Have you ever felt like you were the problem in a relationship?

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• Finally somebody have the guts to say the truth.

  • Amen!! He's telling the truth.

  • Amen Lord he needs his own popcast instead some of these others tht single n lonely n downing us all the time

  • @Erma Lovette Not dowing but expressing concerns. FYI this is from a guy who doesn't know if he wants to be a Family man or bachelor. This is normal for us men it's two separate lifestyles. He's choosing to be a family man. You have to self reflect and make adjustments before you take on that role in your life as a husband, protector and provider. You don't reach this point if you choose to be a bachelor since you only responsible for protecting and providing for yourself.

  • After looking at the pool of available BW dude realized how peaceful his life is single post all that growth. That's the truth.

  • Of course... Because when you're attractive it doesn't hurt to be honest. I honestly have been straight up with women that it's not possible for them to be the only one and they might have left and tried to find better.. but every single one has come back either for the money, height, sex, car, pool house ect.
    I know statistics .. if you're going to find another one. Good luck

• I can appreciate his honesty. That was a healing moment to hear him say that. 💜 As a woman, I can admit that I played a lot of games too. I was not honest about how I felt and the men in my life got hurt too. Renewed minds walk and talk different. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • Amen

  • Amen sis 🙏

  • Thank you

  • Yesss “ Renewed minds walk and talk different” I love that and it’s absolutely true !

  • Love this comment and Ditto. Lucky when I was ready I found my lovely husband. And as his 2nd wife he knew what he wanted. Once I realized what I wanted and was ready...he appeared! We were engaged in 3 months and married in 6. 8 years in November!

• This🥰 it’s very mature when u can look at things in life especially relationships and see where u played a part in not making that relationship successful. GOD has to really show u your part and when u take the time to listen and see what He is telling u it changes your life🙏🏽

• Sounds like he allowed God to work in his life and now we see the fruit of it all. Good for him!

• It’s the honesty for me! I know he feels free! Free to be the husband he is called to be and I am here for it! Yes Lord!

  • All that is great, But are you qualified for the position he seeks to fill?

  • ​@I'm TheDon I don't think she is applying for the position but rather simply happy for him.

• Accountability is everything!!!!!

  • Unfortunately I've never seen a woman show accountability

  • @I'mBest! I was about to say the same thing

  • Women's accountability is in words only.

  • @I'm TheDon not even there. Women and accountability are east and west.

  • @I'mBest! this is tru

• Respect to this King for speaking truth and being transparent. He had to mature and release his ego.

  • amen tell the truth

  • Yes Lord!!!

  • Why do we as Christians call men a king. Yes he is truly right but he this man submitted to the King Jesus. God the Father gave him Grace and the blessing. Men are not called kings in the Word of Jesus. He's just what he said. He a leader the head. Thanx for reading this.

  • Ego!👏🏾 Ego is Satan's stronghold on a man!

  • @Seesisterlove Too Some men are King like but most are not and therefore not worthy of being called a King. A King is supposed to be a wise leader of his dominion. It's only in America they love to call confused and lost Black men 'King'. Lol.... 😂

• This is really happening even after 40 .

  • Yes its happening after 40👀👀GROWN men still dont get this!!

  • @Dee Driver and when they do they can't find similarly qualified women. Shame.

  • Even after 60!!!! 😢

• You're the man God will let you find her when you're both ready.

• You are so truthful . There is a lot of men out there like that and don't want to admit it.

  • Yes n they lie alot to you in themselves,I'm single Because I don't have the time for games I got my grandbaby to do that with I'm almost 50 next year

  • That's the manipulation tactic that they use on when to get what they want without you having any boundaries or expectations

  • Don’t want to admit & don’t want to submit! 💯

  • @Blkafect Oooo … what button was pushed?! Everybody is entitled to their own opinion. He said he admitted he was dishonest, coming to the knowledge of who he is, & he also said, when men submit to God. When you don’t know the fullness of who you belong to, you’re gonna be selfish & do you. You sir were bought with a price; Jesus paid that for you on the cross. Men & women don’t submit because they don’t want to give up their worldly ways. I’m not shutting up! God made man the head, men out there don’t know their place so they don’t submit, which in turn why they can’t be that proper head for their women. So you’re saying you’ll never submit to God & that’s being left in 2022 then you need to reevaluate your spiritual life! Let that sizzle!!!