How Men View Sex | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs
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So wise Matt. Thank you for reminding us. When sex is love with a man there is nothing to beat it
I was married for 40 years, he passed away a few months ago. Our physical relationship ended 7 years ago, he was too sick. I’ve had to find other ways to meet that need…no I was never unfaithful, I loved him too much for that. Now that he’s gone I’m probably in phase 1…just the physical satisfaction is what I’m after. It could change but for now it’s working.
I recently found out my bf is consuming porn. It’s staggering the number of men (and women, but mostly men) who’re consuming porn which literally changes your brain. I wish you would do a video on this important topic. It’s an epidemic.
watching porn is completely normal. personally i don’t enjoy those things but there’s generally nothing wrong with it as long as they know the difference between acting and real life sex. sometimes they just need stimulation and it’s really all there is to it🤷🏻♀️
Most women are in phase 3 – where more emotional involvement means more passion and more fun. Without emotional connection there is no fun, and when guy wants to turn sex into “home” and safety for him, we get bored and find a lover who can combine emotion and fun for us.
Home and safety doesn’t mean losing fun and emotion though. You CAN have it both ways.
@@gentlegiants04 It doesn’t have to mean, but that’s exactly what happens with many men, because they separate sex and love and divide women into those for one thing and those for another. Which results in them being less sexual with the women they are in love with. At the end both women suffer, because one is not viewed as a human being, and another is not viewed as a sexual being, and each of them are both.
Some of the problems that I have dealt with are that many men pretend like sex is important to them and it’s all about connection and How they show love and progress the relationship but many people just use this to get what they want. There’s so much deception, lies and abuse out there.
I’m exceptionally selective with my body, mind and spirit. Only the worthy are invited to my temple and to be honest, most people show me that I want them nowhere near me and my essence.
Excellent advice. Wish I’d seen it sooner.
You sound full of it. What makes you worth it.
Casual sex is not for me. There is no way I’m giving my body to a man who’s not in love with me. For me, sex is sacred and only to be shared by two people who are in love with each other.
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I think a lot of people are like that but you know even in love relationships don’t last
I absolutely must have a sense of intimacy with the man…and I must really like who he is…
Marriage first is important. How Stella Got Her Groove Back is just a movie. Sad when women jump to copy what they see on TV and movies.
I agree that sex should be sacred, but sometimes… you don’t know if someone is truly “”in love” with you. Additionally, even marriages can fall apart. With longer life expectancy and the re-assignment of role models in society and the work force- there are far more dynamics to work with…
Phase 2 all the way. On my last and most fun date of the year at the end of the evening my date suggested we go with the energy of what was definitely between us – very attracted to one another mentally and physically. When I said I don’t move that fast, I had standards… He teased me a bit, then asked what I thought the odds were for us to sleep together in the future… He did not call me again, politely texted back and forth for a week and then poof! no more. For those reading this, I say hold to your standards what ever they are for you and be very clear first with yourself, and with your dates where you are with this topic.
Thank you
Yes he just wanted fun May be
Good thing to stuck to your values
Another way, or an additional way, to handle that, is to ask him outright what he wants from you. And listen carefully to the words and the body language of the reply. Make sure you are getting what you want from the relationship. It’s not all for the guy, you know.
He knew you were a time waster.
I realize I am in the minority here but I strongly disagree with casual sex for a couple of reasons. Having said that the way you put this was very informative and eloquent. It helps me with my relationship with my husband and gives me things to talk to my children about as they grow up and reach adulthood.
Nothing wrong with having casual sex.
@Savleen Sur I believe sex leads to a spiritual connection. If you are in the habit of connecting and breaking the connection(by switching partners), then one day you will not be able to connect at all.
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Hi, Mat. Love your content and I would comment openly but I’m concerned with male trolls trying to pick up women in your comments section. Can’t you do something? Very sketchy.😕 there are scammers and unsavory types on the internet…not good.
So your promoting fornication?
This is why you don’t give yourself like this until you know he’s committed. I’d suggest not giving yourself until he says he wants a committed relationship and talking marriage. If they can’t wait, he’s not your guy.
Much better if you only give yourself AFTER marriage. This will make he value you even more.
Someone I like, he was so interested and turned on with me all the time and now he went cold, hurts so much 😢 just found out he has another woman all ready
Agree…..make the man wait and form a bond first..otherwise it will be just sex for him only…
@@vivian_01_ completely agree! AFTER marriage is the best in my opinion as well.
Correct
My problem is that I have never been able to be physically satisfied with sex without an emotional connection.
Hi Lizzy, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??
Lovely smile you got there on your profile picture, it can brighten up the most darkest atmosphere of any man’s world😉
Why do you see that as a problem? If it’s who you are then that is beautiful!
@@lynnita321 , thank you, Beautiful! Ii greatly appreciate it!❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹
It’s not a problem, you are right on!
@@vickigee2928 , thank you so much. Casual doesn’t work for me. Not even with intense attraction. I did try before, with someone that I had a major crush on. It did not work, even the slightest
This is exactly why the Bible tells us sex is for marriage only. I am not any man’s plaything! Learned my lesson the hard way but now I refuse to be used like that ever again!
I tried phase 1 falsely, when I was younger. I convinced myself that was all I required…and ‘relationship’ was about phase 2. My personal circumstance and history is much like your clients, only I’m not looking to recreate history by ‘convincing’ myself I’m only interested in phase 1. I finally learned in the last 10 years that I am unauthentic and being disingenuous to myself and any man by selling that. It’s not who I am or what I’d like to create. I’m definitely requiring phase 2 from intimacy. Great video Mat…very helpful. 🙏
Hi Heather, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??
Lovely smile you got there on your profile picture, it can brighten up the most darkest atmosphere of any man’s world😉
I’m a 65 yr old woman widowed two yrs ago. I can totally relate to your client that found her feminine energy and inner spirit. I am in Phase 1
Hi Sharon, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends?
@@Richardsmithking I’ve watched your shorts! What interesting times you have!
@@Avoid_Low_Frequency Thank you Sharon 😊, where are you from? Maybe we can communicate on a better platform, if that’s ok with you?
@@Richardsmithking Texas (eastern portion of the state). Send suitable email.
@@Avoid_Low_Frequency I live in Cleveland, Ohio. Do you have goo gle chat? Or are you on Face book?
You know what, it’s only John Gray and Matt Boggs that have made me widely, deeply and thoroughly understand the essence of masculinity. My husband and I have a love affair like from the movies. We talk daily on the phone on working days for several hours, and me and my husband’s well-being, as well as our bonding together, is fortified in incredible understanding and deeply love. Both of us are doing really well, we are emotionally well balanced and happy, and we always work together. Each of us understands the innermost essence of the other, my husband my femininity, and I understand my husband’s masculinity. We never fight and solve everything by talking, and we both understand each other, even if we have opposite opinions. We can breathe completely freely because we have an understanding of each other. John Gray’s doctrines were truly fundamentally data breakers, and Matt Boggs’ doctrines were agents of unimaginable change. I can only deeply thank you. Now I have a beautiful family, soon to have 4 children and 10 years in a deep loving and healthy relationship. Needless to say – sex is thoroughly important for men, more than thoroughly important, and that is how it should be!
Oh yes and Victoria says greetings from Finland! You rock Matt, you do an awesome, so important job!
@@Victoria-forever Hi Victoria, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends?
Four years with my partner. I’m happy to say it’s been phase two since ‘day 1’. 🙏🏼❤️
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When I got back out in the “dating business” 18 months ago (Tinder) I was for sure in phase 1. After a long marriage I needed to take time to understand what I REALLY wanted in my next relationship. The casual dating helped me to find and embrace my feminine energy sides and my sexuality. Wow, how much I learned my first year of dating. And what great fun I had 😘. I learned boundaries, I learned what I liked and disliked. I had a lot of help from some of Mat’s programs and videos, also from other feminine energy coaches.
About six months ago I met my perfect match. I truly believe, if I’d met him just when I started dating after my divorce, I wouldn’t have been ready. I wouldn’t have been in my feminine energy and definitely not having respect and love for myself. I wouldn’t have appreciated his amazing qualities and character. He’s very much in his masculine energy which I love. I’m very lucky woman (and I think he’s one lucky man for having found me 😉).
Love from Helena in Sweden 🥰
Hi Helena, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??
Lovely smile you got there on your profile picture, it can brighten up the most darkest atmosphere of any man’s world 😊
Omg, we have almost the exact same story 😮
@@Richardsmithking You wrote the exact same thing to another woman. What are you doing? Are you trying to hit on multiple women in the hope that one will fall for you?
Helena that’s awesome!! All the best!!
I was the one who gave my boys “the sex” talk when they were in their early teens, not my husband. Then again for the 2nd time not long after we got the kids smart phones when the phones were still brand new. My husband called & asked me if I could give the boys another “sex talk” bc
#1 I was very comfortable doing so &
#2 the responsibility of having a phone & what could happen when searching the web no matter how innocent the on-line search may be they could stumble along & find nude photographs.
I was able to give my boys “the sex talk” from a woman’s perspective. Everything you mentioned, Matt, I said the same thing to my boys in 2010. How women view sex VS men
Hi Katja, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??
Lovely smile you got there on your profile picture, it can brighten up the most darkest atmosphere of any man’s world
Sex is the second meaning for me. That’s why I can’t just have casual sex with anyone.
Me too
Ditto
For me there is a spiritual bond connected to it and when someone has sex without a lifelong commitment they are cheating themselves and their future spouse as well. Not to mention STDs.
Try it…
@@bnb0510 Women catch feelings
You know which sex you’re having based on how he treats you the rest of the time. Guys who really didn’t like me but i I thought they did: “Babe, listen, I have to get going. I’d love to stay but I’ve got a lot going on.” My current boyfriend who definitely loves me: “Come on, let’s go out to breakfast. Where do you want to go? What do you want to do later?” The guy who loves you, wants you in his life and he’s noticeably happier. He’s not hurrying out the door.
Spot on
@Mayfloweralways… couldn’t have said it better 💖
That comment was for me 😭😭
🥺🥺🥺 I hope I find that soon
You are right honey glad you found someone who appreciates you