How Men Know She’s the One | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs
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VIDEOS ABOUT COMMUNICATION WITH MEN (Communication Advice)
3 Things You Can Say To Make Him Feel Like a Man
5 Things Never to Say When Fighting (How To Communicate)
What to Say When a ?Vanisher? Comes Back
VIDEOS ABOUT DATING ADVICE
7 (FALSE!) Reasons You?re Still Single
Funny First Date Story! Gotta hear this?
What NOT to do on a First Date (Strange But True)
VIDEOS ABOUT UNDERSTANDING MEN
Why he acts interested, then disappears?(The inside answer most don?t know)
Scared of getting hurt again? Use this mindset?
When Should You Sleep With Him?
VIDEOS ABOUT WHAT MEN WANT / HOW TO TELL IF HE LIKES YOU
The Kind of Confidence Men Find Sexy
5 Unusual Signs Your Man is into You!
How to tell if he is emotionally available
VIDEOS ABOUT CONFIDENCE AND SELF-WORTH
3 Affirmations to Attract Love
3 Ways to Create More Self-Love
Uncool is the New Cool (5 ?Uncool? Things I Do)
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As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.
As the best-selling author of Project Everlasting, and creator of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs? dating and relationship advice has been featured on national media including The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, Oprah and Friends, and many more.
Mat's Mission: To increase love in the world, one heart at a time.
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I met a new guy through his mom. I believe it was a destined meeting, meeting his mom first and then him.
Fitting into each others families is just a bonus, sometimes you dont want them to fit in with your family. My husband even said back in our begining to my mother: if they (his parents) want to continue to have a son they better accept her. And my father wouldnt agree to me getting engaged, to my now husband, for three years and then dragged my wedding for another 5 years in the hope that we would break up. We’ve been together 36 years now. I had a terrible relationship with his mother, not once he talked to me about it.
There are no rules when it comes to love. You might make a list but when it happens to you, you might just tear it up and through it away.
My man came right out of the gate. He does feel like he can be himself and I feel at home with him. We do share the same things, no kids, traveling, walking , yes we share the same values. We fit with each other’s family. He does feel gteat when he’s around me.
Makes total sense. A lot of what you said also can apply to if a woman feels as though he could be “the one”…all except needing him to get along with my family. That doesn’t apply to me because my family is absolutely NUTS and I don’t even like them. I know a lot of what you said, especially him feeling like home and finding solutions vs amplifying a problem applies to how I feel towards a man being “the one”.
Men want to feel intense emotions when they are with someone they think could be ‘the one’. They want to feel a connection that will last a lifetime.
Uhhh… so do women? It seems all the advice I find is all about the men’s perspective. It’s all men men men, women have to be this way and do these things and one thing you get wrong you’re out but if you have a few expectations for him that he can’t work on, he closes himself off from you or looks elsewhere
👏👏👏 thanks to You I know I am the one now! We have talked about marriage. And yes we Will get married.
Thank you Mat, your wisdom is so valuable for this generation. No BS, no games, only truth that comes out from a mature understanding. ❤
So beautiful to watch, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i can’t stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just can’t, i love her so much, i don’t know what i am bring this here for, i can’t stop thinking about her~.
I like the point regarding solving problems vs. amplifying them. I was with an amazing man. He loved to solve problems. In fact, he tended to create problems or to amplify them, so that he could be the hero to solve them. In the end, this was very exhausting for me and I had to quit this relationship.
Thank you for your work, you do such a great job encouraging people to find the love and live the life they deserve.
It has to work both ways surely – women are not superheroes put here to prop up men! Everybody taps into different personality traits and brings out the best, and worst in one another. If you are with a partner who is always making a drama out of everything then, believe me, it wears you down.
its important to understand WHY theres so called drama
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Fantastic presentation!
DaNEill
I am so grateful that I am like this naturally now. I cannot wait for him to come into my life!!! I cannot wait to be the one who comforts him, lifts him up and walks through life as partners together.
I feel like my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years consistently feels all 7. My problem is that he suffers from depression from outside issues. He becomes clingy as if I’m a security blanket. I used to allow him to monopolize my time, which left me feeling smothered. We are working on a balance now.
Feels like I will never find that kind of person.. 😔 so difficult to achieve that…
Some people may feel differently, but I absolutely feel that it is possible to share the same values without having the same religion. I have been dating my man for 4 years, and although we don’t share the same religion, our morals and values are very aligned.
Completely agree with you, your partner doesn’t necessarily need to be of the same religion. A former hairdresser of mine was a devout Catholic from Mexico, her husband a Pakistani Muslim. They had a very happy marriage!
went to a funeral a few years ago….at the eulogy, they said he would read the Sunday Republican Newspaper and she would read the Democrat newspaper! thought that was so cute!
I’ve been pondering about this. My boyfriend and I have mostly the same values but our reasonings stem from completely different places. He’s atheist while I’m slowly coming back around to christianity. At this point we’ve decided that we see a future together but this issue “roughly same values, different roots” has been nagging in the back of my mind bc I hear so much about everything needing to line up from the same place of beliefs
@@violetmyer9078 All I can say is that I’m an atheist who’s been in a thriving relationship with a Christian for 5 years. Having the same values is what matters to us, and as far as religion, we don’t try to change each other’s minds, so it works 🙂
1️⃣ (1:25) *He looks for you igniting intense feelings for him.* Chemistry! He has it for you or not, but the better you implement these next 6 factors, the more intense his feelings will become for you…
2️⃣ (2:29) *Does he feel at home with you?* Can he relax in your presence? A large part of this is if you can be at home and relaxed/authentic/comfortable with yourself!
3️⃣ (3:24) *Do you and him share the same vision for your life?* Do both of you want to travel on adventures or be homebodies? Do you want children? Do you want to homeschool your children? (I might add: even more so than wanting children, do you actually know what a blessing they are and do you want the DUTY & RESPONSIBILITY of being a wife/mom and husband/dad? Because a lot of people “want a spouse” or “want kids” for selfish reasons.)
4️⃣ (4:21) *Do you share the same values?* This is foundational! Do you share the same spiritual or religious values? Do you share the same health values like working out and keeping your body in shape? How do you spend your free time? (Personally I’ve met some great guys who have been beaten down by life that they choose to spend their free time with escapism: usually wasting hours on end playing video games or binge watching movies/tv. And while that turns me off because the etymology of the word “entertainment” literally means “to hold the mind,” and so just like with being mindful and intentional with my diet—I’d prefer if he is also as discerning with what kind of media he programs his mind with. However: I’m not so entitled that this is a deal breaker or red flag. He just needs some inspiration!)
5️⃣ (4:51) *Do you fit with his family? Does he fit with your family?* Although some of us aren’t blessed with great in-tact families: can you easily get along with his parents/siblings? Does he feel accepted and at home with your family? If he does: he can see himself as part of your family. It paves the emotional road of him saying, “yeah, I can see her fitting with me long term.”
6️⃣ (6:14) *He feels great about himself when he’s around you.* If he gets in your presence and feels like a better version of himself because of the environment you create: that is very hard to find and irreplaceable! You are inspiring to him because you see the greatness in him and genuinely compliment/praise him not excessively give him empty flattery. You inspire him that he is greater than his circumstances and help him be more connected to possibilities than to limitations.
7️⃣ (7:44) *A woman who can help solve problems vs. amplify them.* He questions, “We know that life is tough, so is this the person that I want by my side when we face challenges? Is she going to amplify the problems, stress, drama, or is she going to bring peace and calm?” Example: if a flat tire happens on your way to an important gathering: don’t start using SIGN Language (shame, insults, guilt-trips, the need to be right lecturing) out of impatient frustrated anger, but instead understand that it’s not what happens: it’s how you handle it. Gracefully accepting what is happening with a positive outlook to look for solutions trusting that everything will be okay is RARE.
TL;DR
Make _him_ hard, not his life—
and he will make _you_ wet, not your eyes. 😉
Thank you
Thanks sis. ❤
Thank you!! Love your last statement 🤣❤️
@@cherylpa527
Another word of simple relationship wisdom I love from my Tia who just celebrated her 37th anniversary with my Tio:
“Keep the house a peaceful home, a refuge for him to _want_ to come home to after dealing with the world—and when he’s home keep his belly full and balls empty.”
🤭😊😇
Thank you for all of your writing ✍️
Be authentic. Thanks for clarifying ways that can happen. Great videos!
Such good advice! My first husband was “NOT” my person and I wish I knew all this back then. My second now late husband checked all the boxes and I believe he felt this way. We had a beautiful and loving marriage. Now dating as a widow the rules still apply. Ive started a relationship with someone im starting to care for deeply, now 3 years after my person passed. Widows and widowers need special guidance on re-entering a relationship because we still love our person but like me desire it again when we have a lot of life to love and enjoy. But its scary!
I’m sorry for your loss. I hope you find someone that fuels you ❤
Sorry for your loss. You are very lucky
Bless you ❤ I hope you have a wonderful marriage again. 36 and praying that my #1 will finally find me/ask me.
@@ChelissaMoon thank you and me too.
Thank you for sharing your beautiful and wise post. From a widower.
7✔’s 😊 Soo glad I found my ‘one’. And I am his ‘one’. First date, first hug, I knew. He was my ‘home’.
Fantastic advice Matt!! I’ve been seeing a guy that I’m starting to fall in love with. He’s everything I ever wanted and checks all the boxes above, I feel so blessed to have met someone like this. I didn’t know people like him existed. I’m so afraid of messing it up by being too awkward or insecure, which are not normal attributes of my personality at all. Really working on getting away from that and hopefully nailing this down permanently. Your content truly helps me in life. Thank you!