How to attract younger women

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• I'm feeling generous today, so I will save everyone 15 minutes of their time.

  How to attract younger women: Have a large bank account

• For the record Sean Connery was 32 and George Lazenby was 29 when they played James Bond.  The others were indeed around the 40 mark.

  • Fulu Shouxi Where do I say that this is old? Clearly you did not listen to the whole video. 

  • Fulu Shouxi
    The lady said that James Bonds have all been around 40 years old.  I wrote that that is a mistake.

  • Fulu Shouxi
    I suppose it depends on the circumstances.  I was with someone 23 years younger and it was not a problem then but it could have been later.  We are still on very friendly terms!

  • Fulu Shouxi
    Why don't you write to him and say how you feel?  Maybe he would get you a ticket to visit him?

  • Fulu Shouxi
    I think that one of the problems is that we can idealise people who are a long way away and forget that someone who lives in the neighbourhood may be just as good.  However I do think that you ought to contact him, send an e-mail or quick message via skype.

• For me, my wife and I do have a large age gap. I think it is extremely shallow to love someone because of her young age. I just had a hard time finding a woman near my age when most older women tend to earn a lot more money with better jobs. I do have more success in dating women a lot younger than myself before I married my wife. Again, try to find someone based on her character instead of her age, race or appearance. Let's say that I married Kim Yuna, but we ended up in a divorce with our children hating us as parents. Korea has the highest suicide rates in the world. There are many movie actors and actresses who do go through a lot of divorce and suicides both. Instead of trying to attract younger women, try to attract beautiful women in terms of heart and abilities in being your best friend. This is far more important and happier if you can take my advice.

  • Young at heart is what I want, but it's rare in adult women, because it's so often exploited. But it's that vulnerability, that earnestness, that makes them so attractive.

    For example, there was a 19 year old girl who started working at my job. A lot of the guys would tease her to get her to laugh and blush. The potential for making a real connection with her is so much greater than with adult women. Guys want to see her laugh, her smile, because it's so earnest. It fosters trust. That's what human interaction and intimacy is all about, making that real emotional connection with someone. Not simply reacting because it's expected or using some other _reason_ to react. It should always be natural, in earnest, even when it makes you vulnerable.

• Awesome Kezia. This is a great video. I'm 48 and had many lovers, single, never married, and no kids. Some would say i've made it. My sexuality is getting stronger for some reason. Confidence is key and being myself is key. Because I like younger women doesn't mean something is wrong with me. Some may say that it is however. My gray hair will stay even though James Bond has dark hair which was my original color. I can do things in bed with a woman that younger guys with less experience can never do. I have proof. Thanks again Kezia for this truthful insight and the video testimonial. 

• Kezia you've helped me a lot with this video.I'm not an old guy I'm just 25 but I always attracted girls my age or older.I could never attract younger girls than me and I could not understand why,but now from what you're saying I figured something.When I am with a younger girl I try to act younger myself so I probably make myself desperate without me noticing.Thnx I'll give it a try once more.

• Kezia, I'm glad I found your channel - without searching; I just went to YouTube, and there you were. Thanks for your authenticity and your posture. You stand in your power effortlessly. That's a quality that will serve anyone, male or female, young or old. Thanks for your no-nonsense training. It goes way beyond dating. It's about communication, awareness, and marketing. I've subscribed. I look forward to learning from you.

• There is legit tips in this video.  Saying old enough to be your dad definitely lightens the mood.  Even just saying it with a smirk makes me laugh and not care as much as well.  I never thought about that follow up line though.  I'll have to try it!

• Dead on! The older I get the younger I date lol. Maturity and a steady career draws women in like bees on honey. Many young women also have a 'daddy' issue too. I find them more fun and understanding.

• Thanks for this Kezia!! Very useful information, i am a bit self conscious about my age even though i'm only in my late 30's.I still feel uneasy approaching the early to mid 20 year olds, always feeling i have to match the younger guys. I will certainly try your tips next time. Thank you!

  • Spacegoat92
    Haven't even begin to watch the video yet, just seein and reading your comment.
    I met my wife when I was 38 and she was just 25 at the time.

    I spent my entire 30's dating females no older than the age of 26.

    All I'll say is....
    with WOMEN it's all about "stability", if they see your doin fine for yourself, *she'll know that you have the ability to provide a level of security to her life.*

    With females it's all about *security* so it's no need to worry about competing with "younger guys" if you have your own life together as a MAN who's older!

    I could go on but I won't......
    so let me watch this video and see what she has to say?

  • Thanks man. That's good advice. I always think i need to be better than i am, no matter what i have, or have done. And when i like a woman, and i really mean like, not "Oh she's hot i'm gonna chat her up", but when i really want a meaningful relationship, my brain switches off, i become awkward and super insecure around her.

    This could have been someone i had previously had no trouble talking to or being myself around. After i feel something deep, it's like i'm a nerdy teenager again. LoL

• *Kezia* ,
  Thank you so much for making me feel good about being 43 . I love the advice about 'not trying to act young again' . I , myself , have done this a few times and often wondered why the girls never liked that . The Schoolteacher thing was a Great reference. You are definately worth a lot more attention , on my part , as I will be subbing to your Channel . 'Til the next time ,,,
  Thank you !