How to chat up women on FACEBOOK

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• Kezia, this sounds very informative and many of the things you mentioned in the video have worked for me, so I think that I am on the right track :)

• My left ear is now ready to chat with girls

• Kezia , I just love watching you talk. You inspire me in more ways than one.

• Kezia, I'm pleasantly surprised to hear you say all this. Let me explain. I've discussed this topic of the profile pix with several girls I knew and I also had a very bad experience with 2 women I met online. You have said you're a very visual person which is a bit uncommon with women. The discussion I had with the 2 girls I met was hard because they took the opposite point of view you have. In my case I was giving them advice on meeting guys online. I have seen so very many profile pix of girls where they're wearing sunglasses, or the pix is totally blurry, or it's done in such low light that I had no idea what she would look like from her 1st pix. (btw, I was a professional photographer so I knew what I was saying) All these girls became insulted because I told them their profile pix should show their face clearly especially their eyes. I even admitted I've always been most attracted to a girl's eyes. They insisted I was wrong and the pix should be secondary to their profile. I lost the debate and I'm sure they've lost out on meeting any number of guys. This is why I'm surprised you said all this. I see this is an old video but my question is do you tell all this to your female friends and what did they say to you?

• I actually have the E-book for online game and it is some of the most refined and aplicable stuf I have ever come upon on the subject.Great work Kezia!

• my advice: if a girl expects you to worship her and pass every single test from her book of ideals without a single fail then she's not a real woman and not worth your time. just be yourself. your personality will attract someone... unless you are pure evil. everyone has a personality. you dont need some girl on a youtube vid to tell you how to be. you cant fail by just being yourself. you will fail by trying to be what you expect others want you to be.

  • Guys, it's ok to be your selves. Being your selves means expressing your self to the fullest and talking about and learning things you're interested in like music and etc.

    HOW EVER. There is nothing wrong with upgrading your self and learning things about the date game.

  • Agreed! I do believe we can upgrade things and learn advice though. But our own healthy interests and being our self is the most important.

    As for Facebook game. Let your profile picture be catchy and simple :) post exciting stuff

  • nero px Totally true. Also: if you go for such a girl, you will forget to think about what it is you actually want which will set you up for the same mistake after she dumps you :)

• The advice on conversation is really an eye opener. I've always had a problem getting out of the box of what to say to start one online, grazie ‎signora!
   

   

• Hi Kezia
  I'm a behavior analyst AND Life Coach Based in Paris, and I also take care of people with troubles connecting with the other gender... 
  I've seen some of your videos, and they are for most of the time, really interesting and they say some right things... But they also feel really directed by your own experience and/or feelings about what YOU assume that women want... 
  (Sorry my English is not perfect) 
  I see that a lot of things you says and you propose men to do are really true. They won't work on any kind of women, they won't work in all the countries, but they will eventually work on a majority of easily impressionable women... Or women in places like night clubs or Pubs... Limited by WHAT they are really looking for. 

  The way you propose men to act, wanting them to make assumptions on a girl to make her react, could make one think that this is a little bit "light" on the matter of the credibility of the girl or the man... 

  I really liked your Subject about how a man should quit talking to a woman while both of them are in the peek of the discussion, making the woman want to continue the discussion, showing her a man with social life etc... this "pre-selection" you are talking about is very interesting and must surely have a lot of success... but it does not go really far on the matter of WHAT is important for the man himself to want to show... and HOW he should show it... 
  For exemple, some women WILL feel offended when in a nice restaurant, a man guets all the attraction, when everyone is coming to say hello to him and take care of him etc... Some women will feel attracted to this kind of power, some others will totally bail... 

  Again... I didn't watch all your videos and I will slowly try to look at them with my limited English. 

  I can see your product is “marketingly" well managed, but if you have a little time and/or interest and/or curiosity for the behavior analyst approche/side on the matter, 
  I'd be pleased to exchange with you on the subject :)

  Well done again for your videos and the product itself. 

  Cyrus Smith. 

• You know those macho guys with big muscles and huge egos that women absolutely hate?
  Well this is the female version...

• I would actually be curious to hear other women's very honest opinions on that "if you post your torso for a profile pic all women will automatically assume it's fake" thing, even though I've never done it.