How Men View Sex: What You Need To Know
How men view sex, what you need to know… In this dating and relationship advice video, I sit down with Koereyelle of the "Girl Stop Playin Podcast" to discuss men and sex, plus much more. Take heed to this dating advice, and ensure you watch the entire video.
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So why do they get so upset when women have sex with someone else?
You men always prefer you to text him then talking to him
@Jean Wynter EGO
Where have you been all of my life?! I couldn’t agree with you more! Stellar insight. Superb communication skills. You’re a gift to this world.
What I’ve learned about dating is to never tell a man too much too early. Don’t tell him exactly what you want, you will give him the code to play you. Sit back, be yourself and enjoy the company. Let him talk and you will see the person you’re dealing with. Just listen and sometimes be vague with what you are looking for. They will show you their version of being a good man. Then you can decide if it’s what you want.
Very nicely put sis
🗣️That Part☝️🙌🙌
For sure you are 100% spot on. If you tell a guy you like flowers or perfume you are giving up the key which they use to play you. Tell them nothing, sit back and watch what they do, actions speak LOUDER without you telling them what you want. On the flip side women in general are ruled by emotions, men not so much.
Someone told me long ago, The head don’t pick who the heart loves. Don’t think we will ever figure out the opposite see but we all got to work a little harder.
@Catherine M Sounds like games. I don’t know the feeling of being played because I’ve being straight up with a man. No pretenses. Generalization that women are emotional is not true. Yes, uncommon. I’m an ENTJ which is the rarest type among women. So thought process is more logical. Men tell me, “what I like about you is honesty and no games”. It appears from the comment there is an expectation of being played. If this is the angle of the thought process I can see that manifesting into the outcome you have expected out of a man.
Well said ! Thank you
“Women don’t get played, they play themselves. Stop ignoring y your intuition.”
Omg, that’s powerful!!!!!
Teach your baby girls that from a young age.
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In reality, this is how men blame women for how they as men behave in general and towards women. This is why so many men have difficulty taking responsibility, understanding simple things like “no”, and why they often can’t handle rejection. It’s because everything they do often falls onto women. Women are blamed for things men do to them, rather than the men who made the choice to play a person. This is victim blaming. You can teach girls and young women that some men are players, but the fact remains that when a person thinks or feels they’re in love, they’re blind to red flags, plenty of lessons learned in life are through experience rather than being told. People need to teach their sons better, rather than blaming women for not seeing through the game, because some game is far more slick than other game. You always have people saying “pick better men” to women, while I say, “raise better men” and stop the “boys will be boys” mentality, where most of the problem stems from.
Yeeeesss!! I just said I’m my thirties learning to trust myself
We can sense when people aren’t interested in us at the level we are interested in them. We just need let go instead of trying to win them over.
Bam truth
Yes yes yes! We? Know. We do know.
I agree!
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It hit me when he said… men will say they want to marry an 8 but will sleep with a 6. Bottom line is men, people in general will not always put much value to you, but it is up to you to value yourself! If a guy thinks you are a 6 and not worthy of marriage… keep your legs closed. There will come a man who will value you as an 8, not due to beauty, but your overall worth. I practiced celebacy a lot before my husband because men will use you like you are nothing if you let them. You can see me as a 3 all you want but you aint getying these cookies… my husband values me so he got it… period
Awesome and true😁🙌🏽👍
Good on you!!! You are totally right about what you said.
Wow.lovely
Say it again friend for the people in the back 🔙 row!!!!!!!
this is such a good interview. i wish the younger me was more open to receiving this kind of truth. i think the biggest thing is just accepting people and situations for what they are, and not acting blind to things right in front of you. it sucks we live in a world where people can be cruel, but we don’t have to stay anywhere that we don’t feel 100% wanted/respected.
Acceptance is key, however acceptance isn’t easy. I feel the same way, but with time and experience there is wisdom and more access to these kind of open talks with technology etc
Ladies, if you are an empath or highly emotional especially, remember that when you feel like you are “falling in love” “head over heels” YOU are releasing those chemicals and feeling those feels. Essentially, you have allowed yourself to create those feelings. The problem is that that feeling of falling in love feels so good that you convince yourself its only because the other person must feel the same way. Truthfully they may not be feeling the same way at all. TRUE “love” is a CHOICE made by both partners, with the expectation that the highly emotional feelings of lust are going to subside at some point. Do not confuse lust with true love. I think romance stories as children really set us up for failure. They all paint lustful, young “love” relationships as true love and the gold standard. The real gold standard is the person who makes the choice to commit to you, who has seen you at your worst and best, and still chooses you even after the excited lustful feelings fade!
This right here is truth that really speaks to me. Thank you for this insight.
@Anne Ng’endo thank you for the kind words and glad mine resonated with you!
I was with most of what you said… however I don’t believe love is a “choice” you can’t help who you love and it goes both ways… even when you don’t want to love them anymore and make a choice not to, it’s not that easy or black and white with matters of the heart.
If you’re an empath you’ll have a strong intuition. You’ll know when the emotions you are feeling are not yours. You’re like a walking lie detector, it’s nearly impossible for anyone to fool you unless you let yourself not see it. You need to learn to separate your emotions from what others are projecting around you. If not that’s a big problem.
Well said.
I love these two, both of them speak complete facts for both sides/genders. I love how they are helping people come to an understanding.
I love how Stephan interacts! He is so confident but sounds so down to earth and grounded, no big ego, which makes him even more special in my eyes ❤
He is also honest, direct, well-spoken, funny and very bright.
“If they run away because you go deeper then they are not for you “ 🎉❤
Then* ffs
That don’t make sense
This is healthy dialogue. Stephan is experienced & well versed in relationships. He touched on many key points & as a women there are many take aways I will apply to my personal life moving forward. 👏🏽
I agree, it’s such a healthy dialogue, so pleasing to listen
I agree.
How we perceive ourselves is not always how others see us. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Be with people who perceive you as you do.
90% of what my Dad tells me. I am happy I have a Dad who talks about these things to me at 14 years old.
You are so lucky to have that! I was born and raised in the 50s and my parents never said a single word about anything related to sex relationships anything so consider yourself very very blessed!
I wasn’t allowed to date at your age and I feel it has hindered me when I got older. I never knew what to look for in a date. Don’t chase men. It’s exhausting and it back fires. Let them come to you. You’re the master of your own destiny.
It’s good that your dad talks to you. 80’s and 90’s sex talks were still a little taboo.
i have similar convos with my dad lol. he’s a very open person, and i like that he’s transparent about sex, drugs, drinking etc.. he explains that although these things can be enjoyable it’s also important to be aware of the risks and how you can stay safe.
i wish mine did too but in my family, it’s considered weird for a man to talk about such things to his daughter, the mother should do it, and now when a convo of fhat subject comes up when i’m with my dad, it’s just plain awkward
Same!!
I feel like I am so aligned in my feminine energy but when a man comes into my life, I get so thrown off because I don’t really know where they are coming from in their mentality. I just have past (terrible) experiences that have kept me from being able to see the positive things a good, healthy masculine energy can bring to my life. So I really appreciate this conversation!
If you are thrown off then you know that isn’t the man for you. He should be your balance ☯️, not throw you off your Feminine Energy.🧘🏿♀️❤
I loved this conversation so much! It was such a healthy dialogue. Giving facts, no bias. Just a neutral, friendly conversation that has many helpful information. It did not awake any negative feelings in me so I had this space to stay receptive. I’m glad Youtube recommended this video to me 😊💗
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“your intuition will tell you if he’s lying” Love that it’s the responsibility of the woman to discern when men are bullshiting 🙄 and if we get tricked by literal lies we’re “playing ourselves” 🙄
I agree it is bullshit and shaming women. Yes you need to know your worth and build a strong emotional connection/friendship first to feel safety. But it doesn’t mean it’s your fault if he wasn’t honest or withheld information. Wtf.
I don’t think you got the message. Most women only go for the players thinking they would commit to them.
But how are they having expectations from the player that he would commit to them? That’s just women getting themselves played. I’ve seen many instances of this types of situation.
Also, when women are tricked with lies, they still stick with the men due to some reasons whether it be the fear of missing out or the emotional attachment to them, they still choose to not leave them. That’s what he meant by getting played, because it’s easy for some men to say that since they are not in touch with our emotional nature
I absolutely LOVE her questions and how she’s conducting this interview! I’m learning SOOOO much from his answers!
I’m happy this has been helpful to you, don’t forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
I’m with her. I can’t be with someone I don’t like. And it hurts when you’ve been with someone that only wants you for sex.
My feelings got real hurt this episode 😂😭😂
Reason men have side chicks. Only for the sex, men 90% of the time never leave his woman for another woman.
I’d just rather be single for life than trying to decipher this whole dating thing🥴🥴 I wish everyone the best of luck 😁
Same girl same. #overit
Omg I know I been single cuz I don’t want games
@Alyssa Smith yes, too much mental gymnastics for me.
Agree
same, if he loves me good, if not out the door, im done with the mind games
“If they run away because you’re diving deeper they’re not for you” I love that-so true. I like the way this man is explaining everything straight out even though it’s hurting some feelings😂 online dating has felt like such a waste of time