How to Ask Him Out | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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• Quite frankly, I don't want to date a guy who doesn't have enough confidence to ask me out.

  • I believe some guys like that, are just scared if we ask them out & they say no. They'll feel bad for rejecting you. Or maybe they just don't have will power idk what it is..??

  • Then you're eliminating 50% of the male population! 😂

  • Stay single then, ms Naija 😂

  • Have you ever wondered that maybe the juice isn’t worth the squeeze ?

• Grazie!❤

• What if after 9 months, including heavy flirting, over texts, he still didn’t ask me out?

  • 9 months.....sounds like you're friend zoned and he's not that into you especially if you've given all the signal's you're into him....xo

  • Lol, if you friendzoned yourself not taking the leap or you weren't direct enough. It's not that difficult.

  • @@StillAwesome21 You assumed all that wrongly Mr. “Not awesome”. I was direct and clear. He was not that into me. His loss . I moved on.
    P.S. you should work with Andrew Tate… birds of feather

• Seems like most of the commenters need to actually watch the whole video. These are realistic pieces of advice! Thank you.

• Ummmm....that's what a dates are for getting to know a person. That man should have the guts to ask you out. I'm just straight forward, I'll just ask him..!! Ppl say I'm foward but I don't care.

• My brother in law was extremely shy. He also has trouble talking due to issues in his childhood. He is a good person and is not one to manipulate or be manipulated. My sister had to kind of initiate some of their first interactions because of his shyness. Once she realized he was interested in her, she used similar tactics to these mentioned to make it easy for him to ask her out. They are married now with two children.

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• Matt thanks, I'm shy, but I'm going to take your advice because he's shy also. Rachel

  • One thing I learned is guys love it when the woman appears cool and confident (at least that's what my boyfriend told me). My boyfriend said he liked how confident I was in asking him out. Truth me told, I was nervous, so nervous in fact that I hadn't swallowed for like 10 minutes and so I ended up asking him out through a mouthful of spit. Gross, I know. But he didn't notice until I told him and now it's a funny story we tell. Give me an update, did you ask him out? Did he say yes?

• Good to see you’re using mature couple videos in your videos! Not all of us singletons are all young and under the age of 40!

• I have a couple of friends who did this and ended up in great relationships, but it never worked for me !!!

• I always feel that your relationship videos are useful. 😊 I find guys complex since my 20s. I am married at 34, now I am in my late 30s.