-06. Those were fun times ​@@namaenomore7831

• I want this but not this, that but not that, respect my boundaries but push them, no means no but no means try harder, do everything i want how I want it but don't appease or pander, make the right move at the right time but don't be a player, be appropriate but be bold, listen to me but don't listen to me. And on and on and on... STFU

  • 🤣

  • Yup this is what they fought for & now that rubber is meeting the road and they're having to deal with the consequences of true equality & they don't like it. They wanted the power but not the responsibility well it doesn't work like that so now they gotta learn to take responsibility & hold up their half. Time to adapt & overcome ladies.😂

  • Facts 💯

  • Lmao found the Finnish guy

  • Yeah you don’t want a life of manipulation and of being graded on a test you didn’t realize you were taking. Go your own way.

• western men will not pay the bill in the name of eQuALiTy but also expect to give your pucci for free

  • THIS

  • Modern men should have to pay for Pucci ..you don’t want to pay for a date? Fine. Go find yourself a pro$titute and let other women live.

  • You should pay your own bill and sex shouldn't be dependant on money

  • Finland is completely different from the US and in Finland you would have such rights as a woman that you don't need a man at all to pay the bill and where you would have sex exclusively for pleasure. You would be respected, with all possible women’s rights that you can and cannot imagine. There is no romance, but there is respect and rights.

  • Frrrrr!!

• Geez. I would make money teaching how to flirt there and really I feel like pretty dumb about it... ( I was a nerd but I learned a great lot so it seems)

• Finland, here i come 😂

• Like...like...like...like...like...like...like...like...

  • How could anyone tolerate that for more than 5 minutes. It's ruined language. Just speak a little more slowly. Yikes!

• At first it shocked me too, I must confess, but I was only 12 at the time.
  However, soon my strict up-bringing made me realise that interacting with others is essential in order to achieve emotional maturity. Within a year or so I became fully aware that one is not wired for life in isolation, and that there is no greater pleasure than giving back to society as much and as often as humanly possible and for as long as the Good Lord in his infinite wisdom mantains the by now consolidated man-shortage at its optimal 1 to 365 ratio.

• 😢

• They're completely the opposite of Brazilian guys in a date 😂

  • O brasileiro lá ia passar o rodo em geral 🫡😂😂😂