HARDEST Part About Being German-Iranian 🇩🇪🇮🇷
Zak shares the honesty of what being born in Germany to Iranian parents is like and the difficulties around that.
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Hallo
big cap, can’t even be in the same room with women in Iran
That’s a total lie and he’s referring to same-sex affection.
That’s not even what he’s talking about. Sure, most Middle Eastern cultures are more restrictive when it comes to interaction between opposite sexes, but he’s talking about behaviour in general. Like, have you ever been around Middle Eastern people? They are just like he described. If you have a Middle Eastern friend, he prepared for being touched and massaged and whatnot constantly. Also, you shouldn’t confuse the current law-situation in Iran with Iranian culture. Iranians themselves suffer from the oppressive regime in their country.
@@shimanopetermann9068اهمیت نده، بگذار هر فکری میکنند بکنند. وقتی در مقام دفاع باشی بیشتر کرم میریزند. بگذار فکر کنند بهتر هستند، چه اهمیتی دارد!!
Warm cultures can be suffocating. You have to behave to strict norms. Germans respect and value more privacy and personal freedom.
yes they do but they got so cold that they sometimes just seem unfriendly. Though warm culture can be really fun you would be surprised by someone you just met and just greet you by kissing you. This is why I often avoid meeting relatives back when I was a kid. It’s so hard being an introvert when you have people like that around you. I don’t even wanna talk sometimes but they have a lot of small talk. But late I realisez that I am warming up to them lately and it is really good for emotional growth especially for kids. Coz there are also TOUCH that are not disrespectful but assuring. My friend used to teach in Thailand she said she couldn’t even hug the kids when they were scared. It is just not allow in their culture
warm cultures can be suffocating, but cold cultures can be suffocating as well. you are slowly being suffocated by other people’s indifference, it’s just harder to realize. or maybe I’d call it ‘freezing’.
@@drzeworyj depends how you are raised and used to it. The advantage western cultures have imo is that wetsterners can Develop their personal freedom that makes the west very attractieve for people from so called warm cultures. Look the statistics.
Dont you think it applies to the other side as well? If the norm is being cold, when you act warm, you kinda become an outcast. So generally no matter the norm is, of you dont behave, youre out
I see it as completely opposit.. Aren’t cold cultures alot more strict in their norms and behaviors? Warm cultured people are generally alot more “adaptable” and easy going people than the cold ones..and one thing for sure, being rude and inconsiderate to others isn’t seen as a form of freedom for warmer cultures😂
If you are a reserved and shy person germany is a paradise if you like parties and hugs and kisses etc than its a nightmare.
Guys it looks like this behavior is determined by weather. The more warmer the country the more relaxed and wellcoming the colder the country more shy people are.
Not true whatsoever, I’m from a hot country and people here aren’t welcoming
@@berrymckockiner5883 where?
Are you sure that nobody felt the tiniest uncomfortable with you touching them outside Germany? Or they just didn’t dare to say stop?
Just because a german dare to say it that doesn’t mean that the germans are the weird one here.
He said his American friends were to intense for him
Found distant iranian cousins, on myheritageDNA,living in Germany recently .
I like that you guys have started doing shorts. So much info in a quick video. (Lol i sound like a bot but genuinely this a good idea). I find it hard to watch the longer videos at times, this is so much better.
Passionate about surpressing women buddy.
We know what an euphemism is.
He sounds and looks so German haha
Salute 🙌 My Iranian brother