How Men Approach in Spain vs Germany 
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Spanish girl talks about the differences in German and Spanish approach.
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now a quiz: if you only hear the sound, who is german?
βSomesing like disβ
Can someone tell me what part of Germany he sounds like he is from? His accent is strong
@@anastasia-fr1gn every German who thinks he can speak english but has never learned it
Donβt forget as a German in Germany youβre just another northern European in Northern Europe. A northern European is kind of seen in Spain how Northern Europeans see Mediterranean people, generally quite sexy and exotic. If you go somewhere where you are not the norm youβre much more likely to be appreciated
I think I remember a video where a Japanese guy went up to people in Mexico to ask random questions and everybody was friendly.
A local (Mexican) did the same and was ignored.
(They probably thought he was begging)
yeah, I was actually speaking more sexually but Iβm sure youβre correct. As an Englishman in Spain I get a lot of attention and a Danish guy I know has the same thing@@someguy2744
Well depends
I like German men. Letβs give the females the work to convince us they are worthy
Me toos
Best way
Highest German compliment: Yeah, youβre alright.
Joa passt scho
What you want more? Itβs already a privilege that a man waste time with a female
Sympathisch, man kann sich unterhalten
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Germans need to be more nice ! Compliments are good and make you feel good and loved
nah they are doing fine the way they are. number 1 economy of europe. producers of best cars in the world. I wouldnβt change them too much.
You are just another female of billions, you are not special
Chloe how often have you complimented your partners if they were men?
Especially the smile, having people feel they are welcome, not ready to have them depart into some military group
What. Wait a minuteβ¦so i was being flirted with? I spent 10 yrs with European colleagues and I thought they were being nice
As a Latina raised in Southern US I would never think this is flirting, just manners
If we have enough interest to repeatedly show manners, we are probably into you
If itβs your colleagues, theyβre probably just being nice lol
If itβs serious interest and for relationship, the person will be persistent and show quite clearly if they like you. Want to talk as much as possible at every given chance, give nice compliments and try to be charming. Want to spend time on free time but also see if spark is there from both ways. Thatβs how we swedes usually do it and I think Germans are quite the same. However the limit is very fine, I can joke/talk a lot and say nice things to my guy friends as well but itβs only the ones I want to spend alone time on free time that Iβm interested as more than friends
Thatβs how me and my boyfriend met and usually signals are just as clear as other southern countries without the unnecessary sweet talk but instead sincere actions to make it happen. Otherwise I wouldnβt care much how it developed or feel they are exchangeable/find someone better
Oh wow
You have missed something all this time
I donβt understand why are we meant to tell girls that they are pretty? When did that one way road start?
I donβt remember girls saying that to men. This sounds like the matriarchy!!
Most Germans will not say they like you but when you ignore them, theyβll start bugging you or question you why youβre not communicating with them anymore.
Hypocrisy at its best lol! I mean WTF, if you like someone, tell it! Itβs a waste of time holding on to that feeling and beating behind the bush!
You donβt understand what hypocrisy is. This is the opposite of hypocrisy. Hypocrisy is telling someone you like them then stab them in their back. If a person is communicating and being friendly with you itβs because they like to have you, otherwise will just ignore you
ββββββ@@Frivalsit depends on what actual thought process or behaviour is being called into question and labeled as hypocrisy
ββ@@Frivalslike if they believe that people should tell somebody and talk with them if they like them, but they refuse to live up to that standard themselves, and instead only pester you about not talking to them anymore, even though they like you and havenβt told you
From where Iβm from, I think the blonde man in this video is very handsome
For me as Γ french person she is juste ok
@@ananassucre5657 I am referring to the blonde MAN, not the blonde woman..
β@@xtelESC92he is nothing special
@@SRBOMBONICA86 well maybe for you heβs just a regular guy. I rarely see blonde and blue-eyed man in my place..
β@@xtelESC92where you from
So if I go to Germany and give a woman a compliment she will get offended. I donβt quite understand this video
well depends. if you are attractive they will like and appreciate it and they will think that you are so confident for saying things that people usually donβt say. but if you are unattractive or short they will get offended because you thought you had a chance with them and they will think you are creepy.
@@gliboperuta9213 These people are bizarre β¦. just being polite and good-mannered doesnβt mean you are ready to jump to bed with them, or selling something or trying to scam them. Itβs just trying to have people comfortable, and feeling welcome, thatβs all. Itβs good for the spirit and the soul, you see?
Dating a german man rn and he might not be german bc he compliments me in such nice waysβ¦.especially while doing the deed
Oh my gosh! What does German dirty talk sound like?! Iβm flirting with a German guy at my job and weβre not there yet but my mind is wandering
But most German men are good looking
So itβs a win win
YEah good-looking but oh so difficult to understand β¦ As a Latina I say that most of the time we would feel they are mad at us.
German guys are pretty awesome to have as a partner if youβre the independent woman with your own goals and ambitious type.
10/10
Spanish men are much more masculine than German men thatβs the reality point blank periodt. Spanish men donβt sugar coat how they feel. Iβd be frustrated dating in Germany .
Well current Germans arenβt the same as Germans in the past
I honestly think if the guys are truly interested no matter what nationality is, theyβll be straightforward with their feeling at least thts wht my experience is
This is why I love being a Balkan woman and I like Italians French and Swiss
I like British men way better Italian, Iranian French Swiss I love romance as a Balkan woman we are the most romantic women anyone can meet just like Italian no wonder I get along with Italians Brits Suiss and French. French men are so sweet romantic British as well you donβt have to work nor pay for anything
I was never into German men. My first bf was Italy Milano
Damn you must sleep around a lot ,I like being closed
Oh, ohhhhhh
makes sense.
As a German I personally wouldnβt agree with that at all
iβm currently in germany and it feels like a different planet. being latino, i tried approaching women a couple of times and they looked at me like i was a psychopath. i also went to a club with a friend and he ended up getting kicked out of the club for βharassing womenβ, he was only introducing himself to them. i think that has a lot to do with why german men donβt approach. harassment accusations are taken very seriously and no one wants to come across as a creep.
god that is terrible, que pena that a thing happened to you.
This is totally BS. You canβy say βALLβ German men, unless you met βALLβ German men.
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