How Do You Make Him Feel Special? | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs
Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and How to ask him out
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Amen to all of this!! I have only given positive, uplifting, encouraging words.
Words of affirmation. Have given total respect to him. He has told me that I have totally changed his life because of the words I’ve said and how I’ve said things to him. He shared his heart with me and I understand his heart. We are praying, believing, working together, and looking forward to a wonderful future together. ❤🙏
PTL you can have a relationship like that, keep it up!, but there are MANY wives that just LONG for the same response fr their husbands…HAVE tried hard to do the same only to be abused more yet, as the nicer you treat them the worse the abuse, because of increasing their guilt due to them having a “sick” mind n heart bc of being Narsistic…that awful ” disease ” of a heart not right w God. 🙏 for the many who JUST LONG to be able to pen same words u have here…who HAVE done the same but totally diff response back, suffering in silence behind closed doors.
Amen and amen! ❤
@@jesussaves4262yes, being in a relationship…married to! a narcissist…so destructive, I remember the feeling of walking into my previous house (not a home!) after church, feeling the joy being sucked right out of me, praying “God you see all that is going on here.” Thank God I didn’t believe anything my previous husband was saying to me on a daily basis…horrible things…and in front of his sons. May God help those who start to believe those untruths and find support somewhere.
Now married to an incredibly loving man, I thank God every day for him.
Have a blessed weekend! ❤
Herosize not criticize…. LOVE this!! This is my new mantra. Thx Mat 🙏🏻
I compliment him for his character instead of his look. And I tell him little things that he does and I appreciate
What I try to do is this:
*Remember stuff about them and cross reference it during future conversations
*Seek help in little things, mostly academic and explain it back to them in my own words so that they feel satisfied with their own ability to explain
*Root for them in the little and big things in their life so that they feel safe enough
*Compliment them randomly and express my genuine confidence in them
*NOT agree with everything they say and offering constructive criticism so that they feel challenged
*Lastly, I dont play games and tell them exactly what id like for myself, if i want daily goodmorning texts or flowers on a date or when im ranting just listen and not try to offer solutions, i just tell them, now its up to them to practice that. This ensures both of us are happy and thus eradicating the chances of a communication gap
Thanks for this comment! I’m honing in big time right now on the “how to phrase it” focus. When you say don’t agree with everything he says, how have you learned to phrase your challenge while still remaining in the feminine space? Carrying a decisive confidence without your passion for what you think being too overwhelming?
@@whitneylindsay8068 yes i believe i have, but you know what? Being passionate is one of the biggest feminine characteristics you can exhibit and if it is a guy with a non judgemental thought process he would definitely accept your passion and may even find it inspiring or cute hehehe
Making “my man” feel special:
* always acknowledging with enthusiasm when he shops & brings home items I mentioned.
* having his favorite mints available
* giving his dog 🐕– his buddy — special attention
* cooking his favorite meal 🍽 & sending home some for he & his dog 🐕
Hi Mr Boggs I have learnt a lot from your videos now I can see how many mistakes I have made previously. Thank you so much for sharing your expertise with everyone
As far as being selective is concerned, that is no problem for me. My former friends used to always tell me that I’m too picky. I don’t get involved with just any ole’ man just to have a man in my life. I have no problem going YEARS being alone before dating and getting involved with a man. As far as being uplifting a man goes, I prefer to uplift than to tear down…and that goes for anyone. I can give constructive feedback, if solicited, without being nasty or demeaning. I love to celebrate him and becoming a part of his world is going to be a no-brainer….and effortless.
I face the inadequacy feelings head-on if something didn’t work out. I will say something like, “You have not failed me or the family. Ever you are good to us. We can analyze it to death to try to find some way it may have worked, but there are even more ways that it could have otherwise not succeeded. I see no failure, only your hard work and care. I respect you even more today than I did yesterday. Thank you.”
I was dreamining about growing tomatoes…so he build me a greenhouse. And I can see how happy he his when I go my green house. (A lot). I didn’t even ask him to make it. I was just dreaming about tomatoes. And now I have a green house and I keep telling everybody how nice it is.
I see that for him making me happy is really a priority. And I know he feels really special when he makes me happy 😊
I take time to connect with him over text messages which is important to him as his love language is 1) quality time, his 3rd one is words of affirmation so I also tell him things that make him feel valued. So between the 2, he feels seen, understood and loved even if we are still dating from afar as he has been gone on a long business trip abroad the next day we connected and I haven’t told him the 3 words yet (he already has!! Snd even asked me to be his gf but I asked him to be patient and wait until he comes back – he has my full attention and he knows that and he also knows that I have been single a while so it takes someone special for me to share my energy and presence.
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I’ve asked him for advice in a real estate deal (he’s in commercial construction) and although I’m an appraiser and knew some of the answers, it was amazing to have his knowledgeable input and I gushed over him quite a bit. Not sappy, but letting him know I appreciate his skills.
“don’t criticize your man, herosize your man” love this ❤
I paused the video to send my new “interest” a message thanking him for the great conversation we had last night. I told him that he made me laugh harder than I had in a while and that he brought out the joy that I feel inside. I thanked him for giving me that gift! I did it because I felt encouraged to by your video, but also because it is true. I smiled the whole time we were on the phone and the whole night after the call. I can’t wait to see what his response is!
Guys LOVE when I give them hugs! They completely light up and I love giving hugs too :). I’ve found that guys will try to make situations so that I will give them a hug. Such as walking me to the door, giving me a ride, taking me to things, etc. I find that men love to be touched for doing amazing and kind things.
Mat, I have found that I generally make people feel special naturally. Men who are friends will do great things that I can feel are intended to impress or win my affection. I can feel a terrible internal conflict sometimes even accepting the kindness, because I don’t know how to phrase a clarification without inadvertently criticizing their effort and hopes. How do you receive from men freely, while also articulating a lack of interest romantically, and still maintain a freedom in friendship?
Also, I’m realizing that I hold back from practicing flirting because I don’t want to send mixed signals if I catch their attention, but then realize they’re actually not someone I want to invest time into. They’re still a fellow human being! I struggle with knowing what to say if they were to get upset and ask why I was so open to them at first, but then became distant. Many of the men I might flirt with are not strangers in a shop, but people who are in my community, who I would see again. I want to be open to more play, but want to maintain a strong integrity too
I love this information. I’ve done things like this, but it hasn’t been reciprocated the way i want, so the right one will come along. ❤
That last one !!! “Join him in his world” when she does something I love and on that off chance she joins me (10% of the time) my heart just melts. It feels sooo good, biggest smile, and huge sense of togetherness.
I like the concept of “herocising”. But I find it hard to do when my expectations aren’t met..and it won’t be genuine either. I mean I guess my expectations are too high.