How an INTROVERTED man ATTRACTS WOMEN

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• Ever been with an introverted man, Keshia?

• Thank you so much for this video. I bought a few of your products and I thought I had to be as outgoing as extroverted men, even trying to smile like them made me feel awkward, and I realized now that I shouldn't be someone I'm not and I can be friendly in my own way.

  • Awesome! 🏆

• Im an introvert, and this helps. I've been trying to reframe my internal dialogue for 20+ years!

  • Good to hear! 💫

• I wish I was the mic!

• We introverts do not see ourselves as inferior; quite the opposite. The problem is the world seeing us as inferior. Always observant, always thinking we are usually a dozen steps ahead of most others in the room. So we know which are the High Quality Men/Women at the party and strategize who is worth going after. We play chess, not checkers like everyone else. The introvert can be as outgoing as the extrovert. The clinical difference is our reaction to socializing. The introvert feels exhausted after the party; the extrovert is energized.

  It is a fact I have usually been successful with women everyone else wanted but considered impossible.

  One night I ran into a man who pointed out an attractive, statuesque woman and told me that he has been trying to get her into bed forever and always failed. He told me forget about her if I was thinking of approaching her. I 😏 smirked. What I didn't tell him is that I recognized her. She was my ex-girlfriend!

• Decades past but you always give some of the best solid no nonsense advice.

  • Thank you xx

• I seems playfulness and hunor are always needed. How do we develop that? I always thought of it as something you either have or don't.

  • I've done videos which specifically focus on hoe to add playfulness and fun into the interactions xx

• I love what you are saying here. Im an inteovert and have seen it as a weakness my whole life. So i am going to work on my self labeling. In the meantime, though... how do i become more interesting? 😅

  • It's not about being interesting, it's if you can communicate in an interesting way.

• Fantastic video, Kezia, as always! This is completely true and very relatable. I used to always think that nobody likes an introvert, and so his chance with women is rather slim. By the way, love how hot you look here! This is definitely one of your best styles.

  • Thank you so much. My hair gets darker in the winter which is when I shot this video xx

• While the concept sounds useful, I think the challenge for introverts will be recalling the reframing method when it matters?
  Does the confidence come along with the routine of reframing?