How to get a GIRLFRIEND

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• I liked this one. The ex boyfriend part in particular concerns me - My girlfriend, who I've been with a few months, never seems to have anything good to say about them so I'm left wondering if its as you say a cycle she's in, she's attracted to that kind of guy, or she lacks self esteem. Food for thought...Thanks, Kezia!

• Thank you Kezia!
  I have always been put into the friend zone with women, and I know why now. I go out of the way for them thinking that girls would appreciate how I give them all the attention and I often 'bend my reality' and become a head-nodder. But I learned from your 1st, 2nd, and 4th tip that in order for women to like me, I must first respect myself. Great tips!

• Thank you so much kezia I've only seen you on master pick-up university but your advice is great and especially when it comes from you a girl. You've changed my life and I just wanted to say I'm thankful

• Kenzia, you offer some of the most intelligent and sensible commentary that I've heard on the topics you select to talk about, and unlike most videos on understanding women and relationships, I feel like I can take you seriously. The difference is that you make relationships out to be less about manipulation and more about ethics. Thank you.

• The talking about an ex thing gets me. That's my biggest turn-off with a girl I first meet, primarily on the first few (1 to 3) dates. I know it reveals a lot, but time it properly. You're bringing up the past (i.e. other men/women) and I'm putting myself out here on the line for you to consider a future with me. Something to think about and, yes, it goes both ways from what I've been told.

• I have a question Kezia. Well basically there was this girl that I was interested in and she clearly attributed the clear signs that girls display when they like a guy : She was a bit shy, she played with her hair, she always was around me etc. and after talking to her for around 3 weeks I told her that I wanted to see her after my last period class so I can ask her something and she agreed. During that day, after we departed, we texted a bit and suddenly we go to the point where we started talking about her friends and she informed me about the guy she is dating. As she said this I told her I cant meet her after class and she asked me to just tell her what I wanted to. What in reality I wanted to say was that at first I wanted to ask her out but then I gave her subtle hints that I cant anymore coz she is dating someone ans she caught on and basically I made a fool out of myself. Is there anything I can do to revert this embarrassment?

  • First of all, you should not feel embarrassed. You haven't done anything wrong or anything that you should be ashamed or embarrassed about. Just tell her you found her attractive and you wanted to ask her out, but since she already dates someone, then your offer is no longer valid. Be a man and be honest about your actions and your feelings. This is nothing but showing how confident you are, and most guys can't do this. Next time, if you are interested in a girl, don't tell her you want to meet later to tell her something. If you like a girl and you want to ask her out, do it right there and then, without any staging or asking her to meet you later. You have nothing to be embarrassed about. After you do what I told you, she will see you as a confident guy who isn't afraid to say what he wants to say. I can guarantee you this.

• me being a guy I hate having to be so valued and judged upon my career, stability, societal position, occupation, etc.

  • To be fair I don't think women actually care about the status/job title etc. Its more the inference of seeing ambition. A guy who is out to achieve on his own is an emotional investment that'll probably grow over time. Women are attracted to the alpha...you just have to be alpha in one particular genetically appealing trait...physical, monetary, social (funny/charming/witty etc). Attraction is a biological thing...we can't blame women for being genetically predisposed to want the best potential mate for whatever criteria they value most depending on their age. 

  • ya, mainly because I want to be able to have a girlfriend while i'm not well-established yet

  • because i'm not looking to get married or settle down yet or starting a family anytime soon

  • being the protector is fine, it's being the provider I hate the most

  • nobodysperfect06 It's always been that way throughout history. The feminism movement is taking some of that pressure off though (not that it's a good thing).@Justin45: There's an epic program called "Mack Methods"..
    Look it up man.. easy to find and it'll probably help your game a lot. It's free too.

• There really is not a "way of getting a girlfriend". All people are different. It really depends on the person. I could be wrong, but that is how I see it.

• I'm still surprised regarding to how much effort this girl does to get people involved in a illegitimate relationship otherwise i have a sort of  misunderstanding to the "Girlfriend" relationship !

• Don't ask a fish how to catch a fish... Ask a fisherman

  • TrueEvilGamer Golden quote right there!

  • TrueEvilGamer Perfect comment.

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  • ***** Try again, and now without sounding like an bot.

  • TrueEvilGamer damn... +1