How MEN View The Importance Of ATTRACTION

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• She may feel it was to get back at him, but it's probably she feels better about herself when he's not around.
  She probably is the reason she is gaining. Could be depression.

  • Did you mean He probably is the reason? If so, I agree.

• I understand what Stephan is saying but some men gain lots of weight & most women just learn to adapt and accept him for WHO he is, not what he looks like.

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  • Yes, but women are held to a higher standard to maintain “BEAUTY” and it sucks at times. Women can accept men for who they are, but men feel entitled, to me, when it comes to a woman’s appearance. You shouldn’t treat a woman like crap just because she gained weight. What if she was pregnant and gained that weight? Why can’t we not judge based off appearance or body type? It’s about the character.

  • ​​@@shaunaebeach Why do y'all ALWAYS make the excuse that "this is baby weight?"
    Exercise DOES exist, you know, and men, for the most part, like in-shape women. It is what it is.
    Besides, Stephan has already, on MULTIPLE OCCASIONS, explained why this is, but, yet, you're still trying to argue over what is is. 🤷
    Stop always putting the onus on the man and do better as women, as you also have obligations to step up and be better.

  • Physical attraction is like 80% of our overall attraction in woman. So you do the math ma. You let yourself go....out goes that attraction he had for you ma. It is what it is. May be still love there, if it was developed already. But attraction...idk. Hmm. IJS

  • ​@@shaunaebeachNobody said treat a woman like crap.

    And don't get me started on women's attraction. Women's attraction is much more fickle than men's.

    All you need to do is be our physical type, and you got us with the attraction. Women...yalls depend on flipping yall switch up and down, nice shoes, smell good, make you laugh & not bored, etc...all mental stuff that we have to KEEP UP...in order to maintain high attraction. With us, all we want is for you to Try to look the same way we met you or close...thats it. Now you tell me which 1 is harder to do?? Cmon now.

• I'm comfortable not having sex right now it's been some years now and I'm good with that

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  • It's been 12 for me but when I get married I'm making up for lost time. 😂

  • ​@@joyricherson4570Lol 😂

• I have 3 children. The youngest was born with cerebral palsy and needed more attention than most children. My husband was no help at all and he even stopped coming home after work. It ruined the marriage.

  • 🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

  • It didn't ruin your marriage your husband not holding true to his views ruined your marriage

  • Sheesh. Thats hurtful.

  • A child with special needs will test any relationship. The beauty about that test is you get to see who you really married. What he/she is made from. Some men show up and others just disappear. I'm sorry to hear about your story. I was once there. Let's just say, he is now sorry and single.

  • @@nezilemthembu9672 My ex is also sorry and somewhat single. He is living with a woman 20 years younger than him and they're both miserable.

• Ladies, stop giving them the leeway that they won't give you. Cause at the end of the day, attraction is important to women, too, and I don't want him gaining a bunch of weight either.

  • Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

  • Yeah, but physical attraction is like 80% of our overall attraction in women. Not so much with women.

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  • I agree, women are visual creatures, too.

  • Yes we are visual also. We have to stop allowing society and myths to shape how we think, feel, move, conduct ourselves, etc. We’ve been programmed so long, especially from what was passed down to us. Our psyche is all discombobulated. We have to deprogram to reprogram ourselves in a healthy way. This relationship thing and what we want and expect/desire goes both ways. Stop asking for what you are not displaying or not willing to compromise and show in and with. No unhealthy balance.

• Hi Stephan, how fast are men typically at evaluating a woman's attractiveness besides outward beauty? How long typically do men take to assess a woman's character, personality, moral values, etc. When looking for someone who is potential wife material?

  • He's already explained all of these things in this video. 🤷

  • Physical attraction is what pulls us to you ma. So you have to be our physical type 1st. Then once that happens, we holla....and we get to know you, vet you, etc.

    Remember, the physical attraction is about 80% of men's overall attraction. Not so much with ladies.

• You have to be what you are expecting from someone else. You shouldn’t expect someone to execute and be what you expect and you’re not fulfilling that for yourself to attract and keep the other party. It’s transactional on both ends.

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  • Amen to THAT! 👍
    These females always want the man to step up, but don't feel they have to JUST BECAUSE they're females. 🤷
    EVERYONE of us has a responsibility to step up, be accountable and, in turn, do better and not keep making excuses as to WHY we don't have to do something.

• Ending up watching this with one eye open coz a little tipsy yet to fall asleep lol. Funny takeaways: abstain, heal, and the right one will come. Love this 🎉❤

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• 4:37 I agree! Although my hubby loved my hair short long loc etc. He did not care😂. That scorpio man. Lol😂.

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• Classic! Just Classic, how you did this interview Stephan. Loved the way you addressed the counter arguments/extremes thrown at you. Your responses, as expected, were mature, practical and wise. Keep up the great work sir.

  • ❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much. I appreciate that 🙏