How to attract younger women

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• I was in the gym when a stunning young girl came in. I asked my trainer which machine I should use to make her attracted to me. He said, “I suggest the ATM in the lobby.”

  • Absolutely hiking is a wonderful way to spend time playing and less paying.

  • That's a sad funny. Women don't even require we spend money. Just do do things, outside, at free events - walk through.... swim, hike, tennis, bike, Kung Fu, ski or ski, jog, art fair, garage sales, picnics, boating, sailing, drive bys, movies,.. no need to eat her arse too fat to dump you, right?

  • @First Last I think he was being serious.

  • Thats a great joke

• Watched a couple of her videos frankly out of pure curiosity. I am older and by the virtue of that been younger of course and chased and dated a fair number of women over my lifetime. I was in my 20's in the 70's so I find nothing has changed much except women did not see all the bullshit reality tv that forms much of American society's filtering of what life should be and who we should be attracted to. I can say that from my experience, America as a society frowns on younger women dating older men unless they are rich and/or famous but this is not reality for many other countries in the world, in fact some places actually accept and understand the attraction that some young women have for older men. She is, in my experience, quite accurate in this video as to how to be more attractive as an older man. Quiet confidence, a youthful sense of life, respect and patience are the real keys that I find have worked. I don't chase younger women, but I have had some find me attractive and they have been quite comfortable spending time with me and I am not rich, or tall but I am youthful, fun and told I am attractive but not like wow he is hot, more I am reasonably good looking and fit and I love to have fun. Once they see I am not chasing them, and that I am confident, respectful and have a sense of humor, they will suddenly start to show signs they are interested in me. Real life experience from someone hope it helps others. Don't let age be the deal breaker, I honestly would not likely find a 25 year old woman more attractive than a 55 year old woman.....the woman has to bring something more than youth to the table and I think that is the same for many women other than in America.

• Thanks a lot, Kezia! A lot of wisdom again in this video.

  There are many authors that speak about the advantages of romantic relationships between partners of great age differences and the prejudices of society on this subject.

  One book, by the late Canadian sexologist Jolan Chang, is particularly good: The Tao of Love and Sex. In the book, there are a few small chapters on the subject of man/woman and woman/men age differences relating to romantic relationships. Unfortunately, it is not available on Kindle. It has been published in French in 2005 with the subtitle "Le Kama Sutra de la Chine" ("The Chinese Kama Sutra")...

• The truth is you always receive what you put out. Meaning if you try to change your character in any way just to use game on a woman that may only be attractive on the surface (which is based on deceit) you receive what you put out, a women that also only looks at the surface of everything and changes her character to get what she wants. Whereas if you are an honest good-hearted man and show your true character to any woman, refusing to ever compromise your values or integrity simply to attract a woman that is beautiful on the surface but may be very shallow deep down, you will attract an honest good-hearted woman. Beauty comes from within, not from without.

• Kezia this is one of the best older guy videos I’ve seen on YouTube. Thanks for covering this as I think there isn’t anywhere near enough content out there for older guys. I’m 49 and plan on working on my game and approaching. I’m lucky enough to look much younger and am a decent looking guy so hopefully that counts for something. But as you said, most of it comes down to having good game.

  I hope to see more content for this age group in the near future, and thanks again!

  • Read the Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi :)

• I haven't so much as kissed a woman since the age of 39 - which was 10 years ago - and soon as I hit 40 it was downhill all the way from there. I always had very low confidence when I was younger and really only occasionally got lucky, mostly through alcohol consumption - though I never ever experienced any intimacy with a girl who I was really attracted to. People say that you get older and wiser - grow in confidence and self-esteem and become more secure as you get older. This is not always the case though, and perpetual rejection and negative experience can actually push you in the opposite direction - I am testament to this. My confidence and self-esteem has actually reached the point of non-existence, I am completely paralyzed by fear and acute social anxiety, and am 1 year away from turning 50. Never mind about attracting younger women, I couldn't even attract women my own age who are divorced with grandchildren.

  • I agree with you Steve. I am in the same boat myself. I was crippled with shyness and insecurity. I suppose a lot of it was financial. It doesn't get better when you get older : it gets worse.
    Actually there is a term for it. Love-Shyness. Women expect men to the the predators and the chasers. But for a lot of men like you and I this is not the case.
    So we miss out on having proper relationships wit women.
    The worse thing in my case is that people in my area actually think that i am Gay WTF!!!!.
    Because they don't see me with a woman. Life is very unfair.

• Thank you for this video. It's been frustrating showing interest in the females I am attracted to with what I see as my disadvantages. Now at least I can see my age as a plus, not a minus.

• It's not arrogance. I have had many girl friends up to 30 years younger than me ( I am in my 50's), it's because I don't get emotional (except at the right intimate times), I don't behave like an idiot around she or others, I know how to handle people in most situations, I am confident in myself and most importantly, I know how to make her feel like she can help me, support me, care for me while I take care of her.

• "First you get the money, then you get the power , then you get the women," Scarface

  • The eyes never lies chico

  • Not all woman give a crap about your money!

  • I’m always reminding people even if you don’t wanna spend it you gotta have it.

  • @Milo
    Here, here. Woof woof!

  • And with divorce you loose those money you tried to get in first place 😂

• *Kezia* ,
  Thank you so much for making me feel good about being 43 . I love the advice about 'not trying to act young again' . I , myself , have done this a few times and often wondered why the girls never liked that . The Schoolteacher thing was a Great reference. You are definately worth a lot more attention , on my part , as I will be subbing to your Channel . 'Til the next time ,,,
  Thank you !