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How Men Approach in Spain vs Germany πŸ‡ͺπŸ‡ΈπŸ‡©πŸ‡ͺ #shorts

Spanish girl talks about the differences in German and Spanish approach.

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  • Don’t forget as a German in Germany you’re just another northern European in Northern Europe. A northern European is kind of seen in Spain how Northern Europeans see Mediterranean people, generally quite sexy and exotic. If you go somewhere where you are not the norm you’re much more likely to be appreciated

    • I think I remember a video where a Japanese guy went up to people in Mexico to ask random questions and everybody was friendly.
      A local (Mexican) did the same and was ignored.
      (They probably thought he was begging)

    • yeah, I was actually speaking more sexually but I'm sure you're correct. As an Englishman in Spain I get a lot of attention and a Danish guy I know has the same thing@@someguy2744

  • I like German men. Let's give the females the work to convince us they are worthyπŸ˜‚πŸ’ͺ

    • nah they are doing fine the way they are. number 1 economy of europe. producers of best cars in the world. I wouldn't change them too much.

    • Especially the smile, having people feel they are welcome, not ready to have them depart into some military group

  • What. Wait a minute...so i was being flirted with? I spent 10 yrs with European colleagues and I thought they were being nice πŸ˜‚ As a Latina raised in Southern US I would never think this is flirting, just manners❀

    • If it’s serious interest and for relationship, the person will be persistent and show quite clearly if they like you. Want to talk as much as possible at every given chance, give nice compliments and try to be charming. Want to spend time on free time but also see if spark is there from both ways. That’s how we swedes usually do it and I think Germans are quite the same. However the limit is very fine, I can joke/talk a lot and say nice things to my guy friends as well but it’s only the ones I want to spend alone time on free time that I’m interested as more than friends 😊 That’s how me and my boyfriend met and usually signals are just as clear as other southern countries without the unnecessary sweet talk but instead sincere actions to make it happen. Otherwise I wouldn’t care much how it developed or feel they are exchangeable/find someone better

    • I don't understand why are we meant to tell girls that they are pretty? When did that one way road start?
      I don't remember girls saying that to men. This sounds like the matriarchy!!

  • Most Germans will not say they like you but when you ignore them, they’ll start bugging you or question you why you’re not communicating with them anymore. πŸ™„ Hypocrisy at its best lol! I mean WTF, if you like someone, tell it! It’s a waste of time holding on to that feeling and beating behind the bush!

    • You don't understand what hypocrisy is. This is the opposite of hypocrisy. Hypocrisy is telling someone you like them then stab them in their back. If a person is communicating and being friendly with you it's because they like to have you, otherwise will just ignore you

    • ​​​​​​@@Frivalsit depends on what actual thought process or behaviour is being called into question and labeled as hypocrisy

    • ​​@@Frivalslike if they believe that people should tell somebody and talk with them if they like them, but they refuse to live up to that standard themselves, and instead only pester you about not talking to them anymore, even though they like you and haven't told you

  • So if I go to Germany and give a woman a compliment she will get offended. I don't quite understand this video

    • well depends. if you are attractive they will like and appreciate it and they will think that you are so confident for saying things that people usually don't say. but if you are unattractive or short they will get offended because you thought you had a chance with them and they will think you are creepy.

    • @@gliboperuta9213 These people are bizarre .... just being polite and good-mannered doesn't mean you are ready to jump to bed with them, or selling something or trying to scam them. It's just trying to have people comfortable, and feeling welcome, that's all. It's good for the spirit and the soul, you see?

  • Dating a german man rn and he might not be german bc he compliments me in such nice ways....especially while doing the deedπŸ˜…

    • Oh my gosh! What does German dirty talk sound like?! I'm flirting with a German guy at my job and we're not there yet but my mind is wandering πŸ˜…

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